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Miss Cherry Pie, Seattle/Polebridge, Montana Age and Occupation: 25, Marketing Communications Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Nurse Practitioner Engagement Date: August 26, 2006 Wedding Date: September 2008 Blogging Since: April 1, 2008 Venue: A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park About Me: I think of life as a journey and I love the places it's taking me! I went to school to study Magazine Journalism, ended up with a second major in Japanese language, and now work at a company that makes software for libraries. I love writing, computers, photography, and the great outdoors. I spend most of my time playing Guitar Hero and Rock Band or geeking out online with Mr. Cherry Pie. I'm happiest when I'm on the road, especially traveling abroad, or just nesting quietly at home with my sweetie, who is a fabulous cook and bakes a delicious rendition of a certain cherry-filled dessert!
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As Mr. Cherry Pie and I finished up our portraits together, our guests were invited from the cocktail area to the reception tent by the ringing of a dinner bell.

We intended our reception to be rustic, casual, and comfortable, like sitting down to dinner with family. For me, the pièce de résistance of our wedding day will always be the ceremony, but I absolutely loved how our reception turned out. There were no fancy linens, lighting, music, slide shows, or sound systems… just tables enough to seat ninety, a few hand-designed details, and a buffet of astounding regional food and drink. It was perfect, despite the drenching downpour that started as soon as dinner began…

At the entrance of the tent, one of our coordinators from Katalin Green Design had set up a table with our seat assignments. Directed by the “Find Your Name” sign that I varnished and printed, each guest found the stone with their name and turned it over for their table number.

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Each stone was selected by Mr. CP’s dad from the North Fork of the Flathead River, which runs past Glacier to Polebridge and into Canada. Then, he hand-lettered the stones with guests’ names and table numbers using a silver paint pen.

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Each of our round, 8-person tables was numbered with a wooden sign, sawed, lathed, and assembled by Cathy Weber, our friend and officiant. For centerpieces, we had an arrangement of red, orange, and orange/yellow variegated dahlias with grasses in antique mason jars that I collected in early 2008.

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For some color and contrast at the tables, we chose square khaki linens over white rounds, accented with chocolate napkins. Dinner was a self-service buffet, so plates were not set at tables, but rather offered as guests lined up for food.

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To fill in the space, we accented each place setting with a napkin topped with one of our Polebridge Mercantile cookie favors (tied with a hand-stamped “Thanks” shipping label) and a card with instructions for uploading photos to our Flickr site.

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(Don’t worry; the password you see there has been changed.)

The tables got a bit crowded once everyone started to arrive. We had opted for a smaller tent rental to save money and wasted space, but the dimensions of this more affordable option were definitely cozy. Thankfully, no one seemed to mind, even when we had sealed the windows and turned on the heaters. At least everyone stayed warm!

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After guests found their seats they either lined up at the buffet, or visited our “guestbook” at another station set up near the tent’s main entrance.

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A second sign I created from a cheap Michaels frame, some varnish, and Paper Source cardstock directed guests to “Write a Postcard to the Bride and Groom – They’ll Get it After the Honeymoon”. We wanted something different for a keepsake, and by making our guests’ messages something we got in the mail (sent by Mr. CP’s dad), we kept getting well-wishes long after the wedding was over.

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On the table below, we’d set out a large stack of pre-addressed postcards featuring vintage artwork from Glacier National Park and Montana. I wish I’d thought to leave everyone some more blank cards as souvenirs!

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Once guests had lettered a brief message, they could keep the card to send, or put it in the old mailbox I found in an antique shop just outside Glacier last spring.

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At long last and somewhat belatedly, the two of us entered the tent. We were reluctant to stop taking portraits together because we had been enjoying our time alone. But, as fate would have it, just as we were thinking we should get to dinner, it started to rain, and then rain harder.

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We were practically chased across the lawn by the weather! As soon as we were inside, it started pouring down drenching rain, causing a mad dash to seal all the tent doors. I’m glad we decided to rent all the attachments as a precaution. Always have a “worst-case scenario” backup plan!

