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Mrs. Gloss, Boston/Maine Age and Occupation: 24, Designer/soon-to-be Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Systems Engineer Engagement Date: May 23, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: SS Katahdin/Lakeside Tent About Me: I don't like nickels or the skin that forms on pudding when it's in the fridge for too long. I couldn't live without Pantone markers, fountain soda (3/4 diet, ¼ regular Coke), run-on sentences, or ridiculously oversized sunglasses. I will try to DIY almost anything and am just OCD enough to make most of it work. I am truly excited about having all my family and friends together, becoming Mrs. Gloss, and having amazing photos to prove it!
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The Dress

March 20th, 2009 @ 4:46 pm by Mrs. Gloss

Dear Mr. Gloss,

If you are for some reason reading this right now, this is your hint to stop. Really, or I will hurt you, and then make you buy me a new dress.

Anyhoo… here is the dress story:

I ’ran with the brides’, except I didn’t really run—I waited until everyone else ran, and then rolled in with my girls around 10. It was RIDICULOUS. With me was my mom, my MOH, one of my bridesmaids, and a friend from work. As I said, the doors opened at 8AM, and some brides and their troops had been there since 3AM!!!

Not us! We like sleeping in… so by the time we arrived there were no lines to wait in, which was great, except the racks of dresses were just racks! Everyone who had arrived early had grabbed as many dresses as they were able to and were guarding their stockpiles of dresses. It was SO overwhelming, and I really had no idea where to start. But we fanned out and went our separate ways to search (armed with walkie-talkies and one really loud bridesmaid). After about the first 5 minutes I basically stood in an area, and my troops brought me dresses. They knew roughly what I was looking for (which really wasn’t what I bought) because we had a giant sleepover at my place the night before and I had put together a PowerPoint presentation of potential dress candidates. (I’m really not that OCD, my PowerPoint consisted of download pics off the internet and ripped from magazines. It was really more of a slideshow, and they had requested it to help them know what to find!)

I tried on A LOT of dresses; it was like a speed trial for dress shopping. Honestly, they probably brought me like 60 dresses, and I tried them all on (it was exhausting).

Here’s a totally random fact: I ended up buying the ONLY dress I had picked out for myself. The girl next to me tried it on and didn’t like the way it fit. I liked it, didn’t see any of my troops coming with new dresses, and was uncomfortable standing there with very little on. So I asked if I could try it on. She said I could, and that she wasn’t going to buy it.

I’m not a very small girl. I’ve always been at the large end of the retail rack, being close to six feet tall. Now, here comes the magic part: She was at least 4-6 sizes smaller than me and the dress was too long, but fit her pretty well. Everyone says bridal sizes run small - so I was expecting to have to up-size, BUT this dress is a size SMALLER than my actual dress size (um, SOLD). I really think it was magic - a little like ’The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants’.

Without further ado, I present my dress :

The Melissa Sweet Eudora

(And because I heart a bargain, the retail on the dress is $4600 and I paid $725 after taxes.)

Enjoy! :)

the back

the sweet little chapel train

the front

the top

bottom front

and the full back

It’s difficult to see the detail, but the basic construction is three layers of tulle with lace applied to the middle layer. The lace is denser at the top of the dress and disperses as it travels downward.

It’s totally not what I pictured myself wearing, but I love how romantic it feels, and the tulle makes it SO much fun to wear - I feel like I little girl twirling around in a tutu when I wear it.

What do you guys think? Did I miss out by not having the boutique bridal experience?

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44 Responses to “The Dress”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Beautiful! And what a fantastic deal!

I laughed out loud — mind you, I’m still at work — when I got to the part about your wedding dress PowerPoint.

 
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markyk
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markyk (message)  174 posts, Blushing bee

what a beautiful, soft, feminine, romantic dress! Great pick! Yeah , you missed out on the boutique bridal experience! You missed spending an extra $4000 that’s what you missed! Great deal!

 
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Emilydll
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

Not at all! :) You totally lucked out! I, unlike a lot of my friends, hated having to go around trying on dresses! I hated how many bridal boutiques I had to go to and have people oohing and aahing when I knew they were blowing smoke up my butt!
Your dress is gorgeous and I can’t believe what a deal you got on it! :)

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

It’s so whimsical I love it! I’d be twirling nonstop!

 
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gwahs.girl (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Wow! Your dress is beautiful! Congratulations on getting such a great deal (and for surviving the whole ordeal :)!

