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Mrs. Mascara, Chicago/Upper Michigan Age and Occupation: 25, Biomedical Engineer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Process Engineer Engagement Date: July 27, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: Catholic ceremony, reception at local armory About Me: A lover of Mr. Mascara, crafting, baking, Gossip Girl, diet soda, and all things wedding. A Yooper girl somehow displaced in the Chicago suburbs, planning a wedding from a distance, and counting down the days until I marry my best friend.
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The Dress!

March 5th, 2009 @ 4:17 pm by Mrs. Mascara

I had a bad experience with dress shopping last week, where I was told that my $1,000 budget was causing the lady to struggle to find dresses for me to try on. She also said that since it was a “boutique”, girls with budgets typically don’t come into the store. When Dona asked if they had any dresses without beading, the lady told her that she did, but that those dresses were made of fine fabrics and were not within my budget. So basically, it was a disaster. I did find one dress I sort of liked, but I really don’t think I’m going to go back there. If they treated me that badly before they had my money, imagine how they will treat me after they have my money! Here’s the dress I found at that store.

Dress is Blue by Enzoani

So my mom and future mother in law, as well as my sisters, were in town one weekend to help me look for a wedding dress.

Mr. Mascara, I’m pretty sure you don’t read this but if you do, stop now!

We had 3 appointments scheduled! One of my appointments was at a place called The Bride’s Room in Wheeling, IL. This is a really nice boutique where they only allow one bride in at a time and you have their full attention. I took my matron of honor, Dona there to try on dresses, and she said it was by far the best experience she had while dress shopping.

Luckily, I found the dress! I am really excited. Here are some pictures. :)

Dress is Jasmine. Photos by my future mother-in-law Connie

The bodice of the dress (front and back), will actually have less beading on them than shown in the pictures. You’ll be able to see more of the lace that way. It will end up looking more like the lace/beading on the bottom of the dress.

Photos by my maid of honor and lovely sister Dani

The back will also have the covered buttons going down the zipper. And of course, it will actually zip up all the way. I got the dress from The Bride’s Room in Wheeling, IL. I highly recommend this salon to anyone! The girls there are so nice, and they shut down the whole bridal area for you while you’re there. They also pick out the dresses for you, which some people may not like, but they really get to know your style and find the dresses that fit your taste.

Since this was the first place I went that day, I wanted to be absolutely certain before I bought the dress, so I went back after my other appointments to try it on for a second time. I didn’t have an appointment of course, but they still were very accommodating and the same girl that had helped me earlier in the day stopped what she was doing to help me try it on again. I was very impressed with their service! Now I have to wait 6 months before my dress comes in. :(

Next thing on the list… bridesmaid’s dresses!

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33 Responses to “The Dress!”

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Miss Deviled Egg
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Miss Deviled Egg (message)  892 posts, Busy bee

Oooh! I love it!

 
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Jen

I almost bought that first Enzoani dress… ended up with the Acapulco by Enzoani instead. The Jasmine you bought it so pretty - congrats on finding the one!

 
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MelissaB
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MelissaB (message)  414 posts, Helper bee

How awful! My budget was exactly the same as yours, and no one was ever snotty about it to me. Good call on not wanting to give that place your money, and congrats on finding such a gorgeous dress!

 
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september wedding
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september wedding (message)  113 posts, Blushing bee

Beautiful! Stunning! And I’m so glad you left the first shop. No one should get treated like regardless of whether they have $10 or $10,000 to spend on a dress.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

I’m so sorry about your first experience. I can’t stand when any store is snobby about their products. However, it looks like you found a gorgeous dress anyways!

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  759 posts, Busy bee

Beautiful dress!! Love the skirt and gathering.

I had an appointment at The Bride’s Room, but I had one right before it at Wedding Belles in Barrington, and I ended up buying mine there so I never made it to BR. Glad that it is a great place, though and that I would have been well taken care of there!

Also - I had the same budget (and ended up way under, woo hoo!)…$1K is nothing to sneeze at for a dress you’ll wear once ;)

Welcome fellow Chicago bride!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,598 posts, Sugar bee

Beautiful dress!!!! :)

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Ugh, “Brides with budgets don’t come in here”….I’d have wanted to slap her upside the head! I hate that attitude. Good on you for finding your perfect dress elsewhere!

 
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Newport Nuptials
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,133 posts, Bumble bee

Welcome ot the hive!

I love the details on the top, very pretty!

