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Mrs. Peep Toe, San Francisco Age and Occupation: 29, Policy Analyst Fiance's Age and Occupation: 36, Olive Oil Production Manager Engagement Date: December 16, 2007 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Hotel Vitale About Me: I am a west coast lady who loves the San Francisco Bay Area. I love living with Mr. Peep and our animals: Huck the Dog and Ferris the Cat. I work to save the environment in San Francisco, while Mr. Peep makes ridiculously delicious Olive Oil. On any day you can find me reading the latest book I have gotten my hands on, eating Swedish Fish, and perusing wedding blogs! We are both champagne drinking foodies on a Bud Light budget. We are planning an eco-chic, intimate, and interfaith San Francisco City wedding.
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Kicking Off the Dance Party

February 23rd, 2009 @ 3:03 pm by Mrs. Peep Toe

Mr. Peep is a total music person. On our first two dates, other than bringing me flowers and sparkling wine, he burned me two mixed CDs, and I only knew one song from both CDs. Now these songs are burned into my brain from listening to Mr. Peep’s music practically non-stop for the last three years. He introduced me to folks like Gomez, the Arcade Fire, Spoon, Silversun Pickups and the list goes on.

While we have a couple songs that are our songs, neither of them are first dance material. The first song is My Doorbell from the White Stripes. But it is so not first dance material. The other song is almost a contender; I love it, but you can’t really dance to it (we tried, and failed): See the World by Gomez

We talked about what we would dance to for months- then we got in a bit of a skirmish over it. So I decided to drop the subject for a few months and gift Mr. Peep a mixed CD full of first dance contenders for our third date-a-versary.* It seemed so appropriate.

Yet where would I find all these fabulous songs? The Weddingbee Wiki for this topic is pretty great, but I knew we needed something different. I’d be more than happy to dance to something classic, but Mr. Peep didn’t seem into it. So I went where any novice music lover should go for great inspiration: Pandora!! It’s genius. You type in one song you like and then they create a station for you based on that song. You can even make mixed stations with multiple songs you like.

For the last few months, I have donned my headphones at work and bookmarked all the songs I thought might make the first dance cut. I compiled all the songs about a week ago, and I had over 25 songs! Fantastic. I used a handy dandy gift card from iTunes and created two CDs for Mr. Peep. I presented them to him first thing on our anniversary. He ran (well sauntered is more like it) over to the stereo and put the first one in as we were getting ready for work.

The first contender was a Jack Johnson song. Mr. Peep heard this song and said right away that this should be the song we dance to. I love it, but he still had a lot more tracks to go. Sorry, the song doesn’t start until 17 seconds in:

I had to head out the door for work, so I left Mr. Peep to listen to the rest of the music. I eagerly called him when I got to work and asked what song he liked. He asked me about the first song on the second CD. Since I didn’t have the list memorized, I told him to look up the iTunes account. He said he started to cry when he first heard it (don’t tell him I told you) - I knew that second that this would be our song. I have been humming it for months and I love it. He told me later that he thinks she is saying Jeremy (his name) in the video, so it’s even more appropriate than I first thought. It’s not really a video, but the song:

So there ya have it!! The Peep’s first dance song! It’s new, different and totally perfect.

Since I think I made a pretty great list of potential first dance songs, here’s the playlist. Some are classics, some aren’t and some are classics with a twist. And so sorry if these are just not your style.

Into The Mystic, Van Morrison
Wonderful Remark,Van Morrison (our third choice!)
Days Like This, Van Morrison (obviously I like Van Morrison)
1 2 3 4, Feist (this song is just so fun)
Can’t Take My Eyes Off Of You - Lauryn Hill
Little Romance - Ingrid Michaelson (this didn’t actually make the CD since I would have had to buy the whole album, but I love it just the same)
You Really Got A Hold On Me, She & Him (thank you Weddingbee for introducing She & Him)
Fly Me To The Moon, Frank Sinatra (these next few are classically perfect)
Come Away With Me, Norah Jones
You Make Me Feel So Young, Frank Sinatra
I Wish You Love, Tony DeSare
Moondance, Michael Buble
La Vie En Rose, Louis Armstrong (this song always reminds me of the movie French Kiss)
Falling Slowly, Glen Hansard & Marketta Irglova (you MUST see this movie, love it!)
Forever, Ben Harper (there really couldn’t be a more perfect love song than this!)
In Your Eyes (Acoustic), Sara Bareilles (as an 80’s fan, I love this version)
New Soul, Yael Naim
Supposed To Be, Jack Johnson
Songbird, Eva Cassidy (inspired by Mrs. Cookie and Love Actually)
The Way I Am, Ingrid Michaelson (love this song, and so do other bees)
1963, Rachael Yamagata (not really wedding-esque, but a great song)
Maybe I’m Amazed, Jem
You Are The Only One I Love, Jaymay

