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Mrs. Cupcake, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 27, Graphic Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Construction Project Manager Engagement Date: February 10, 2007 Wedding Date: September, 2008 Blogging Since: December 7, 2007 Venue: The Desmond Hotel in Malvern, PA About Me: Mr. Cupcake and I hit it off at a Halloween party and immediately began a long-distance relationship. After two years, he moved to my neck of the woods, and a year and a half after that, he proposed at the “place we fell in love.” I am a true perfectionist who enjoys designing and creating more work for myself, so wedding planning is my perfect outlet. Mr. Cupcake and I are both old souls, and we hope to weave that aspect of our personalities into our wedding day.
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Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap Collage02  All photos below by The Wiebners. We purchased a disc of all unedited images from our wedding day, so some post-processing has been done by me for the purpose of sharing the photos with you. Click on any photo to enlarge.

We’re taking a break from all the super girlie bridal stuff to check in with our dashing groom and his partners in crime! The boys — I mean, men — got ready in my brother’s guest room at The Desmond.

Now, let’s face it: it probably took the guys about 15 minutes to get ready while we ladies primped for hours. I wasn’t there (obviously), but from the looks of the photos, there was a lot of tie-tying, and, well, that’s about it.

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Okay, okay — I lied. There was also some cuff link… ing?

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It looks like they also indulged in some fine Brooke & Nick (aka Mrs. & Mr. Cupcake) water.

Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 054  One of my 7,639 DIY projects

But back to the tie tying: Mr. Cupcake looks pretty cute while he ties a tie, doesn’t he?

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Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 056
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Mr. Cupcake’s Uncle Kevin, who was always more like a big brother to him (he is 15-years older than Mr. C), actually lives in Bangladesh where he is a regional director for an international charity. He came alllllll that way from Dhaka to be one of our groomsmen. Now that’s love! Below, he spiffs himself up (left) while my brother uses the other side of the mirror to get himself lookin’ all dapper.

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Mr. Cupcake’s best friend, Ryan, filled the role of Best Man. You can see the teal and ivory paisley ties we got for all of the guys in the photo of him below.

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The guys all wore black suits instead of tuxes, and Mr. Cupcake added some suspenders to complete the look. I love the look of black suspenders with a crisp white shirt! I think he looks quite dashing.

Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 061  Mr. Cupcake and his Uncle Kevin

I spy a Wiebner!

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Evidently, groomsman Brad was having some trouble with his tie. He called in Ryan for reinforcement while groomsman Jeremy watched from the sidelines.

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Well, apparently Ryan didn’t work out, so my dad stepped in. (He hung out with the guys before coming to “pick me up” in my suite.)

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Mr. Cupcake and I are both addicted to our iPhones, so I’m not surprised that he snuck a peek.

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One of my lovely bridesmaids delivered not one but TWO cards to Mr. Cupcake, from me. One was a nice sweet card, and the other one was just something funny that reminded me of us.

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Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 068  What, no tears?? He must have been saving them up for the ceremony…

Then, it was just your usual guys-hanging-out-being-guys type of thing.

Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 069  My dad was all smiles all day
Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 070  Brother Cupcake is a menswear designer so looking dapper is in his blood!

Groomsman Jeremy found some time to read while Mr. Cupcake checked himself out one last time.

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FIL Cupcake soon arrived and was greeted at the door by Step Dad Cupcake.

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Once everyone was together, my dad made his way to my suite while the rest of the guys headed downstairs at The Desmond. They were supposed to take some group portraits outside… but got a little sidetracked first at the hotel gift shop.

Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 073  Here, Jeremy is modeling the Austin-Powers-on-crack glasses; work it, Jeremy!
Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 074  Who doesn’t love a good set of beer goggles?
Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 075  Would you like some cheese with your wine?

When the silly antics subsided, Joel caught this cool shot of Mr. Cupcake waiting in the lobby.

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Then the guys headed outside for some posed shots.

Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 077  Hey hot stuff!

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Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 079  Guy love!

Pretty soon, it would be time for the guys to hitch a ride to our first photo location, so they broke out the shades and headed over to the entrance of the hotel to wait for the bridesmaids.

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Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 082  Mr. Cupcake snuck in another peek at his iPhone, this time to check out some sports stats with his dad.
Love is All About We: The Guys Get Sexy :  wedding philadelphia pictures recap 08bcan 083  This photo makes me giggle… this is such a classic Mr. Cupcake “Well what do I do now?” stance that I am very familiar with.