 
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IthacaBride
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IthacaBride (message)  42 posts, Newbee

I also got my dress at The Bride’s Room, and I’m so glad you had such a great experience as well. Mine is Jasmine too and should be in by the end of the month. I can’t wait!!!

 
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Luvbug6315
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Luvbug6315 (message)  427 posts, Helper bee

Very pretty. I hope you had a better experience there than you did at the first salon. Shame on them for making you feel bad for having a budget!

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

Yuck to snobby dress places. That lace is so pretty and covered buttons is such a beautiful touch! Congratulations!

 
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sally

OH yes, because only people with unlimted budgets deserve beautilful dresses. unbelievable! I am sorry that woman was so rude….it makes me sad.

 
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Mrs. Plumeria (message)  250 posts, Helper bee

My friend wore that dress; it’s gorgeous! :) Having been a Jasmine bride myself, I’m biased, but I love their designs! :) You look beautiful.

 
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sweetnenz

Excellent choice the dress is beautiful. I also have a budget of 1k for my dress and was unsure if that was even enough. I was afraid I was going to have to choose something I wasn’t completely in love with just make my budget. I ended up coming way under as well, and absolutely love my dress!!!

 
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katelovescoffee
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katelovescoffee (message)  29 posts, Newbee

What a beautiful dress!
The Brides Room is a great place - so helpful and accomodating! While I didnt find my dress there, my dress is Jasmine as well!

And woo-hoo for another Chicago Bee!!!

 
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pam2009 (message)  38 posts, Newbee

Its beautiful and if it fits your budget even better

 
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Shay
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Shay (message)  438 posts, Helper bee

I was also afraid of going to a shop that I would receive treatment that I would not agree with. The local David’s Bridal I have not heard anything good about so I made sure that I steered clear from there.

I love all the beading!! You look so happy wearing your dress!!!! Yeaahhh Congrats on getting the dress!!

 
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daisywu (message)  68 posts, Worker bee

VERY nice!! My dress was under $1000 as well!! I thought it was a steal!! It wasn’t even off the rack!!!! AND it was a Maggie Sottero!!

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

My dress budget was the same and I never had anyone say that to me, how rude! (As Stephanie Tanner would say)
I LOVE your dress, you look gorgeous!

 
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driftslikesmoke
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,220 posts, Bumble bee

Beautiful dress! It irks me so much when vendors act as though your budget is an inconvenience to them. Having *some* sale is better than no sale at all, right? Sounds like the first woman you dealt with was just a snob whom you’re better off without!

 
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Miss Dumpling (message)  650 posts, Busy bee

NICE!! No teasing us with the gowns you didnt pick…..straight to the point! I like that about you!

 
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dootsie

It makes me sick when bridal shops try to guilt women into spending more money. “Shame on you for not taking out a loan!”

 
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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

gorgeous dress!!

 
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lotus
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lotus (message)  73 posts, Worker bee

what?? doesn’t every bride have a budget? well, they lost your dollars and you found something fabulous, so too bad for them.

 
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honeymyheart
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honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

pretty dress :) i like the lace detailing

 
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lreighard1
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lreighard1 (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

hooray! bummer they were such poops at the first place — YOU LOOK GORGE! Can’t WAIT to hear about your BM dresses :D

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

I’m sorry you had such a bad first experience! I hate snobby wedding dress vendors…what on earth are you in the biz for???

But your final choice is GORGEOUS!!
I’m also looking for a dress without beading and bridal shops seem to give me the wierdest looks when I ask that! Why is that??

 
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cottoncandy (message)  62 posts, Worker bee

I think that you did the right thing looking elsewhere! I can’t imagine being treated that way over having a budget! My budget was the same as yours, and I was able to find 5 or 6 gowns that I loved all well UNDER my budget. How ungrateful.

Your final choice is amazing and you look beautiful!

 
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LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

I love it!!! You look amazing! =)

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

Congrats on finding the one!! And it is so important to love where you buy the dress!!!

 
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perfectbound
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perfectbound (message)  131 posts, Blushing bee

I’m glad you didn’t buy your dress at the first shop. You will be dealing with your dress makers again and again over the course of several fittings so they better have a perfect attitude every time. Meanwhile, look at you!! You are radiant!

 
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Crash (message)  378 posts, Helper bee

Wow, I too had a limit of $1000 and no one gave me any trouble about it. Also, I personally like the dress you chose way better than the one from the first shop.

 


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