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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.
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Singing Telegram

March 17th, 2009 @ 8:32 am by Mrs. Bruschetta

Mr. Bruschetta and I agreed we would prefer to have a friend cantor our ceremony. (The alternative would be selecting the church-designated male or female singer.) We even had the perfect person in mind: Gianmarc (or simply, G), who is married to my bridesmaid Kris. Music is so integral to G’s life; we knew asking him to sing during our nuptial mass would be a perfect fit.

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Mr. Bruschetta and G, from one of our first double dates several years ago.

With permission from the church music director to use an “outside” cantor, I brainstormed a way to connect food and music in a neat little package. Although I’d never baked them, I was intrigued by black and white cookies (great minds bake alike, right Miss Stiletto?); something about them even reminds me of music notes.

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The dough, with a consistency like a cross between cake batter and “whipped” yogurt, came out surprisingly well. Icing the cookies proved to be the biggest challenge, as each had a little humpback, allowing the vanilla or chocolate side to drip down or roll to the underside of the cookie. Admittedly, they lacked the perfection of authentic black and whites — but the taste was spot-on. Cakey, with a slight citrus note in the vanilla icing and rich chocolate undertones coming from the other half-moon — best a day or two after baking, along with a glass of cold milk.

With a box full of treats, I crafted a card, incorporating a quote from Twelfth Night: “If music be the food of love, play on.” Kris delivered the package, and a delighted G agreed, then called Mr. Bruschetta to talk it out — while polishing off the goodies.

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We’re so happy you’ll be singing at our wedding, G!

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(No, you’re not seeing blurry. I tried to make the fuzzed-out picture [the only one I have of the four of us at Kris and G’s wedding!] seem like it’s supposed to be like that — but I really should just get a camera people other than me can use!)

Mini Black and White Cookies

Cookie ingredients

  • 1 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/3 cup well-shaken buttermilk
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla
  • 7 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
  • 1/2 cup granulated sugar
  • 1 large egg

Icing ingredients

  • 2 3/4 cups confectioner’s sugar
  • 2 tablespoons light corn syrup
  • 2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla
  • 4 to 6 tablespoons water
  • 1/4 cup unsweetened Dutch-process cocoa powder

Cookie preparation

Put oven racks in upper and lower thirds of oven and preheat oven to 350°F. Butter 2 large baking sheets.

Whisk together flour, baking soda, and salt in a bowl. Stir together buttermilk and vanilla in a cup.

Beat together butter and sugar in a large bowl with an electric mixer at medium-high until pale and fluffy, about 3 minutes, then add egg, beating until combined well. Reduce speed to low and add flour mixture and buttermilk mixture alternately in batches, beginning and ending with flour mixture, and mixing just until smooth.

Drop rounded teaspoons of batter 1 inch apart onto baking sheets. Bake, switching position of sheets halfway through baking, until tops are puffed, edges are pale golden, and cookies spring back when touched, 6 to 8 minutes total. Transfer to a rack to cool.

To ice cookies, use offset spatula, and spread white icing over half of flat side of each cookie. Starting with cookies you iced first, spread chocolate icing over other half.

Icing preparation

Stir together confectioner’s sugar, corn syrup, lemon juice, vanilla, and 2 tablespoons water in a small bowl until smooth. If icing is not easily spreadable, add more water, 1/2 teaspoon at a time. Transfer half of icing to another bowl and stir in cocoa, adding more water, 1/2 teaspoon at a time, to thin to same consistency as vanilla icing. Cover surface with a dampened paper towel, then cover bowl with plastic wrap.

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17 Responses to “Singing Telegram”

1.
Emilydll
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

I think they look absolutely wonderful! :) yummy!

 
2.
purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  874 posts, Busy bee

mmmmmm…. Black and white cookies!!

 
3.
LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  882 posts, Busy bee

yummmmmmmmmmmy I need to go get breakfast! =)

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  5,587 posts, Bee Keeper

Miss Bruschetta, you could win anyone over with those cookies, they look delicious!!

 
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Lisa

Are you paying your friend to sing at your wedding?
I have also asked my friend to sing at my wedding, and I’m not sure what the proper etiquette is.
Do I pay her (and ask her how much she would like to be paid)? Do I give her a special gift (monetary or otherwise, but of my own choosing)? Or do I leave the decision up to her?
How are you going about this?
Thanks!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

@Lisa: Thanks for the great question! Honestly, we haven’t given it too much thought yet. I’ll be happy to offer an update when we’ve reached a decision…but until then, toss it back to the hive. Can anyone weigh in on this?

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

Very nice!

 
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Miss Gloss
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,222 posts, Bumble bee

Those are making me very hungry! Great job!

 
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JCBee (message)  7 posts, Newbee

We have a friend officiating our wedding - a little different but generally the same.

We decided that offering to pay him for something he wholeheartedly wanted to do would seem a little rude. We plan on doing an extra-special gift to give him during the reception just so he knows how much it meant to us.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,415 posts, Bumble bee

Those look so delicious!!

@Lisa: We have a friend officiating our wedding and I feel awkward paying him. I tink we will just maybe get him a nice gift and maybe a gift certificate to a restaurant for him and his wife.

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

What a great way to ask “G” :) I love that your having someone you know cantor as well :)

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

@JCBee: @Miss Duckling: I totally agree! I love the idea of a restaurant gift certificate, or something similar. G will obviously be at our rehearsal — and the dinner that follows — so we can acknowledge and thank him along with the rest of the bridal party!

 
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lwillia58
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lwillia58 (message)  132 posts, Blushing bee

Those look delicious! I have asked a good friend to cantor at my wedding too. I am trying to decide what to get her as a thank you.

 
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Lisa

@Miss Bruschetta: After further thought, I agree as well! A friend wouldn’t expect payment (I know I wouldn’t, if the roles were reversed), so it would be awkward to both ask them for payment, and for them to come up with some amount to charge you. Just doesn’t seem right.
I think I will go with the gift idea as well, and give them a special thank you at the reception so that everyone knows how wonderful they are!

 
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driftslikesmoke
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,224 posts, Bumble bee

It’s so great to have talented friends who can help and lend their talents to making your wedding special! Great gift idea!

 
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Miss Crab Cake (message)  834 posts, Busy bee

What a cute idea!

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  7,632 posts, Bee Keeper

That quote is TOO perfect I love how you “popped the question!”
(Incidentally your post title made me think of the movie “CLUE” and I have snorted milk up my nose…”I am you’re singing telegram…BANG!” HAHAHA!)

 

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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.

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