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Mrs. Perfume, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Consultant (and Part-Time Professor) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 41, Consultant Engagement Date: May 13, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Venue: The Homestead, Hot Springs, Virginia About Me: I'd like to think that I'm a modern day Little Edie Beale. Only not as..."talented". More realistically, I'm a foodie who can't bake; a dancer and dilettente; an art collector with a penchant for the whimsical and subversive. I live in the city and adore the country, but not much in between. I like smart design, great craftmanship and good value. Most of all, I love the new vintage aesthetic: classic, sweet, delicate, bespoke. If I had to do it all over again, I'd go for a culinary arts degree rather than a PhD; but wouldn't trade Mr. P for the world.
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The First Homestead Resort (c. 1840-1890s; burned in 1901), Hot Springs, Virginia

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We had planned a trip to the Homestead resort last year to, ostensibly, have a bit of a mini-vacation. Approximately 3 hours from our home in downtown Washington, DC, it’s close enough to drive and far enough to feel like a real getaway, so we visit quite often. However, this was the weekend after the proposal, and turned out to be no ordinary visit. And so it was… yet another surprise! Mr. P had actually planned it to be a wedding venue scouting trip!


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For those who are unfamiliar with the Homestead, it is an old resort nestled in the stunningly beautiful Virginia countryside on 15,000 acres in the Allegheny Mountains. Renowned for its natural hot springs, travelers have enjoyed their benefits for more than two centuries.

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An early advertisement for the resort, c. 1910s Source

A brief history: The first incarnation of the resort was established in 1766. It was a decade before the American Revolution, when Lt. Thomas Bullett–friend and officer of George Washington’s Virginia Militia–was paid for his military service with 300 acres of land that included seven mineral springs. Lt. Bullett convinced members of the militia and their families to homestead in the Hot Springs area, where he improved the springs and built a rustic wooden lodge on the site of the current resort.

The resort was often referred to as the Grande Dame of the mountains. From the tiny wooden structure of Lt. Bullett, there came many improvements and expansions, as well as several changing of hands of ownership. One of those hands was the financier, JP Morgan, who was responsible for its revitalization after years of decline. At the turn of the 20th century (circa 1901), a fire razed many of the buildings. And so Morgan constructed a new, imposing Georgian-style brick main house (or hotel) to replace the structures damaged in the fire.

Given its proximity to Washington DC, many US Presidents have visited the resort, with everyone from Thomas Jefferson to William Jefferson Clinton; from Howard Taft to FDR to enjoy the breathtaking scenery and unique springs.

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Franklin D. Roosevelt, c. 1930s Source

But aside from the neat history, the grounds and buildings are really beautiful (all these images below are borrowed, since apparently taking good pictures is not within my capabilities):

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The front porch

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The entry foyer

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The Spa Garden, where the ceremony will take place

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The lawn where we’ll have the cocktail hour

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The Crystal Ballroom where we’ll have the reception

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In the ballroom, various banquette seating areas around the perimeter of the dance floor are great for lounging

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It is the history, the natural beauty, and the relaxed grandeur that keeps us coming back… but it was only after much deliberation, narrowing the venue candidates down to three—1) friend’s horse farm in Leesburg, Virginia to 2) Mr. P’s family’s home, also in Virginia and, 3) this fave weekend getaway—that we chose the “grand lady”.

The defining factor was pretty much logistics. It seemed a daunting task to arrange tents, coordinate vendors, bathrooms, catering, etc. I admire those who can plan and execute their big day (with or without the help of a planner). We know our limitations, and the Homestead offers a great venue that includes an event “director” (which is typical of most hotels) to help pull things together.

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Was convenience a major deciding factor in choosing your venue? Or did you opt for a venue that seemed trickier to work with, but was your “ideal” wedding venue?

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18 Responses to “The Venue: The Historic Homestead Resort”

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Miss Deviled Egg (message)  1,250 posts, Bumble bee

Wow! The Homestead is amazing! Your wedding will be so beautiful.

 
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honeymyheart

your place looks so grand. the ballroom is my favorite part, from the colors used to the furniture.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,415 posts, Bumble bee

I can’t wait to see pictures or your wedding already! This place is gorgeous!

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,804 posts, Buzzing bee

Your wedding will be beautiful! And yes, we totally picked our venue based on convenience- and a million other little things of course.

 
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Sarah

I live in DC as well and have been to the Homestead twice. It is an AMAZING place. If I had been ok with my guests going that far (I did make them go to Annapolis, which is almost an hour outside of DC) I would have had my wedding there!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

I’m having serious venue envy here! WOW!
I love the porch and the garden :)

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

And despite its “grandness” the Homestead is not astronomically priced. As many of you DC brides know, DC venue prices can be crazy! For example, we were interested in the Meridian House…It rents for about 10k…that’s without catering and other ancillaries! The Homestead does not charge a rental fee as long as you meet the catering minimum (about 15k).

 
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Josalyn

Oh wow! I’m jealous already and you haven’t even had the wedding yet

 
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amy77jc (message)  276 posts, Helper bee

Your venue is gorgeous… i didn’t even know about this place… I have so much to explore here in DC ! :)

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Mrs. Green Tea (message)  764 posts, Busy bee

convenience was really up there on our list of criteria, i had foresight that planning would be a pain and i was so right. thank goodness our venue was close and relatively easy to work with, i wouldn’t have made it to the end otherwise!

btw, gorgeous venue!

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  972 posts, Busy bee

You’re going to get some killer photos on that banquette! Lovely.

 
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Shanna

What a fantastic location. The homestead was where the FI and I had our first getaway together.

 
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Mrs. Tulip (message)  661 posts, Busy bee

Mr T and I never take driving trips in the area, but those stunning photos have me inspired to go! Can’t wait to see more of your wedding plans.

 
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EAQ219 (message)  1,448 posts, Bumble bee

That is a stunning venue. The outside architecture (brick with white trim) reminds me of my alma mater, Ohio University. There is a former mental hospital on the OU campus (I know it sounds bad, but stay with me) that is the same style as this building. Can’t wait to see more!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

omg, nutty-chic is THE look i’m going for!

 
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Miss Latte (message)  651 posts, Busy bee

Beautiful venue!!! You are going to have some gorgeous photos there…

 
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ErinMarieMack (message)  728 posts, Busy bee

Wow! I can just imagine guests sipping lemonade on the front porch. Sigh.

 
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NiceWedding (message)  46 posts, Newbee

I love it. Mr. Nice and I live in Arlington but are going to get married in my hometown of Ocean City, Md. Since we can’t get away for a honeymoon until about 6 weeks after the wedding, we’re thinking of a little two night mini-moon and the Homestead is our list. The Greenbriar is another option, but a little farther away.

 

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Mrs. Perfume, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Consultant (and Part-Time Professor) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 41, Consultant Engagement Date: May 13, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Venue: The Homestead, Hot Springs, Virginia About Me: I'd like to think that I'm a modern day Little Edie Beale. Only not as..."talented". More realistically, I'm a foodie who can't bake; a dancer and dilettente; an art collector with a penchant for the whimsical and subversive. I live in the city and adore the country, but not much in between. I like smart design, great craftmanship and good value. Most of all, I love the new vintage aesthetic: classic, sweet, delicate, bespoke. If I had to do it all over again, I'd go for a culinary arts degree rather than a PhD; but wouldn't trade Mr. P for the world.

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