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Hi,

Like 70 million people out there, I have a Facebook account. I opened it to reconnect with high school friends more than anything. I don’t use it to post pictures or publish my life. And I have no problem with people that do any of those things either.

Nonetheless, I like my privacy, and FB has turned into a monster as I’ve become friends with people from grade school, high school, family, college, ex co-workers, my real friends, etc…

I would really like for our guests to NOT post any pictures in Facebook, let alone tag me in those pictures. I have a lot of reasons for this that are very private to me and the FI. I know I have no control over what they do, but can I ask them in a nice way to not do it?

We are doing a Shutterfly website so that our guests can share the pictures of the BIG event and using Miss Kitten’s idea for delivering that message. Hopefully those cards can influence our guests to use Shutterfly instead of FB.

I will probably deactivate the FB account or set the privacy settings to the max before the wedding, just in case.

Any advice? Is it wrong to tell people to not post in FB?

El Capataz

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