Hope you enjoy! So, are you going with an old stand by, or something new and different?

*Decidedly the last time we’d celebrate our date-a-versary since we’ll have an even better anniversary to celebrate next year!

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19 Responses to “Kicking Off the Dance Party”

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Miss D'orsay (message)  1,293 posts, Bumble bee

Yay! I love Jaymay - great choice!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

You’ve got some great ideas on your list — but congrats on finding your perfect (different) something!

 
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

Have you heard of Michelle Featherstone? She has a song called “We Are Man and Wife” and my friend had her best friend sing it at her wedding. I think it’s a great first dance song… This was the best sample I could find:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYKYGFcTgmg

 
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Mrs. Bluebell (message)  294 posts, Helper bee

The first time I heard that song, I turned to my husband and said “if we hadn’t gotten married yet, we would HAVE TO play this song at our wedding!!” Great choice! :-)

 
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Miss Quiche (message)  2,177 posts, Buzzing bee

I love Jaymay too!! I am soooo happy that others are listening to her!!!!! Great choices, Peep.

 
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hcookma (message)  3 posts, Wannabee

Bwahhhahahhaaa!! I thought WE were the only ones who serenaded each other with the doorbell song!

 
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Abbee (message)  62 posts, Worker bee

Pandora is so great! My guy introduced this to me not too long ago, and they have a mobile app too!

 
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IdahoSummer (message)  192 posts, Blushing bee

Miss Peep Toe, this is a great list, thanks! And, I didn’t know about Pandora- what a great resource. We’re doing an ipod/laptop wedding, so this is a huge help.

 
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jennred782 (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

I love pandora my roomate introduced me to it and now I have my mom hooked on it also. Such a great way to find arists you haven’t heard of or have forgotten.

 
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Miss Piglet (message)  629 posts, Busy bee

oooooh, i’ve never heard of jaymay but i love her voice! great song! i also LOVE New Soul by Yael Naim. :)

 
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

We’ll be dancing to “Lucky” by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillait. He loved it the first time he saw the video, and I knew that was the song! I love your playlist though, such great songs!!

 
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deejaylondon (message)  57 posts, Worker bee

I love Pandora too! It’s the best!

We’re dancing to “Forever” by Moby. I haven’t heard of anyone else doing that one yet!

 
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PeachandPearl (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

Great picks!

 
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sunnyb77 (message)  39 posts, Newbee

How could you forget my favorite Van Morrison song - Tupelo Honey?

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,600 posts, Sugar bee

I love my doorbell! It puts a smile on my face every time I listen to it. I am seriously considering doing “fell in love with a girl” as the second part to our first dance, but am a little worried that the lyrics are weird. Will definitely dance to it at some point during the reception though!

 
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Mrs. Tulip (message)  615 posts, Busy bee

Great list! And we had “1963″ on our wedding playlist/CD as well. Despite her seeming chronological confusion (hippies in 1963? really??), there’s something uplifting about the tune that captures just how I feel about being in love….

 
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Miss Doodle Bug (message)  52 posts, Worker bee

Great list. Not to make it even longer, but check out The Book Of Love, by Peter Gabriel. I just discovered this song the other day on someone’s blog and now I’m in love with it. Happy Dancing, Miss Peep Toe:)

 
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doublemint921 (message)  489 posts, Helper bee

Wow these are great! Even though we are decided between two songs for our first dance I have been looking for other good songs that are different from the same old playlist that you hear at weddings. Thanks for the suggestions!! :)

 
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