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Mrs. Avocado, Seattle Age and Occupation: 23, Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Consultant Engagement Date: July 27, 2008 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 30, 2008 Venue: LDS Seattle Temple & Hotel 1000 About Me: Somehow this little farm girl found herself a genuine Pole to fall in love and eventually move away to Poland with. I am an LDS bride attempting to plan a private religious ceremony, ring ceremony, seated reception for 100, and an open house while coordinating for guests flying in from across the United States and as far away as Poland. I try to avoid fads, excess waste, and saturated fat. I strongly endorse photography, DDR, calorie counting, rss feeds, cooking, and utilizing your resources.
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That Wedding: Hometown Reception

March 18th, 2009 @ 9:33 am by Mrs. Avocado

After a full week of absolute gluttony and decadence while on our Relaximoon, it was time for us to put on our wedding attire for the last time and pose as bride and groom. We had gone back and forth so many times about whether the hometown reception was a good idea, or even necessary, but now that it’s over I’m really glad we took the time to spend some time with the community that helped raise me.

I wish I had a camera in my hand as we drove up the road to the reception site. Our dear friends who hosted the party for us had sprinkled their property with lamps, torches, and twinkling lights. It looked magical. Guests were directed to park in a lot a few hundred yards from the house, and if they didn’t feel like walking (it was a cold October night!), they were escorted up to the house on golf carts.


I smiled as I walked into the tent. I was so happy that we had decided to create our centerpieces ourselves, because it meant we would be able to reuse them later. For very little money we had created a cozy and beautiful atmosphere for the evening.

Of course, Mamacado was walking around with camera in hand before the reception started. I don’t think she can leave home without it.

The food! Oh, the food was amazing. We worked with Jeff and Michelle of Sage Catering out of Yakima, WA. They worked to create a completely personalized meal that had our guests raving. Their presentation was really got me, since I’m a detail person, and Jeff went out of his way to make all of the food look as delicious as it tasted. If you are a central Washington bride, get in contact with them! I’m really happy with what they did for us.

When they asked what kind of menu we were interested in serving, I mentioned that we would love to have a fusion of foods that described the childhoods of both Suavacado’s and mine. For the Polish dishes they made mini cabbage rolls, pierogi, potato pancakes, sernik (Polish cheesecake with chocolate glaze), and poppy seed cake. Mr. Avo couldn’t get enough of the poppy seed cake and said it was some of the best he has ever had! The American style dishes included beef satay, sliders, French fries, crudites, fruit and dip, mini apple pie bites, and chocolate decadence.

I wasn’t surprised when many of our guests went straight for the food line instead of coming to see us! Here are the pierogis. Don’t they look delicious?

Guests were greeted by this frame as they entered the tent. It’s a wedding gift from Mr. Avocado’s aunt, and the pictures are of my cute little husband as a boy with his grandpa. The poem is in Polish, written by his grandfather, about the time they spent together. We really wanted to find ways to make the decor and atmosphere very personal at this reception, and putting this poem on display really set the tone for the night.

For the festivities, I did my favorite fancy hairdo. My sister wasn’t there that evening, and when talking to her a few weeks later she said, “I heard your hair looked really great that night!” I also loved being able to put on my birdcage veil one last time.

I love this picture of my Mr. Avocado and Papacado.

Who would be crazy enough to have an outdoor tented reception in Washington state at the end of October? We would!

My grandma knit me this very cozy, very soft shrug to keep me from turning into a Popsicle that night. Now that the wedding is over, details like this shrug that I can use over and over in my everyday life are my very favorite.

It got so cold that our fabulous hostess dug into their snowmobiling closet for some heat packs. Once the guests saw mine, they started asking for their own set as well. I spent most of the evening holding them over my ears and nose.

When I created the postcards for our guestbook at the Seattle wedding, I made sure they were general enough that we could use them for our hometown reception as well without anyone realizing that we made them pull double duty.

The little ones stayed entertained with a free wedding-themed coloring book I found on the blu sky designs blog.

We had one of the images from our after wedding shoot on display.

Although it was quickly thrown together, the slideshow of images from our relationship was a big hit. I was really overwhelmed by the amount of gifts we received. It was wonderful to spend time with so many people who care about us.

Compared to our wedding extravaganza the previous weekend, our hometown reception was a really laid back and informal event. There was no first dance, no cake cutting, and no bouquet. What we did have was good food, family, friends, laughter, and love. I realized that these things are all we ever needed.

Koniec. The End.

Previously:

That Wedding: Bridesmaid Party!
That Wedding: Whole Foods (Rehearsal-ish) Luncheon
That Wedding: Harbor Sailing
That Wedding: Putting My Face On
That Wedding: The Gift Exchange
That Wedding: Dressing The Bride
That Wedding: Bridal Details
That Wedding: The First Look
That Wedding: Into The Woods
That Wedding: Woodsy Family Portraits
That Wedding: To Wed! To Wed!
That Wedding: Showered With Love, Coins, and Hugs
That Wedding: Group Shots With a Little Spice
That Wedding: Those Groomsmen
That Wedding: The Whole Party
That Wedding: Me and My Maids (+ Manmaid)
That Wedding: Ring Ceremony Prep
That Wedding: The Ring Ceremony
That Wedding: Let Us Whet Your Appetite
That Wedding: Photobooth
That Wedding: We Dance
That Wedding: Dining Details
That Wedding: Toasting
That Wedding: Bridesmaid Cake Pull
That Wedding: 8 Lovely Cakes
That Wedding: Bedding Down
That Wedding: Grand Exit
That Wedding: Seattle Skyline Finale

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30 Responses to “That Wedding: Hometown Reception”

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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

Looked like so much fun! And Mamacado is the cutest!! :D

 
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Emilydll
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

How fun!?! :) I love this idea and I also really love the photos!

