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Mrs. Cupcake, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 27, Graphic Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Construction Project Manager Engagement Date: February 10, 2007 Wedding Date: September, 2008 Blogging Since: December 7, 2007 Venue: The Desmond Hotel in Malvern, PA About Me: Mr. Cupcake and I hit it off at a Halloween party and immediately began a long-distance relationship. After two years, he moved to my neck of the woods, and a year and a half after that, he proposed at the “place we fell in love.” I am a true perfectionist who enjoys designing and creating more work for myself, so wedding planning is my perfect outlet. Mr. Cupcake and I are both old souls, and we hope to weave that aspect of our personalities into our wedding day.
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All photos below by The Wiebners unless otherwise noted. We purchased a disc of all unedited images from our wedding day, so some post-processing has been done by me for the purpose of sharing the photos with you. Click on any photo to enlarge.

When it was time to put on my dress, I had butterflies. This was the moment that would really make me a bride.



I was starting to feel a little overwhelmed, as so many people were now in our suite (six bridesmaids, my aunt, MIL Cupcake, my mom, two makeup artists and a photographer), so I asked that not everyone come into the bedroom while I got into my dress. It was just my mom, my maid and matron of honor, and my aunt. Looking back, I hope that no one felt shunned from this experience by my request, but I needed a little breathing space!

Naked time! Stepping into the dress with the help of MOH Nicole and my mom

It’s funny how the photos of a bride getting into her dress are so iconic and it seems like such a process, but for me, it was all pretty quick! (Thanks to a zipper covered by fake buttons… we would have had to build an extra 20 minutes into our timeline if those buttons needed a crochet hook.)


My dress is from Casablanca Bridal (it is style 1860 in Champagne) and it felt like it was made just for me!

My mom zipping me up

Done!

I love this photo of my mom looking at me

The only thing that took a little bit of time was, um, adjusting *ahem* the girls. I couldn’t find a bra that would work with my dress and not be painfully uncomfortable, so I opted to have cups sewn into the bra. I was still a little nervous, though, as I wanted everyone to behave and stay in their designated corners (as MOH Nicole says, “divide and conquer”) — enter the magical world of double-sided tape. I had picked up a roll of fashion tape a few days beforehand, and it ended up being a lifesaver (for me and a few of the bridesmaids). Probably the best $10 I ever spent!

Only a true best friend would reach down your dress to put fashion tape on your boobs

The girls are good to go!

It was now time for the finishing touches… the accessories that I had so carefully chosen.


I had asked SIL Cupcake to help me out with my “something blue” — putting blue crystals on the bottom of her shoes was something she had done for her wedding day, so I thought I’d continue the tradition. She carefully glued our initials and wedding date on the bottom of my Liz René shoes, so my “something blue” was with me all day long.

{photo by SIL Cupcake}

Momma Cupcake helped me from falling over (I tend to do klutzy things like this from time to time) while Aunt Jane helped me with my shoes. We call this the “Cinderella moment”!



Next up was my custom-made bracelet from Tracy Tayan (Tracy now has a website up since I last posted about her amazing work!).

The bracelet is lying on top of my “something borrowed” (a handkerchief from my mom with her first initial on it, which was about to become my new last initial) and my “something old” (a yellow-edged handkerchief that my Nana left for me when she passed away two months before the wedding. She had asked SIL Cupcake to give it to me).

Most of my nerves started melting away and I was starting to get really, really excited!

SIL Cupcake peeking in

Bracelet: on. Next up were my Lunessa earrings:



I packed my clutch with my handkerchiefs, phone, and a few cosmetic items for touch-ups.


Then came time for the real crowning moment: the veil. I absolutely loved my veil. If it didn’t always feel like it was in the way, I would have considered wearing it all day. It had such delicate detailing along the edges and I felt like it was the perfect accent to my dress.

A close up of the detailing on my veil {photo by SIL Cupcake}



My mom didn’t know the best way to put my veil on and didn’t want to mess up my ’do, so DOC Jenn Poletti came to the rescue. She had just arrived and we put her right to work. (Ours was one of the last weddings Jenn worked in 2008 — she was pregnant with twin boys who later arrived in January!)

Jenn and I became good friends throughout the planning process — our nickname for each other is BIFF (which stands for Best Internet Friend Forever) because we emailed each other so much! Half of the time it was about The Hills, though, not the wedding….

I love this picture

“Well, I guess that’s it?… I’m a bride now!”


I had everything I needed, so I made my way out of the bedroom and found that my dad had arrived.

He’s happy to see me!

I look like a mischievous little kid here! I guess I really couldn’t contain my excitement at that point.

Here comes our “prom” pose — me pinning the boutonniere onto my dad’s lapel (or pretending to pin it on for the sake of a photo… I think I eventually gave up and made Jenn do it for me).

