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Hiya hive!

I’ve been wrestling with this issue for a while and I thought I’d throw it out to you all (since you’re so good!).

My FH has some health conditions that are starting to cost us a great deal of $. He is a student and has no health insurance. When we first got engaged he insisted that we wait a full year to get married so as not to offend his best man who was engaged and getting married in June {le sigh}. At the time I threw a fit, touting all the benefits of getting married ASAP, but he ultimately won the battle. Now with the onset of doctor and hospital bills, plus the expense of prescription drugs, marriage, and being added to my excellent health insurance, getting married seems like an amazing option for our little family, according to my FI.

Problem is, I just can’t pull the trigger. We have a beautiful, romantic soiree in August all planned, and I feel like we’d be cheating ourselves and everyone else if we got married, say, tomorrow at the courthouse. We wouldn’t tell anyone, just HR and the state of VA, but I still have these overwhelming pangs of guilt about potentially going through with it.

Am I being crazy? Or should we just do it?

lreighard1

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