 
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RachLynn (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

Wow, you and your mom have the same smile!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

I love your shrug! It looks so warm and cozy!

 
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phruphru

Oh this looks like such a beautiful, friendly, laid back but super elegant affair. The food sounded amazing, too. I think a lot of people would like this as their regular wedding!

 
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Valerie (message)  134 posts, Blushing bee

I love your shrug! Where did you get it?

 
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phruphru

@valerie: she said her grandma made it.

 
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DC Anna (message)  480 posts, Helper bee

What a cute hometown reception. And Mamacado is adorable!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

looks so sweet! I love the photo of mr avocado and his grandfather!

 
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BeachBrideT
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BeachBrideT (message)  1,056 posts, Bumble bee

Listen, Mrs Avacado. I’m not sure that we are all ready for “the end” of your recaps… you might need to keep posting for all of us!!!! ;)

It looks like your hometown reception was a wonderful success! You can feel the love in all of the pictures!

 
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BeachBrideT
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BeachBrideT (message)  1,056 posts, Bumble bee

Listen, Mrs Avocado. I’m not sure that we are all ready for “the end” of your recaps… you might need to keep posting for all of us!!!! ;)

It looks like your hometown reception was a wonderful success! You can feel the love in all of the pictures!

 
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Mary

You have your mom’s smile!

Great photos…but now I’m hungry!

 
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lreighard1
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lreighard1 (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! It can’t be over! Congrat Avos — you’re my favs :):):)

 
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Vic004
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Vic004 (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

I am sad for the end of your recaps!! I love the shrug and basically everything about this reception too!!

 
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ggsb
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ggsb (message)  842 posts, Busy bee

I’m so glad you posted about the hometown reception. We are having something similar in my hometown and I’ve been having second thoughts… it’s so nice to see someone do something similar and it be the low-key people focused event we have in the back of our minds!

 
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Miss Deviled Egg
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Miss Deviled Egg (message)  892 posts, Busy bee

That was your last recap? So sad. Surely you can squeeze out at least one more?!?! I loved all of them! Your pics are fabulous and I’ve loved seeing all of your details and DIY projects in action.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

That food looks so yummy! It looks like you all had a lot of fun. But I really don’t want you recaps to be over…

 
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LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

You have your mom’s smile - so precious!!!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,632 posts, Bumble bee

So wonderfully personal–everything from the centerpieces, to the mix of Polish and American food, to the million other lovely and true details–it makes me happy to see! Thanks for sharing. I’m sad it’s your last recap. Is it really?

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

I’ve been looking forward to this post as we are throwing a hometown reception too. Looks like a great night!!

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

@phruphru: I agree! I was super lucky to have two amazing receptions like this.

@BeachBrideT: @lreighard1: @Vic004: @Miss Deviled Egg: @Miss Duckling: @Miss Perfume: Thanks everyone! You really made my day with your comments!

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

That looks like it was a great celebration! Thank you so much for sharing your wedding and journey will us :)

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,251 posts, Honey bee

NOOOOOOOO! Please say it ain’t so, it can’t be the end! I always said we needed a wedding after our wedding to enjoy all our guests, so your Hometown Reception seemed so perfect. Really love that photo from Mamacado and I also think you should talk your grandma into running a little sweatshop to make some more of those shrugs and put them on Etsy. ;)

 
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LPC

And so ends one of my favorite wedding sagas. One small detail I love. Only in America does hometown food mean beef satay AND french fries. Cultural inclusiveness at its best. Which is also one of the reasons I have so enjoyed your story.

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

I love all the personal touches (food, framed Mr. Avo & Grandfather, shrug)! Just from the pictures, you can tell that this reception was filled with so much love (so cheesy, i know…but so true)! I think this is my fave recap post. :)

 
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doublemint921 (message)  489 posts, Helper bee

Wow your wedding and receptions have been truely wonderful!! Thanks so much for sharing. I can’t believe this is the end…. but hopefully not the last we hear from you :)

 
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bellenga
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bellenga (message)  4,611 posts, Honey bee

I love your reception..simply beautiful and the idea to make your centerpieces was both a wise and stylish one.
Mamacado looks as lovely as her daughter btw! She has such a nice smile!

What wonderful pics and memories you two have and thank you for letting us be there to be a part.

 
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Miss Gloss
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

Your mom is SO cute!

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

Awww!! That last line put a lump in my throat!!

I love reading your posts…your nicknames crack me up and I’ve lately taken to calling my FI my own version of “Suavacado.” You are too funny!

 
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Erica@Stress Away Bridal

Love the reception. So detailed. The framed photo of Mr Avocado and Grandpa was a nice touch.

 


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