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Mrs. Martini, New Jersey Age and Occupation: 30, Telecom by day, Superhero by night Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Investments & Finance by day, Hip hop dancer by night Engagement Date: May 24, 2008 Wedding Date: March, 2009 Blogging Since: August 18, 2008 Venue: The Venetian About Me: Things that make me happy: Haribo Happy Cola gummies, TV shows on DVD, buying books although I never read them, 80’s rock ballads, ramen, and of course Mr. Martini! He is the calm, logical and number crunching finance guy. I can’t even multiply double digit numbers in my head and I am so indecisive that trying to choose between light green or slightly lighter green paper stresses me out (Wedding planning is going to be soooo much fun). We both find great joy in nabbing great seats at the movie theater for a blockbuster movie on opening weekend, and we are both absolutely crazy about snowboarding. And he loves to cook, I love to eat!
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My Shoessssss!!

February 26th, 2009 @ 4:29 pm by Mrs. Martini

I have to admit, after Mr. Martini dropped off my shoes for me at T.O. Dey to dye them from white to an aubergine color, I couldn’t stop thinking about them for days. I spent more money on those shoes than any other shoes I’ve ever owned, and I was terrified of ruining them because I had no experience with dyeing anything. What if the color came out wrong? I don’t think I would’ve minded much if the color was similar, but what if it was completely off and not wearable? I started having second thoughts. Maybe I should’ve just listened to my mom and left the shoes alone.

It didn’t help when we called them a few weeks later to confirm pick up, and they informed us that the shoes weren’t ready because the particular dye was back-ordered. All of a sudden the color was the least of my worries. If the shoes weren’t done in time for the wedding, I’d be walking down the aisle barefoot!

Luckily when they found out how important it was for my shoes to be completed by a certain deadline, they called us back not long after to let us know that they were ready. Since I’m in NJ, I had to rely on Mr. Martini to pick them up for me, and then I had to wait until the weekend to see them.

When the weekend finally came and I saw Mr. Martini, I barely gave him a kiss hello before I asked in a squeaky voice about my shoes. He handed me the shoebox, and I only paused slightly before pretty much tearing apart the lid. And then when I saw them…

I breathed a sigh of relief as happiness flooded my tear ducts. They were gorgeous!

Here is what they looked like before being dropped off at T.O. Dey:

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This is what they look like now:

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I compared them to the BM dresses and my sash, and it is a PERFECT match! Needless to say, I was sooo happy. I turned the shoes around and around and I couldn’t believe the quality of work that was done on them. You can even still see the stitching on the bows. They even colored in the bottom of the shoes black (they were originally a beige color) to match the tops of the shoes better. They do look a little dark in the picture (they’re not as dark in person), but when I slipped them on, I thought they were perfect.

My plan (and justification for buying such nice shoes) was to dye them black after the wedding so I can wear them over and over again, but they’re just so nice in purple that I might leave them they way they are now. It’s a little funny - I never thought I’d go nuts for shoes, but I’m really excited to be wearing these down the aisle.

Were you able to find the PERFECT shade of shoes for your wedding? Where did you find them?

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57 Responses to “My Shoessssss!!”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

I LOVE how you can see the stitching color contrast! And those are going to look SO cute post-wedding with an LBD, jeans…just about anything!

 
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BeachBrideT
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BeachBrideT (message)  1,056 posts, Bumble bee

Wow! Those are beautiful! And one of the first things I noticed was the stitching on the bow! Amazing!

 
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BeachBrideT
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BeachBrideT (message)  1,056 posts, Bumble bee

And I definitely think you should keep them this color… they are just too cute!

 
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Habibi
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Habibi (message)  571 posts, Busy bee

gorg! thanks for the review, I have them bookmarked for future use!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,642 posts, Bumble bee

LOVE THEM!

 
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future.mrs.tamez
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future.mrs.tamez (message)  35 posts, Newbee

oh they are beautiful! i am in love!! (: i’m loving the color! and the stitches look great!

 
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Luvbug6315
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Luvbug6315 (message)  427 posts, Helper bee

those came out great!

