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My fiance’s brother and his girlfriend’s relationship is on the rocks. They have been taking “breaks” because she is not sure if she would like to be with my fiance’s brother or not. I do not want her in the wedding regardless, but she invited herself to stand up. She just asked me when we were going to look for bridesmaid dresses one day. I was caught off guard and just answered with, ” I do not know yet.” I feel that she has no obligation to stand up, as she is only his girlfriend! I do not want to start anything between my fiance and his brother, as he is the best man. I was going to tell his brother that his girlfriend will be a personal attendant if they are still together at the time of the wedding. I have delayed telling the DJ my attendants’ names, picking dresses, and flowers. What should I do? I need suggestions.

Would asking her to be a personal attendant if they are still together a good idea?

Thanks!

Siesta01

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