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See, I have this problem.
I have a great veil. But, I know I’m going to want to take it off the minute the ceremony is over. I feel like I should have something to put in my hair once the veil comes off.
I’ve been looking at birdcage veils. They are the epitome of vintage loveliness. I even bought Russian netting with hopes of creating my own birdcage.
So far, I have failed miserably at creating the perfect birdcage veil.
The perfect birdcage veil
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My biggest problem is I can’t get the netting to lay right. I always end up thinking my head looks enormous. Plus, we’ve already discussed how I feel about things in my face.
And once again, I’m back to that same flower verses comb argument in my head. So, I’m calling on you, hive, for help.
In case you need it, here is a reminder of what my dress looks like.
I want something vintage (either authentic or repro, whatever) and sparkly/pearly.
What I do not want are feathers (I think), or ginormous flowers that take over my head.
That being said, here are my favorites:
1. This piece is reclaimed vintage (and could be my something old, which I am still lacking). The seller is willing to remove the feathers if I wanted her too. I’m afraid it’s a little white for my champagne colored dress. But, it’s hard to tell by these pictures.
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2. This one is also reclaimed vintage. I really like this one, but I wish I could see it on someone’s head. I’m not sure how that bronze color will look with my gown.
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3. These are also reclaimed vintage. I like these a lot. They are simple and classy.
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4. Reworked vintage earrings. Love!
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5. Not exactly vintage, but still gorgeous. I’m not sure how well it will match my gown, and I’m definitely not happy about the price!
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6. One of my absolute favorites, and it includes all my colors. But is my dress a flower kind of dress? Or does it really need something just a touch more formal than flowers?
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So, hive, what do you think?
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I think it’s really important to consider what “goes” with your dress, since you’ve already bought that (and clearly LOVE it!). I personally think that a comb is a better choice than flowers with your dress. Your dress IS more formal than some others, and the adornments on it would be complemented by a little more sparkle in your hair. I think a flower might look like a mis-match. I love #2, and I think the bronze would go well with the champagne of your dress- they don’t have to be a ‘perfect’ match since they don’t rest next to or on top of each other. That said, I also think you could get away with #1 since it has some pearls and sparkle, and it’s sort of in between a flower and a comb.
Whew, that was long. They are all gorgeous!
Hi, I have the 2nd one (with crystals only from lulusplendor) put in with my hair trial so you can see an example, I’ll PM you a pic!
I like the second one! It’d be gorgeous in your hair and I think it matches in terms of formalness with your dress
I actually just purchased #6 for myself! 
I LOVE IT! But for your dress I think #1 or #2 would look best!
I would say 1 - but then again, I’m not the girl who wants everything to “match” - I think that’s part of the vintage/reclaimed character, that the colors are complimentary but not matchy matchy - good luck!
I’d focus on overall style more than colors - and all of your choices here are beautiful!
And even if the colors are a little off, you’re going to have trouble finding anyone who’ll notice. Especially with your hair, face, and shoulders between it and the pin.
#1 definitely stands out as being the most unique. It makes a statement, but is still delicate and not overwhelming. So beautiful! Adore all the vintageness!
I like #4 the best, I love the look of the pearls & think they would compliment your dress color.
I’d ilke to make a note on #2.
I ordered a similar hair clip/comb thing from that seller as well. She’s located in Australia, so the shipping took over a month.
The product I received was beautiful, however it was tiiiiiny. Much smaller than I pictured. She also sent me a piece with amber crystals, when I ordered them with clear crystals.
If you order that clip, be specific with your order, ask lots of questions about the size of the clip, and allow a long time for shipping!
#1!!!
Great selections. I like 3 or 4. I purchased no. 6 for my wedding, I hope it goes well with my simple dress. Good luck!
I really like the last option. It just seems so light and airy, so I don’t think it would feel all huge on your head.
I may be in the minority. I picked #4. Don’t you wish you could try them all on in person? I had similar struggles with hair adornments. Good luck!
#1 looks perfect and I think it’s MADE for a champagne dress! Look at those pearls! So pretty!!
I think we’re hair soul mates!! I’ve looked at all of those. Loved #5 but am totally with you on the price tag. I keep scouring etsy to try find something “new”. Hope you find something that works for you!
I know that the birdcage veil is very in right now, but it doesn’t work on everyone, and doesn’t work with every dress. After seeing so many people rock them, i tried one on I thought would be great. OMG - my mother, the shop owner and I almost died laughing. I looked ridiculous! It looked silly on me and TOTALLY out of place with my dress.
As far as color matching your dress, I wouldn’t be too concerned. You can be have a different color or shade on your head without clashing. btw - i think you might be right that your dress needs something with some bling, and notsomuch with the florals.
I looooove #6- so delicate and gorgeous! But I’m also partial to birdcage veils.
I can’t wait to see what you choose!
I love love love #6 plus you said that its one of your absolutle favorites. I think its perfect!!!
I love the look of a birdcage veil but I think I have a big face for it!
Just one thing. Right before you take your veil off after the ceremony, pause. You may decide you want to keep it on after all. Sometimes all that wedding dress turns out to need the veil, and for all the photos it’s worth keeping it on until the party gets so wild that you tear it off your head in abandon….in that case just have a white velvet scrunchy to keep your hair from falling into your sweaty but happy face.
I voted for #1. I also think you should leave the feathers in and see what you think. It would probably be pretty easy to remove them yourself if you don’t like them.
Ohhh, number one is just fabulous with your dress! I agree about removing the feathers.
I love number one, and I think the color looks like it would be fine with your gown! Can’t wait to see what you’ll choose!
I love #1, and I’d totally keep the feathers, they make it look even more vintage…I also like #2 quite a bit
I love #1 and I think once you remove the feathers, it will definitely not look too white!
OMG! #2’s shop is one of my “hearts” on etsy! I have a similar one “hearted” for my hair b/c I’m also looking for a vintage hair accessory. Good luck!
Thank you for the inspiration! I have stolen number 5 - that is going to be my goal hair for the day! I think that comb is excellent.
The tiara is really cute as well
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Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA
Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse
Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum
Engagement Date: April 6, 2008
Wedding Date: June, 2009
Blogging Since: November 26, 2008
Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum
About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
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