Weddingbee Blog

I hope that after the wedding, whenever I hear the songs that we will choose for our wedding day, it will bring me back to the day. While I know that I’ve been trained over the course of the years to associate “The Wedding March” with weddings, it’s not like I’m going to load it onto my iPod after the fact and listen to it when I’m feeling reminiscent.

So, of course, Mr. S and I are weighing out every single (non-traditional, of course!) music option for the wedding day. We’ve opted to not use the organ in our church and instead play whatever music we think will make us smile. But for whatever reason, the recessional is proving to be a struggle. How do you choose a song that is beautiful, meaningful, and the right tempo for excitedly strutting back down the aisle, that also includes church-appropriate lyrics?

We’ve narrowed it down to two strong contenders, but they are so wildly different…

Option #1: Clare & the Reasons “Everybody Wants to Rule the World”

(Scroll through the opening segment…we’d start playing this right when Clare starts singing.) Yes, this song may ring a bell. This is a beautiful cover of the 80s classic by Tears for Fears. Mr. S and I saw Clare & the Reasons in concert this winter and I just fell in love with Clare’s sweet, melodic voice.

While the lyrics may not be completely wedding-ish, I love that our first step down the aisle would be to Clare crooning “Welcome to your life…” How appropriate? We’ll just, err, not focus on some of the other lyrics that I think are about war. I just love how Clare’s voice floats. I listen to this song constantly on my iPod and try and envision it on the day of the wedding. In my mind, it fits, and I get giddy when I listen to it.

Option #2: Jackie Wilson’s “(Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher and Higher”

So on the other end of the spectrum, we have Jackie Wilson. Hmm, it’s got a totally different tempo and feel. This is a much more upbeat way to celebrate up the aisle. Exciting, fun, and dare I say, “vintage”. But is it very “us”? That, I don’t know. I’m not a big “wave my hands in the air and celebrate” type of gal, and I feel like this song would expect me to do so.

What’s a girl to do? The Clare & the Reasons song has so much more meaning to us personally - partly because we just love the band and we saw them together, and partly because I’ve been listening to this song non-stop for months after Mr. S and I put it on the list of possibilities (it was actually his idea - I hadn’t even considered it until then). I also want to make sure we integrate our point of view, and work in some indie bands where they’ll fit.

Thoughts? Ideas? Does anyone have some unique recessionals that might fit the bill?