With the rain, the temperature dropped steeply, and we turned on our two heaters. Closing the tent doors kept most of the heat in, but had the somewhat unexpected side effect of making the tent a little dim. In retrospect, I wish I had put more effort into lighting the tent, though I don’t think anyone but me noticed enough to nitpick.

Inside, guests had started on the evening’s refreshments. A variety of Washington and Oregon wines, graciously provided by Mr. CP’s mom and step dad, ferried all the way from Seattle…

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And chilled water in carafes poured from a vintage jug…

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For food, we had a variety of grilled entrees: Montana buffalo, Idaho red trout, and organic veggie kabobs:

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On the side, mashed potatoes, garlic noodles, local salad greens…

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And, of course, fresh-baked loaves of bread made from the Polebridge Mercantile, designed to be hand-broken and shared…

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At the tables, a veritable feast of color…

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Everywhere, there were little hints of Montana. From shoes peeking out underneath…

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… to hats hanging on the backs of chairs.

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We were able to fill our plates while our guests engaged in conversations, laughter…

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And a little bit of whatever is going on here:

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We settled into our seats, trying not to worry about the rain at our backs. Before we had a chance to dwell on it, we heard the first sound of someone clinking their wine glass, then a cacophony of silverware on stemware, and obligingly had our first of many captive kisses that evening:

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Next, I’ll share some of the stories from our heartwarming and hilarious toasts, followed by our delicious desserts.

[Credits: All images courtesy of Piknik Studios.]

Previously:
Married in Montana: The Rehearsal
Married in Montana: The Girls Get Ready
Married in Montana: The Guys Get Ready
Married in Montana: The Bus Ride to Polebridge
Married in Montana: Pre-Ceremony Preparations
Married in Montana: Staging the Ceremony
Married in Montana: Our Wedding Ceremony (Part 1 of 2)
Married in Montana: Our Wedding Ceremony (Part 2 of 2)
Married in Montana: Receiving Line & Refreshments
Married in Montana: Cocktail Hour
Married in Montana: Bride & Groom Portraits
Married in Montana: Family Photos
Married in Montana: Wedding Party Portraits

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29 Responses to “Married in Montana: Our Rustic Reception”

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Miss Taffy (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

Your reception details are so beautiful! I really love the centerpieces, table numbers and postcards!!!

 
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Bunny83

Your pictures look beautiful. I love the idea of setting up an account to allow guests to share their pics with you. I may have to borrow that idea for my wedding!!

 
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

I love that vintage mailbox for your postcards!! What a cute idea!

 
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SpinningJenny
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SpinningJenny (message)  453 posts, Helper bee

I love the postcard idea–I hate it when guestbooks end up just being lists of names and this is a fun way for sharing good wishes. ^_^
And the food looks delicious!

 
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kara (message)  623 posts, Busy bee

I love everything about your wedding Mrs. Cherry Pie! I love that you all had a great cozy time in a sealed tent while it rained! If I were having my wedding in a place as cool and rustic as Montana, you’d bet I’d be copying all your details! :)

 
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lreighard1
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lreighard1 (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

I <3 vintage post cards like you can’t believe! What a great way to incorporate them! Where did you find them?

 
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shibaby
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shibaby (message)  202 posts, Helper bee

You definitely had my dream wedding. Everything about it has been sooo beautiful! :)

 
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leaver (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Your wedding is one of the most beautiful I’ve ever seen. I’ve used your bouquet to show my florist, because it’s the perfect execution of the dahlia + wheat that I’d been thinking of. I love the stones as placecards - we’ve been thinking of doing the same thing because my dad used to give my mom stones with love notes written on them early in their relationship. I love that you’ve made a tent with windows look great. You’re amazing, and I can’t wait to see more.

 
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Mrs. Pinot Noir (message)  772 posts, Busy bee

Everything looks so beautiful!! The food is making my tummy grumble! Yum yum yum!

 
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andrea

god i love your wedding. so perfect! i especially love the flowers. they are exactly what i want for mine. did you do the centerpieces yourself? I would like to know if that is possible!

