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Hot Thread: He’ll Only Marry Me If…

March 30th, 2009 @ 12:23 pm by Beehive

My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years. We fit together perfectly. We want all the same things in life and we are both ready to move on in life—get a house, get married, etc. There is one little catch. He loves children and I do not. I don’t like screaming, spoiled children. Well, not that he does, either. Anyway, I’m not sure if I will ever want children. I think I will one day, but I’m not 100% sure. He told me he’ll only marry me if I say that I 100% want children. Right now, it is more around 80% what I want. I told him all this, and he says that it is not good enough that I think I will want children. I realize this is a super important part of his future, and I don’t want to be unfair to him. However, it also makes me feel like he does not love me unconditionally. I love him a lot, and I don’t want to lose him, but I also want someone who loves me no matter what.

I’d just like some thoughts from some neutral 3rd parties.

Thanks

tig

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