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29 Responses to “Love is All About “We”: The Guys Get Sexy”

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Miss D'orsay (message)  2,272 posts, Buzzing bee

Ooo, they do look dapper! Are they all wearing the same type of suit?

 
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EAQ219 (message)  1,448 posts, Bumble bee

Aw I love these pictures! Question (that you may have already answered at some point, sorry in advance): did you have the guys all buy the same black suit or did you have them wear their own? How did it work out? Thanks!

 
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EAQ219 (message)  1,448 posts, Bumble bee

HAHA D’orsay!! Great minds, huh?

 
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,230 posts, Bumble bee

Looks great, the beer goggles are hilarious. My future brother in-law brews beer as a hobby, I’ll have to find a pair for him! :)

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,456 posts, Bumble bee

@EAQ219: Mr. Cupcake bought a new black suit for the occasion. The rest of the guys (most of whom work in casual environments and don’t all have a black suit) rented theirs from a local suit/tux rental shop. The quality wasn’t as nice as Mr. Cupcake’s but that’s okay, because he was the groom :-) And ultimately they all coordinated and didn’t have to spend a ton of money. We gave them all the option of buying a black suit if they preferred, but none of them would have gotten enough use out of it to justify buying it so they chose to rent.

 
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LatteLove (message)  5,587 posts, Bee Keeper

i love the photo of mr. cupcake checking himself out in the mirror. ha!

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,804 posts, Buzzing bee

Mr. Cupcake looks dashing and he’s all smiles- I love it!

 
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Keladry

I have two questions too, Mrs. Cupcake: My fiance wants to wear suspenders just like Mr. Cupcakes! Is there a specific name for that type of suspender and where did you get them?

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,456 posts, Bumble bee

@Keladry: I don’t know of a specific name for that type of suspenders…. just “black suspenders” :-) He got them at JCPenney for $19.99!

 
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Vicki

teal ties! where did you get those!!!

 
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PeachandPearl (message)  278 posts, Helper bee

Too cute!

 
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Shay (message)  438 posts, Helper bee

I love these photos! Plus the beer goggles are great!!

 
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Miss Glitter (message)  986 posts, Busy bee

I love the way you talk about Mr. C. You know him so well - it’s really cute! Great pics!

 
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Miss Spring Roll (message)  716 posts, Busy bee

I envy how guys can get ready in such a short period of time! Totally lovin’ the glasses :)

 
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,224 posts, Bumble bee

We’re thinking of having our guys just wear black suits, too! Did all of your guys already own them, or did you request that they buy one for the wedding?

 
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honeymyheart (message)  764 posts, Busy bee

those beer goggles are so cute.

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

how cute! i’m loving yr photographer’s work!

 
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DC Anna (message)  514 posts, Busy bee

Love: beer goggles and the paisley ties.

 
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Mrs. Toucan (message)  1,327 posts, Bumble bee

hehe… beer and wine goggles! I love it! The guys certainly looked like they were having fun! :)

 
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,456 posts, Bumble bee

@Keladry: Mr. C. clarified last night that he actually did have a hard time finding suspenders with silver instead of gold hardware. JCPenney is where he ultimately found them. Also, he had to be sure to have the buttons sewn onto his pants so that he could attach the suspenders.

@driftslikesmoke: see #5 above :-)

@Vicki: We got them at Macy’s in NYC early last summer. Unfortunately I haven’t seen them since…. they were Club Room brand, I posted about them here: http://www.weddingbee.com/2008/05/12/accessorize-me-part-one/

 
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Mrs. Cupcake, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 27, Graphic Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Construction Project Manager Engagement Date: February 10, 2007 Wedding Date: September, 2008 Blogging Since: December 7, 2007 Venue: The Desmond Hotel in Malvern, PA About Me: Mr. Cupcake and I hit it off at a Halloween party and immediately began a long-distance relationship. After two years, he moved to my neck of the woods, and a year and a half after that, he proposed at the “place we fell in love.” I am a true perfectionist who enjoys designing and creating more work for myself, so wedding planning is my perfect outlet. Mr. Cupcake and I are both old souls, and we hope to weave that aspect of our personalities into our wedding day.

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