 
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Ms. Sapphire
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Ms. Sapphire (message)  231 posts, Helper bee

Your shoes are gorgeous! I already have 2 pairs of shoes for my wedding but if I could go back, I would pick up those Stewart Weitzmans in a heartbeat. So glad to hear the color came out perfectly!

 
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rosychicklet
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rosychicklet (message)  2,238 posts, Buzzing bee

Ooh! That look great. I can’t believe they were able to leave the stitching like that!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,668 posts, Sugar bee

the stitching detail is such a nice touch! i’d definitely keep these colors. can you imagine the fun trying to find perfect outfit to finish off with these shoes? good times.

 
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heather25
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heather25 (message)  478 posts, Helper bee

Hey what was the cost on these…TO Dey isnt too far from me and they look amazing!

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

Wow! Abergeen is a difficult color to match! Those look so great, and I love the contrasting stitching. And painting the soles black? That store rocks!

 
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ckbell
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ckbell (message)  14 posts, Newbee

They look amazing!! Looks like they did a great job.

 
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eva

I found a pair of perfect pink weitzman’s for my wedding. The shoes and my Fiancee’s tie are what we’ve based our wedding colors on. :) Your shoes are awesome and I love the color.

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,276 posts, Honey bee

I think I would leave them as is because they look so great! I really like how they left the stitching and I like how well you can still see it…love the little details!

 
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LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

O M G! OMG! O M G! that is absolutely gorgeous! I’m been racking my brain for a gorgeous purple wedding shoes! They’re so perfect! Thank you so much!

 
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Ali

LOVE them. Definitely keep them in the aubergine color!!

 
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Miss Quiche (message)  2,188 posts, Buzzing bee

They look great!!

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

They look great! I LOOOVE that color :)

 
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ljcadv
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ljcadv (message)  109 posts, Blushing bee

holy moly those are great! I found my perfect red shoes at macy’s the are BCBGirls LOVE EM!

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,473 posts, Bumble bee

They look great, so glad they came out perfectly!!

 
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cj2009 (message)  306 posts, Helper bee

they are so pretty!

 
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Miss Piglet (message)  629 posts, Busy bee

those are so purty! keep them that shade! you could totally rock those after the wedding, miss martini!

 
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pinaybride
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pinaybride (message)  71 posts, Worker bee

oh, miss martini…

i worship you and the ground you and your purple dyed-stuart weitzmans walk on!

i’ve been contemplating about doing the same to my shoes (to have them dyed green) and i’m so happy you volunteered as guinea pig!

i’m so ripping you off and heading out to TO Dey!

thanks for the fabulousness!!!

 
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AtlantabrideinNY

I love, love, love, love, love THESE SHOES!!!! Did I mention I love them? OMG!

I live in NY and had heard of TO DEY but wasn’t sure if I could trust them. You sealed the deal for me, seriously! I’m heading there right after my shoes come in.

These are gorgeous and I agree, the stitching is a cute detail! Congrats!

 
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pacos
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pacos (message)  109 posts, Blushing bee

Your purple shoes is soooooooo pretty!

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  672 posts, Busy bee

OK, I may have just made up my mind to buy white bridal shoes and have them dyed….I’m looking for some raspberry pink deliciousness and have not been able to find anything that works, and my first fitting is in only a few weeks…..Unfourtunately, all the greatest shoe goodies are on US sites, and the customs charges to get them sent to Canada is very steep:-(

 
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ES123 (message)  1,024 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, they look great. I got my shoes dyed too and the color was totally off when I picked them up. Luckily I live close and told them to re-do it. I haven’t seen the second try yet.

 
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amanda b. young

OMG! I LOVE THEM! They look even better dyed too — the dye job is simply amazing. I love the stitching contrast and that they changed the bottoms for you. Just gorgeous!

 
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sorry

wow, your shoes went from blah to gorgeous! congrats!

 
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Vic004
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Vic004 (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

Love your shoes!! Love them!!

 
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loralie
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loralie (message)  545 posts, Busy bee

OOh, pretty… I’ll admit I was a bit snobby about the idea of dying shoes (kept picturing shoes dyed and then it rains and then your feet are dyed) but now, I wish I had dyed shoes. Purple shoes….

