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I am getting married on May 23 and I have 4 bridesmaids, none of whom are local. I have just found out that they are not planning to host a shower for me before the wedding. As far as I can tell, my Maid of Honor is falling down in her duties, and everyone else is following suit.

Am I wrong to feel hurt and upset? I know that the bridesmaids aren’t OBLIGED to throw the bride a shower, but still. I am totally sad that I am not going to have the chance to celebrate my wedding with the important women in my life. For me, it isn’t about the gifts, it is about the chance to spend time with women I respect and admire and get their wisdom for a successful married life.

So, hive, lay it on me. Do I have any right to be upset?

LB2009

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