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Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
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Flaming Hoops

February 2nd, 2009 @ 11:02 am by Mrs. Crab Cake

We’re trying desperately to get our invitations together and out the door. I think I have an easier time wrangling my 4-year-old into socks, shoes, and her jacket at 6AM every morning.

If we can ignore the multiple redesigns these invitations have undergone, the story will be shortened significantly.

Really, I won’t bore y’all with my historic indecisiveness. I thought Mr. CC was going to shoot me by the time it was all over with.

My mom and I planned to work on them this morning.

The paper was ordered the week before Christmas. I should have known better than to order anything that week, but the money was there, so I went for it. When the FedEx man attempted to deliver my paper, we were both at work. So, he left it on the porch, hidden from plain sight behind a couple of bags of mulch. Not just hidden from plain sight, but also hidden from my sight as well. I totally overlooked it on the porch, went out of town, and then I checked the tracking system and realized it had been delivered. People, I had been stalking this paper! Well, before I flipped on the delivery man, I waited to get home and of course, there it was, safe and sound, on the porch.

I hadn’t ordered the vellum I wanted, but I remembered seeing it at one of the office supply stores and figured I would pick it up later.

I thought that would be the only hurdle we would have to jump. Boy, was I ever wrong.

The day I went to get them printed, I realized (after I had already driven to the printers) that I hadn’t ordered enough paper. Actually, I ordered half of what I needed. Argh. I went to every single office supply and stationery store in town trying to find something similar. No luck, and no vellum either! So, I ran home, placed another order online (plus vellum), and hoped it wouldn’t take too long to get here.

FedEx attempted delivery on a day when I was teaching class until 11:45. They delivered it at 11:40. And this time, they wanted a signature. Fortunately, I was home the next day when they delivered. But what I ordered was not what I wanted. The vellum was all wrong. Instead of panic, I redesigned. Okay, problem solved.

This morning, I went back to the printer and got our invites successfully printed. However, the cutting was a little bit of a different story. “A couple of hours.” So much for our invitation filled morning!

Has anyone else felt like they were jumping through hoops to get their project accomplished?

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9 Responses to “Flaming Hoops”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Argh! Sounds so frustrating! You have my sympathy…and curiosity as to what the final product will end up looking like.

 
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Out of curiosity, are you sending them soon? I always heard two months before the wedding was best, since people tend to ignore them when they’re sent earlier.

 
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Miss Piglet (message)  1,045 posts, Bumble bee

Eeks! I’d probably be in tears if that happened to me. I’m sure all the hard work and perseverance will pay off, and your invites will look gorgeous!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

@Miss Piglet: Ditto, I probably would have been in tears too!
Good Idea redesigning though :) That probably saved some headaches!
I can’t wait to see the fruits of all this labor.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,415 posts, Bumble bee

That definitely sounds like flaming hoops! It sounds like you were able to make it work though! I’m not sure I would have been level-headed enough to do that. I’m looking forward to hearing the rest of the story and seeing the results!

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  708 posts, Busy bee

My invites were absolutely flaming hoops! And I made mine with a kit! After printing the inserts from the first box of forty, I went into the next box only to find that the invites and RSVP cardstock didn’t match with the first box, or with each other! I couldn’t even mix and match to make sure someone got one invite where everything matched within it! AND I’d already started printing on the first set. I thought I was going to throw my paper cutter across the room when I then had to trim the pre-cut inserts down by an eighth of an inch because they were too big for the gated card they’re supposed to go into. Luckily my rage subsided into zen as I handglued every last little hydrangea onto them. I didn’t even get mad when West Coast Groom pointed at the flowers on the completed invite and said “those things are weird.” Ohhhhhhhmmmmmmm

 
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Miss Latte (message)  651 posts, Busy bee

Sounds like a day in the life of Miss Latte. Sorry CC…I feel your pain. I honestly believe that FedEx, UPS, USPS and (especially) DHL all work to sabatoge everything I do. Good for you for being so flexible and redesigning your invites! Can’t wait to see them!

 
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saramari (message)  315 posts, Helper bee

Hang in there, Miss Crab Cake! I feel like my whole life is a series of flaming hoops right now, including but not limited to wedding planning!

Looking forward to your invitations! I’m sure they’ll be worth it. :)

 
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kenziegirl (message)  339 posts, Helper bee

We’re sending ours in Feb (fingers crossed)… and I’ve had a “few” issues including venue change (and had to have invites redesigned) and a (free) calligrapher (well, my mother) who did HER FRIENDS’ envelopes EXACTLY how I wanted all of them, and the rest… not so much (abbreviated streets and directions, a few even had white out on them — what?!). Sigh. We’ll get there.

 

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Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).

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