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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.
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Peek-a-Boo - Something Blue

March 23rd, 2009 @ 5:11 pm by Mrs. Stiletto

I tried on my dress again over the weekend. I hadn’t put it on since the day I bought it back in October, so I was a little anxious. At the time, the dress did zip, but it was tight. Really tight. Since it was a sample dress, what I tried on was what I bought, and the saleswoman assured me that my alterations person would be able to let it out a bit where needed.

My goal, like any typical bride, is to ensure that it won’t need to be let out! However, after a long Chicago winter, I was desperately hoping that I hadn’t packed on the pounds and that the dress would still zip. It did, and I could sort of sit down in it and as long as I didn’t want to take a lot of deep breaths, all would be good. Needless to say, I’ve got a little work cut out for me, and fortunately my first fitting is still months away! It was great spending some time with my mom this weekend and seeing how my veil and shoes worked with the dress. Love it!

So anyway, back to the blue. I took a lot of time looking at different garters and trying to decide what look to go for - something a little more sultry, a little va-va-va-voom, or sweet and innocent? Needless to say, there are endless options out there, from favorite sports teams to garters adorned with feathers and crystal.

Etsy’s Garter Lady has a wealth of different designs at different price points. I finally opted for her “dainty” pale blue set with pearl accent. It’s feminine and sweet, with a vintage feel. The pale blue works perfectly as my “something blue”, and I was able to stay within my budget, spending only $15 plus shipping for the set! Woo hoo!

Peek-a-Boo - Something Blue :  wedding accessories Garter  Source: Etsy

I think this is going to look so sweet under my dress, although I’m still a little hesitant about this tradition encouraging Mr. S to search underneath my dress with all of our nearest and dearest around us!

Anyone else out there have the same reservations about the garter toss?

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Cole B
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Cole B (message)  1,362 posts, Bumble bee

I have reservations about the garter toss, but if my garter was as beautiful and delicate as yours I’d be tempted to show it off!

 
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preppydoc (message)  42 posts, Newbee

I do because we both come from Catholic families. Not only that, I was a debutant and my family is very southern. I am really not sure what I want to do about this. I have seen it done very tastefully, well about as tastefully as it can get, but I have also seen it done in a very raunchy way… and i was embarrassed for the bride and the brides guests.

I would like to see some opinions about this subject because I am not sure…

 
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cfitz621 (message)  169 posts, Blushing bee

You don’t *have* to do a garter toss. Always consider that as an option. Of all the weddings I’ve been to in the last few years, only one had a boquet/garter toss.

The garter, since you’ve already ordered it, can be your something blue and your something special for Mr. Stiletto ;)

 
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Tara

We’re not doing a garter toss for that exact reason! I don’t want anyone searching under my dress with 100 people around. I can’t think of anything more mortifying - and neither can my fiance.

I do like the idea, however, of having it be something special for Mr. S after everyone has gone home…. :-P

 
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Melissa

I’m with you sister! I have decided not to do a garter toss at all…or a bouquet toss at my wedding. I would be mortified and I find them a little degrading personally, but I would never judge those who are into it, I’m just not. However, I still like the idea of a garter hidden away for my man later on that night. I just refuse to have a piece of my underwear ripped off by someone’s teeth in front of everyone I know.

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  882 posts, Busy bee

I am definitely not doing a garter toss. Or a bouquet toss!

 
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Meg

I’m skipping out on the garter and boquet tosses - i do have a garter though, i bought a camo one b/c i thought it was hilarious

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Those garters are too cute!

 
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bellenga
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bellenga (message)  7,536 posts, Bee Keeper

Lovely garters! I’ll be checking her Etsy site too.

 
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MightySapphire (message)  7,632 posts, Bee Keeper

I got my garter from Etsy Lady too! It didn’t come exactly as I’d hoped, but the set is adorable and now I’m glad she didn’t listen to what I said I wanted it to look like. It’s so cute! And it’s got a something blue on it too! I am a little worried about the garter toss, but I think since my dress has PLENTY of room for him to get in there, it won’t look as…raunchy…as I’ve seen others look. LOL I had the OPPOSITE problem as you, I bought my dress too big, now I have to bring it IN IN IN!

 
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yogigal
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yogigal (message)  419 posts, Helper bee

I just wanted to say, I feel you on the tight dress and chicago winter :(

I have the same issue! grrrr, it’s almost really spring.

 
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utmeggie
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utmeggie (message)  29 posts, Newbee

I actually bought one very similar form the same place on Etsy for a friend. The garter was awesome and we both loved it! Good Choice!!!

 
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

Loving the garter! :) I’m still not sure about the garter search either! Scares me for some reason.

 
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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  874 posts, Busy bee

Love that garter! But I too am scared of the whole garter toss tradition!

 
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theblissfulbride (message)  23 posts, Newbee

Love your choice! I know what you mean about the garter toss — I’ve been to far too many weddings where the whole crowd got a shot up the bride’s dress. So, being modest, we opted out of that tradition — but that doesn’t mean you can’t have your own garter toss together later, right? Ya know, without the crowd? ;-)

BTW, no one even noticed that we skipped the tradition… I suppose if we had had LOTS of young single males it might’ve been different…

 
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tucson

stiletto, i’ve got a question for you — i live in chicago and am looking for a good place to get my dress alterations done. do you have suggestions? thanks!

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

lovely choice for the garter!!! i’m also not doing the garter toss..too scared!

 
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MrsDavis (message)  251 posts, Helper bee

I actually went to the bathroom to slip on the tossing garter since I wanted to keep mine and then we forgot all about the garter toss (and the bouquet toss for that matter). No one mentioned it and I was fine with that since I wasn’t overly excited about doing them anyway.

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  918 posts, Busy bee

It’s so funny, all, because I don’t think I realized how hesitant I was about the garter toss until I wrote this post! Funny what feelings come out when you’re blogging :)

I struggle with the traditional things that you always imagine at your wedding just because it’s ingrained in you, versus the things that I want to do because they fit with our personalities (ie using a cool instrumental cover of a song we like vs. playing the Wedding March).

What to do, what to do …. :)

 
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bethanyleigh (message)  57 posts, Worker bee

I’m unsure about the garter toss tradition as well! My wedding AND reception are in a church, so I don’t know if we’ll do the toss or not! I do have a garter from http://www.juliannesmith.com that I am very excited about though!

 
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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.

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