Weddingbee Blog

So, a few months ago I knew I was going to get engaged and I started planning my wedding in my head and on The Knot. I already had a good idea of who my bridesmaids would be. I even told them that I would have them in the wedding. I was talking to my one friend about how I planned to include her. Not too long after, we had a huge fight where she yelled at me for some pretty stupid things (like goofing around) that none of my other friends would have ever gotten mad about. We didn’t talk for a month, but finally just said, “let’s agree to disagree,” and put it behind us.

I don’t feel the same towards her anymore, but she went on pretending we were the best of friends after that. I still haven’t forgotten what happened and don’t see her as such a great friend anymore. When I got engaged she didn’t say anything about being in the wedding, but asked if she could plan my bachelorette party, told me how excited she was, that she needed to lose weight for my wedding, and so on. I know she asked one of our mutual friends if she thought she was still in the wedding. I know I have to say SOMETHING to her, but I don’t know what to say. She still acts like she’s my bestest friend and wants to help me plan the wedding, but I really don’t want her that involved.

What do I say!?

soontobeLJW

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