 
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Miss Ballet Flat (message)  642 posts, Busy bee

Your wedding looks beautiful and so fun! You are totally creative with these ideas :)

 
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Miss Joey (message)  829 posts, Busy bee

I love the way your wedding looked! I can only dream….sigh…..

 
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Miss Quiche (message)  2,186 posts, Buzzing bee

I love your details & am so glad that you shared so many of them! From the flat rocks (which I have collected since I was a little girl!) to the mason jars to the cowboy boots…I love it all. Your tables just pop with color. sigh.

 
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Lina (message)  39 posts, Newbee

I remember your excitement at finding that mailbox. :) Seeing all those little details come together has been so enjoyable. It really takes talent to execute so many small details like that.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

These details are to die for. I love the centerpieces and table numbers. The vintage mailbox is awesome and you can keep it for your house!

 
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Mary

Can you please let me know what size mason jars you used for centerpieces and which size for drinks? I’m looking to do the same thing, but I don’t know what sizes to buy. Thank you.

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

Seriously, your photographer was fantastic!! She got everything and it all looks perfect!! Love it!!

 
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Newport Nuptials
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,133 posts, Bumble bee

I love every detail, the rock escort cards are adoarble and I love the table numbers. Everything looks gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Cherry Pie (message)  688 posts, Busy bee

@andrea: We didn’t do the centerpieces ourselves, but I imagine it would be easy to, if you have the time! It can also be a HUGE cost saver. We bought bulk dahlias for our DOC to line the aisle and put around the cocktail space, and those were MUCH cheaper than the price per piece in the centerpieces.

I imagine that to do them yourself you’d need to bulk order the dahlias in the color and quantity you need (it looks like we have 7 or 8 per jar). You’ll have to trim them, but with dahlias this is easy. Also, get your grasses (we have some wheat, some other grasses, and some greens I don’t recognize) and intersperse.

The antique blue-glass jars can be found at flea markets, antique shops, and online. They can be pricey sometimes depending on the type, lot, or age. Some of ours were $10 per, which is about the cost of a vase, I guess.

And the top of the jars is just wrapped in raphia/raffia, a type of palm twine. This is the stuff that comes loose in a big bag, not the kind on a spool, though that would work too.

 
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Mrs. Cherry Pie (message)  688 posts, Busy bee

@Mrs. Pinot Noir: Haha, I know, I got hungry every time I worked on this post…

@lreighard1: Our postcards weren’t true vintage– they were reproductions. They’re made by Far Country Press, and you can find them (and other varieties) online here if you search for “vintage postcard”: http://www.farcountrypress.com/

@Mary: I’m not positive, but I believe the table jars are quart size and the drinking glasses were pint size. Taking a look at your local hardware, grocery, or WalMart’s mason jars should let you eyeball which would be a good size.

@Miss Peep Toe: Didn’t she do a great job? She made everything look even better than it really was ;)

 
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Miss Glitter (message)  880 posts, Busy bee

That old mailbox…sigh. Love it. I am also in awe of how many of the details pay homage to Montana and its local culture. Mr. G and I have driven through Montana, but now I want to go back and really visit.

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,721 posts, Bumble bee

Wow . . . everything is just so gorgeous and thoughtful.

 
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

I love love love the stone place cards and the post cards - Fabulous!!!

 
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Jeffreysgirl4ever

Ah, this is almost exactly what my reception is going to be like, minus the tent, plus an 1800’s barn instead. I just started tying all my raffia on my mason jars too. It is so great to see some inspiration and encouragement for my vision! You’re whole entire day was stunning!

 
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BigWeddingTinyBudget (message)  32 posts, Newbee

Glorious! Seriously your wedding should be featured in a magazine. Incredible.

 
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gabbydancer (message)  90 posts, Worker bee

I am over the moon about your wedding! It is so comfortable and family oriented, exactly the feel that I am looking for. I only hope I can accomplish what you did.
Beautiful!

 
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PeachandPearl (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

Your details are divine… sigh. Love that mailbox, especially.

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

Have I told you how much I LOVE your table numbers? They are perfect!

 
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

I love EVERYTHING about your wedding details!!

 


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