I think the way he is looking at me in this photo is very sweet… I am the only daughter and the last of two kids to get married, so it was a big day for both of my parents.

{photo by SIL Cupcake}

I also got the first glimpse at my bouquet that had arrived earlier from Blue Moon. I loved it! Somehow, despite my frazzled descriptions of what I wanted, Wade managed to put together the perfect bouquet for me.

{photo by SIL Cupcake}


One last iPhone check (I’m addicted) and we were ready to go!

{photo by SIL Cupcake}

Next up: the guys get sexy!

Previously in our wedding recaps:
The Eve of Our Big Day: The Rehearsal Dinner
Love is All About “We”: Getting Gorgeous

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49 Responses to “Love is All About “We”: The Dress!”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Cupcake, your hair looks amazing, your excited smile is adorable (and contagious!) and your dress positively shimmers! More, more, more, please!

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

You look BEAUTIFUL! And so excited and calm and perfect…. I’d like to hear more about that boob tape, though!

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  672 posts, Busy bee

I looooove how photo packed this recap was!

 
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SanDiegoAli
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SanDiegoAli (message)  924 posts, Busy bee

What a great recap! You look stunning (of course!) and what a great dress, heck - what a great everything!

 
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BA (message)  197 posts, Blushing bee

GORGEOUS photos, and GORGEOUS you! I’ve been trying to figure out who you “remind” me of basically since you started blogging, and I think I’ve figured it out. You remind me of the girl in Father of the Bride (Kimberly Williams)!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,159 posts, Bumble bee

@BA: Awww thank you! I have heard that a few times before, and it always makes me blush. Of course, I hope you’re not saying that my dress looks like hers from that movie (puffy 80s sleeves and all!) ;-) I kid….

 
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BA (message)  197 posts, Blushing bee

@Mrs. Cupcake: God no, not the dress! Your dress is amazing, and it did look like it was made JUST for you. You definitely weren’t channeling her 1980s fashion on your own wedding day!

 
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msgirard (message)  226 posts, Helper bee

OMG you totally look like her and you also remind me of Anne Hathaway.

 
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Miss Ballet Flat (message)  641 posts, Busy bee

Aww..these pictures are beautiful! You made such a gorgeous bride!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,572 posts, Bumble bee

Absolutely beautiful! Scrolling through, I stopped at the first picture of you with the veil on. It was sooo transformative, and I had an “Ah” moment seeing you in it! Yes, soooo bridal! Lovely pictures, Cupcake!

 
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aja0829 (message)  140 posts, Blushing bee

You look so gorgeous and calm!

 
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Vintagedivine

I LOVE your dress, and I think we have the same veil! You look breathtaking!

 
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

I love that your photog caught the moment your dad saw you!! Too sweet!!!

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  1,285 posts, Bumble bee

I really can’t even find the words to say beautiful everything looks. I keep scrolling up and down!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,159 posts, Bumble bee

@msgirard: Hehe, thank you! Mrs. Bee calls me Anne Hathaway :-) I’m flattered!

@Miss Perfume: There is something about the veil that really completes the look (at least, that’s how I felt). It just worked!!!

 
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msTerp (message)  14 posts, Newbee

i LOVE your dress.

 
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Mrs. Jasmine (message)  1,153 posts, Bumble bee

You were such a beautiful bride!!!!! I love the photo when your veil was going on– you can really see the transformation and you were glowing with happiness :)

 
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MarryingtheNavy (message)  228 posts, Helper bee

That dress is so flattering on you! You’re right - it looks like it was totally made for you :)

 
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

You belong on a magazine!!! You are absolutely gorgeous!

 
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Kim @ Inspired Goodness

I’m tearing up over here just remembering how perfectly fun that morning was!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,508 posts, Sugar bee

You look so beautiful!!!! I love the Cinderella shot! ;) Your veil is so lovely, now I am rethinking my length!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,159 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Taffy: Since there are no full-length shots here, you can’t tell that my veil actually came to about the back of my knees. This length worked really well with my dress because it didn’t take away from the dropped waist beading detail (which a fingertip veil would have), or the pretty lace train, but it still had some of the drama of a longer veil. I forget what this length is called…. I will do some sleuthing!

 
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Deanna

Amazing :) You look gorgeous!

ps - who made your Mom’s dress!? It is also beautiful!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,159 posts, Bumble bee

@Deanna: I will have to double-check the designer of my mom’s dress, I can’t remember off-hand. It was two pieces — a top and a skirt. However, she purchased extra material and made that little jacket herself! I’ll post more pics of that soon!

 
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hakuna lee (message)  10 posts, Newbee

how pretty! i love your dress.

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

Beautiful! I love that picture of your mom smiling at you. And your flowers are gorgeous.