 
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lit_geek26
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lit_geek26 (message)  138 posts, Blushing bee

Your dress is gorgeous!

I lack the fortitude to run w/ the brides at 3 a.m. (or, uh, anytime before 11, really) so I was planning on going to the summer one and rolling in apres-run as well.

I was hoping it’d be more subdued by 10 a.m… but it sounds a little scary, what with the empty racks and the wheeling-and-dealing! Was it super overwhelming? Obviously you did very well, brava!

 
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Miss Powder Puff (message)  834 posts, Busy bee

Gorgeous!

 
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katrinab
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katrinab (message)  295 posts, Helper bee

so pretty! i am totally intrigued by running of the brides but didn’t have the guts to face the scene.

 
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eva

I love your dress. I actually did the same thing. I went to the running of the brides after the huge rush, and found my dress.

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,412 posts, Bumble bee

Ooooh I really love it Gloss! So delicate and pretty.

 
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Bunny83
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Bunny83 (message)  123 posts, Blushing bee

It’s beautiful!! Congrats, now you have one less thing on your to-do-list.

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

It’s so PRETTY! And you had the “running’ experience - much more unique, I think!

 
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ES123 (message)  1,024 posts, Bumble bee

You lucked out - what a deal! I love the bow that ties at the neck.

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

Bridal boutiques are overrated. You go, you get pampered, and in the end they are either begging you to buy SOMETHING or they’re snippy with you because you didn’t buy something, or they’re gushing over how you’re the most beautiful bride they’ve ever seen (which would be nice to hear if you didn’t overhear them saying it to the girl in the next room). You didn’t miss out, you made your own experience! Wonderful!

 
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Miss Glitter (message)  880 posts, Busy bee

Your “sisterhood of the traveling pants” dress is magical!! Congrats on such an amazing find!

 
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Mrs. Champagne (message)  1,068 posts, Bumble bee

pretty!! i want to see you in it!!!

 
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Mrs. Pineapple (message)  676 posts, Busy bee

It’s so soft and pretty! I am with Champagne, I’m looking forward too seeing it on. You’re going to rock it!

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,067 posts, Bee Keeper

OMG that dress is GORGEOUS! and you got a serious deal sister!
I’m with Mrs Champagne and Pineapple - I can’t wait to see that on :)

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

i definitely think the bottom of that dress is twirltastic! beautiful!

 
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fzraura

I got my dress at the Running of the Brides in NYC last year. We waited until after the initial “rush” as well … and it was WORTH IT. I got $1100 dress for $250!

Your dress is gorgeous!!

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

Yay for a fellow MS bride (and Bostonian and runner of the brides, whew!) It’s absolutely beautiful!

 
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Miss Golden
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Miss Golden (message)  49 posts, Newbee

Ah! You went to the ATL Running? I was there! I’m surprised you have energy to post right now. I’m doing my post later, but long story short, I bought a dress only because I had a free gift card for one (won a contest) and plan on reselling on Ebay to get my dream gown that I couldn’t find today. More bargaining ahead for me. :)

Congrats on finding yours though! I “interviewed” the first people in line (it’s the reporter in me!) and they said they had been there since 11:30 am YESTERDAY! When we were leaving at 10:30, we saw them in the parking lot looking not so happy…I have a feeling they left empty-handed. :(

 
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,055 posts, Bumble bee

@lit_geek26 (and anyone else thinking about ‘running’: if you don’t want to go early and wait I would suggest going around 11/12ish - we left around 1 and at that point most of the dresses were back on the racks.
@Champagne, Pineapple & AliCherri1: You’ll have to wait to see it on - the glossy ‘girls’ were practically jumping out of the dress! There will be some serious upper alterations before pics are posted :)
@Miss Golden: No, I went to the Boston Running of the Brides this past summer. Good Luck finding your dream gown!! Maybe put your other one on the WB Classifieds too!

 
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Miss Popcorn
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Miss Popcorn (message)  90 posts, Worker bee

:) I went to running of the brides in NYC at the end of Feb. and had a BLAST! I also tried on some dresses at a boutique before and Running of the Brides was so much more fun. We were there at 6:30am…The post about it is here if anyone is interested… http://vintageamusements.blogspot.com/2009/03/dress.html

I think to find success there you have to be open minded about what you’d like. My dress didn’t match what I had told the girls I wanted either…but it met the most important criteria—it makes me feel gorgeous! :)

hee hee! I’m so glad you got your dress and had fun! It looks beautiful.