 
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chuelyxiong
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chuelyxiong (message)  6 posts, Newbee

Your shoes look amazing!! The aubergine makes the shoe pop!!! They look 100x better than how they were before!

I can’t wait to see how your wedding turns out!

Mr. Martini is such a sweetheart for taking your shoes in and picking them up!

 
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miss mouse (message)  3,367 posts, Sugar bee

Gorgeous!

 
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honeymyheart
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honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

wow the dye job turned out so well!! i love the color. i never considered dyeing my shoes, but this has me considering it.

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  913 posts, Busy bee

They’re absolutely gorgeous. How on EARTH did they keep the stitching white?

 
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Miss Spring Roll (message)  718 posts, Busy bee

SOOOOOOOOO cute :)

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,607 posts, Sugar bee

They are so cute!!! Were they advertised as dyeable? I have been looking for cute dyeable shoes for what seems like forever, and went to see the Lela Rose line at Payless in desperation!!!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

wow you’re one brave soul for dyeing yr Stuart Weitzmans ;)

 
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anon

@Mrs. Sea Breeze: The fiber the thread is made from is probably different than the fiber the rest of the shoe fabric is so it didn’t take the dye.

 
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PeachandPearl
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PeachandPearl (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

Ooooo they look lovely!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,135 posts, Honey bee

great color! your shoes are fantastic!

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

I think you just solved my big shoe dilemma, Miss Martini! I’ve been searching forEVER for a perfect pair in pink but now I think I’m going to take (one of the) white pairs I found and dye them at TODey. How long does it usually take to get them dyed? Did you bring a color swatch with you?

Your shoes are GORGEOUS. Droooool.

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  1,303 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my gah, I love those shoes! What a perfect color! Stuart Weitzmans are so comfy!

 
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Shay
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Shay (message)  438 posts, Helper bee

i looovvveee your shoes!!! They were amazing before you BUT now after being dyed I am drooling

 
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Jenn

If those are a size 8 and you decide to sell them before my October wedding, lemme know. Those are the perfect color!

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

@Miss Latte: yes, i had a color swatch, and they did warn me that the color may not come out as expected. I got really lucky!

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

@Jenn: i would, if i could! but unfortunately wear a size 5.5 =)

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

@mrspaetz: tell me about it, i almost had a heart attack!

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

@heather25: the cost wasn’t a lot at all - 20? 30 dollars tops? i am not sure of the total cost because mr. m picked them up for me, but it was not more than 30 dollars.

 
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sandra

wow super gorgeous shoes. nice color.

 
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doublemint921 (message)  489 posts, Helper bee

WOW they look so fun!! I’m glad it all worked out for you! :)

 
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TechGirl
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TechGirl (message)  269 posts, Helper bee

Amazing!!! They did a fantastic job!

 
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sal75
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sal75 (message)  132 posts, Blushing bee

OMG!!!! your shoes are SOOOO CUTE!! Are they comfortable??

 
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driftslikesmoke
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,220 posts, Bumble bee

Those shoes are amazing!! It makes me feel better about my plan to dye some non-”dyeable” shoes!

I’d keep them purple if I were you!

 
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Kayoung

PS, the shoes look AWESOMEEEEEEE.

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

@sal75: hmm the comfort level im not too sure about. they are a teeny bit on the tighter side, so i had them stretched a bit and now they feel better. but i have a feeling my feet are going to be hurting on that day no matter what.

 


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Mrs. Martini Mrs. Martini, New Jersey Age and Occupation: 30, Telecom by day, Superhero by night Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Investments & Finance by day, Hip hop dancer by night Engagement Date: May 24, 2008 Wedding Date: March, 2009 Blogging Since: August 18, 2008 Venue: The Venetian About Me: Things that make me happy: Haribo Happy Cola gummies, TV shows on DVD, buying books although I never read them, 80’s rock ballads, ramen, and of course Mr. Martini! He is the calm, logical and number crunching finance guy. I can’t even multiply double digit numbers in my head and I am so indecisive that trying to choose between light green or slightly lighter green paper stresses me out (Wedding planning is going to be soooo much fun). We both find great joy in nabbing great seats at the movie theater for a blockbuster movie on opening weekend, and we are both absolutely crazy about snowboarding. And he loves to cook, I love to eat!
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