 
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BeachBrideT (message)  1,056 posts, Bumble bee

Wow! You are absolutely gorgeous. And you are glowing! Thanks for including all of those pictures– I love to see all of the different elements from each part of the wedding day.

 
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september wedding (message)  113 posts, Blushing bee

I love the shoe idea! I am writing my initials and date on the bottom of my shoes as well! Love it! And you look stunning!

 
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Nicole-Lynn

Love your re-caps! Your dress was so beautiful and I love your something blue idea!

 
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heavnzbrat

beautiful beautiful beautiful! i got choked up reading this entry. u looked radiant. i tried on that dress actually (did NOT look good) but WOW u rock it!

 
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laurajane (message)  320 posts, Helper bee

You’re right, that dress does look like it was made for you! You look gorgeous & I like the one of you where you look cheeky (top right in your montage at the beginning of your post!), it’s adorable.

 
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jhphi (message)  613 posts, Busy bee

I love the veil– I need to find one just like it! :)

 
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Mrs. Kiwi (message)  384 posts, Helper bee

Simply stunning. All I can say!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  5,956 posts, Bee Keeper

I am in love with your dress and flowers (especially the one on your clutch)! You look stunning :)

 
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,220 posts, Bumble bee

You look so incredibly beautiful and excited!! I hope to have pictures of both my mom and dad looking at me for the first time in my “look” just like you have. I think those are the sweetest!

 
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Ruby Slippers (message)  472 posts, Helper bee

I love your contagious smile and obvious excitement! I can SO feel it because I felt the exact same way!

 
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Laura B

You’re photo recaps are totally worth the wait. At the same time I’m so anxious to see more!

 
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Naomi

I’m an official Mrs. Cupcake blog stalker. Your wedding came out absolutely beautiful. It is the perfect mix to me of really caring about all the tiny details without looking like you tried too ridiculously hard! I read that you had your reception at the Desmond…is that your home or the Desmond in these photos? I need to know what room that is and book it pronto if it’s part of the hotel! It’s beautiful and turned out so fab in the photos!

 
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shannamt

I LOVE your dress. You look beautiful!

 
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Miss Deviled Egg (message)  858 posts, Busy bee

Ahhhh…you look so happy in to be in your dress! It was absolutely stunning on you!

 
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mmc4474 (message)  71 posts, Worker bee

You are absolutely breathtaking!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,159 posts, Bumble bee

You guys are going to give me a big head! Thanks for all the lovely compliments :-)

@Naomi: I got ready in the Presidential Suite in the Desmond, so that’s where all of these photos were. We had a living room/dining room area, a little kitchenette, and a bedroom. It was a really nice treat from my mom, and it worked out great since we had everyone getting hair and makeup done there throughout the day. I didn’t have to leave the room all morning, which was the relaxing setting that I wanted. Plus the big bonus was that Mr. Cupcake and I got to spend our honeymoon night there!

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  908 posts, Busy bee

So beautiful! It’s fun to finally see it all come together! I love the one of your mom looking at you, too (and her dress is lovely also).

 
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BigWeddingTinyBudget (message)  32 posts, Newbee

oh. mah. god. stunning!!!! the dress, veil, ring, flowers, the BRIDE! WOW!!

 
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PrettyKitty (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

I SMILED through your whole post. How gorgeous! This made me excited to get dressed on my wedding day.

 
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mrspaetz (message)  1,704 posts, Bumble bee

you are absolutely right that the dress was made for you!

very very beautiful and inspiring - i can only hope i look as radiant a bride as you are on my big day!

can’t wait for more pictures!!

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,685 posts, Bumble bee

You look just breathtaking!

 
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AxiD Bride

You look so beautiful in the pictures and the trains in the background are such a great idea the colors of the trains make you in the white dress stand out so well. Love the pictures!

The shoe idea is cute too and I think I’m looking to get those same shoes so— where they comfortable enough?

 
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CarolinaGirl815 (message)  31 posts, Newbee

Your dress is breathtaking!! It makes me have second thoughts about my own! But ours are very similar, both by Casablanca.

I am in love with your veil– where did you get it? It’s so sheer, but the detailing is so beautiful!

 


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Mrs. Cupcake Mrs. Cupcake, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 27, Graphic Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Construction Project Manager Engagement Date: February 10, 2007 Wedding Date: September, 2008 Blogging Since: December 7, 2007 Venue: The Desmond Hotel in Malvern, PA About Me: Mr. Cupcake and I hit it off at a Halloween party and immediately began a long-distance relationship. After two years, he moved to my neck of the woods, and a year and a half after that, he proposed at the “place we fell in love.” I am a true perfectionist who enjoys designing and creating more work for myself, so wedding planning is my perfect outlet. Mr. Cupcake and I are both old souls, and we hope to weave that aspect of our personalities into our wedding day.
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