 
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Miss Golden
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Miss Golden (message)  49 posts, Newbee

Oooo, I feel dumb now. haha But yeah, it was quite some experience. This year was INSANE because of the really bad economy. Some girls were downright mean to get the dress they wanted. But overall, it was worth the experience. :)

 
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bloo
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bloo (message)  72 posts, Worker bee

oooo i absolutely love the tie in the back. i tried on something similar and liked it a lot. i’m going to try some more on in the next 2 months. i just have 3-4 months to go….

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,269 posts, Honey bee

I don’t think you were missing out, I think the way you did it was actually a great idea and makes me wish I had done the same thing!

 
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caeebe (message)  37 posts, Newbee

@Miss Golden:
I was at today’s ATL running of the brides. I have a dress that I’m having second thoughts about and I was really hoping to find my dream dress today. Unfortunately it walked out the store on another girl’s arm before I had a chance to try it on. I got there about 11am and about half of the dresses were back on the rack and about half on the floor still. The dresses sure get ragged.

 
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eastwestbride (message)  39 posts, Newbee

YAY for tall girls. The halter neck will look absolutely fabulous and so elegant!

 
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Miss Golden
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Miss Golden (message)  49 posts, Newbee

@caeebe: There was a girl next to me wearing a $10,000 (yes…ten thousand!) gown and it has rips and snags all over it. I could tell it was her dream dress, but it had been tossed around to the point of no return. It was so hard to watch. She would have been the one to walk out saving $9300 on her gown if people hadn’t been such savages. Broke my heart.

 
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Miss Gloss
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,055 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Golden: That is really sad, and alterations/fixing it can be really expensive - I don’t think the Boston one last summer was as violent.
My dress has one tiny stitch that needs to be repaired, but it took me weeks to even find that! It was also totally clean - my alterations lady thought I had already had it cleaned after I told her where I got it!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

looks awesome! sounds like you have the statuesque figure to look gorgeous in it too! yaay!

 
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Gerbera
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Gerbera (message)  830 posts, Busy bee

OMG. I’m super jealous that you got such an amazing deal on the dress. Maybe I don’t have to resort to a custom made dress from China to spend less than 1K on a dress.
Days like this -wedding dress shopping- I wished I was back in NYC. Sigh.
Me thinks this is reason enough to plan my next trip home around a “running of the brides”. How about Kleinfeld sample sales? Did anyone get a deal like THIS at one of Kleinfelds?

 
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driftslikesmoke
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driftslikesmoke (message)  1,220 posts, Bumble bee

Oooh, beautiful dress, and what a great deal! There was just a running of the brides in Atlanta yesterday, and I thought of going, but since I already have two dresses (and won’t be wearing one!), I had to keep myself away.

I don’t think you missed out on not doing the boutique experience, though. Honestly, a lot of times I found it to be more trouble and pressure than it was worth. :)

 
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Newport Nuptials
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,133 posts, Bumble bee

Running of the Brides is great! I can’t wait to run in August!

I am in love with Melissa Sweet, hopefully I’ll be bale to find my own. Your dress is gorgeous! Tha back is stunning. :)

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

I love the sheer overlay and softness! Beautiful!

 
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preppydoc (message)  42 posts, Newbee

oh my…. that is amazing!!! who cares about the dress shop experience, you got an amazing dress for an amazing price!!

 
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Margaux

I don’t think you missed out on the boutique shopping…my mom and I spent an entire day shopping for dresses and the only store I remember fondly was the one that had my dress! It’s more about the moment you find it than the shop-a-thon preceding it. Glad you found it so easily (not having to go to 7 shops)!

 
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go2bee
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go2bee (message)  185 posts, Blushing bee

Oh that’s so nice!!!!!! Yes I’m sure the details on the dress is a LOT nicer than it is in the pictures. Your dress gives off a very clean and gentle vibe =) Very nice fabric!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,601 posts, Sugar bee

Love the dress!!! :)

 
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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

I love the flowyness of your dress!!! just beautiful!

 
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LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

OMG what a great bargain! Dress is beautiful!

 
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Crash (message)  378 posts, Helper bee

I went to a running of the brides and was really hoping to get something. Everything was under $400 and looked, um, under $100.

 
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cushion cut engagement ring

it looks very lovely and sweet…it’s beautiful

 


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