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Mrs. Beagle, Austin Age and Occupation: 26, Electrical Engineer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Finance Engagement Date: July 12, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Church Ceremony/Reception at The Waterford House About Me: I am a true, but rare, Austinite---I was born, raised, and continue to live in this great city! Although I am an engineer by day, I feed my inner creative side through crafting, sewing, and obsessing over Martha Stewart. I love coffee, my mister, NPR, and exploring all the nooks and crannies of Austin. I can't wait to share my adventures in DIY and wedding planning with all of you!
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*The* Engagement

April 7th, 2009 @ 8:34 am by Mrs. Beagle

Mr. Beagle and I had picked out and bought *the* ring together about 3 months prior to our formal engagement, so I knew the proposal was coming, I just didn’t know when. I knew he wouldn’t propose on our anniversary, because we don’t have one. :) I thought (*hoped) he might propose on an upcoming trip to the beach we were taking to celebrate a family member’s graduation. However, my parents were in the process of moving back to Austin and would not be home until after our return. Mr. Beagle, being the gentleman that he is, really wanted to speak with them in person before the proposal to satisfy tradition. So I waited. And I waited. And I waited. My birthday was approaching, and I kind of put the proposal out of mind because I knew he wouldn’t do it then. When we talked about the proposal shortly after we bought the ring, I casually mentioned I didn’t want a proposal on my birthday—I told him I wanted our engagement to be on a day that was uniquely special to both of us, and not one that already had a special meaning to one of us. So naturally, that sneaky Mr. Beagle planned to do it the day before my birthday, to throw me off guard. Which he did.

On the day of the engagement, we started our morning with breakfast at the local cafe we love. While we sat enjoying our coffee, Mr. Beagle mentioned that it would be nice to visit a nearby winery later that afternoon. I said that might be nice, but honestly, I was really not that interested in going.

You see, it was a really hot day (like over 100 hot). And hot afternoons in Texas should only be spent in the comfort of the AC. Not outside in the heat, drinking wine. So, after I woke up from my nap in the early afternoon hours (um, exhausted by the heat), I discovered that Mr. Beagle had a new plan: we were going to the Zilker Botanical Gardens so that I could practice my photography by taking photos (I like photography, a lot) that we could make into artwork for our house (at the time the walls were looking pretty bare). The gardens are really beautiful, but it took some work to convince me that this was a good idea (did I mention it was HOT?). I think it was only after he mentioned a stop on the way to pick up iced coffee (oh yeah, I also like coffee, a lot) that I was finally on board for the trip. We finally arrived at the gardens, coffee and camera in hand, ready to start taking photos. We made our way through most of the gardens, stopping frequently to admire the koi fish and flowers.


There were quite a number of people there that day, and we really didn’t have a moment where we were really alone. So after we had made it through the entire length of the gardens, Mr. Beagle wanted to go back. What? But we just finished? He said he wanted to take some pictures by a waterfall that we had passed in the beginning. At this point, I started to protest because it was hot, and my iced coffee was gone. :( I also started getting suspicious. Mr. Beagle was acting kind of odd all morning. He had said he wasn’t feeling well earlier in the day, and he never gets sick, and then he really tried hard to convince me that we HAD to go out today. I quickly scanned his pockets as we made our way back to the waterfall, searching for signs of a ring box, but there was nothing there.


We sat on a bench a few feet away from the waterfall (with butterflies fluttering in my stomach), and with no one else around, he started telling me how much he loved me. At that point I knew what was coming. I teared up realizing that he was on one knee and nervously held out my hand while he slipped on *the* ring. Sigh. And we hugged. And we kissed. We were engaged.

Did your fiance make your engagement a surprise? Was it a reflection of you or your relationship?

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34 Responses to “*The* Engagement”

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Gerbera
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Gerbera (message)  832 posts, Busy bee

ahahhaha. This is such a cute proposal story! Aw. I love how Mr. Beagle knew all the buttons to push to get you out in that sweltering southern heat!

 
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jessieann84
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jessieann84 (message)  31 posts, Newbee

how sweet!! i love coffee and photos too!!! cant wait to see the ring!!

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

That’s so sweet!! I don’t know why men get so hard-headed about where and when they’ll do the proposal…it’s 105 degrees, you’re dripping with sweat, but he wants to do it THERE. HAHA! But you both look so happy!!

 
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mary-alice-me
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mary-alice-me (message)  1,870 posts, Buzzing bee

That sounds like a really nice idea — good job throwing you off! Beautiful flower pics.

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Haha, my theory continues to be proven true — guys acting super shady and girls protesting and practically putting up a fight, mere minutes before the propsal! Sweet story, thanks for sharing!

 
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amy77jc
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amy77jc (message)  275 posts, Helper bee

Ours was very private and when we were home alone. It was a surprise b/c he said the timing wasn’t right financially even though we thought we had found the “perfect” stone… turns out we did and i was still surprised!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Bruschetta: I know! After the fact, I felt kind of bad that I complained so much.

 
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Steph921
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Steph921 (message)  190 posts, Blushing bee

What a great story! Guys love the thought of the surprise, at least my FI did. He totally caught me off guard - I knew it would be coming soon as we had discussed many times, but the day he proposed was completely out of the blue. Love it!

 
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Tstew
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Tstew (message)  109 posts, Blushing bee

You have such a great story…. My FI lives for surprises. I was totally caught off guard because there had been several other situations where I thought he was going to propose. So, after about 3 great dates I put it in the back of my mind.

I think GUYS love the suspense…

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

aww what a cute story!

 
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Miss Popcorn
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Miss Popcorn (message)  90 posts, Worker bee

So….how do you not have an anniversary?

 
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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

Aw, very cute story! My FI surprised me with his proposal too!

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

Such a cute story! :)
Is the last photo a self-portrait? You two look so adorably happy!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Popcorn: There isn’t a specific day that we started dating & we never really had a first date…. we were friends, then we became even better friends that hung out all the time, then we became more than friends :) I guess our engagement day is our anniversary until our wedding day (I can’t wait to have an anniversary to celebrate)!

@steph921; @tstew; @amy77jc; @purplehaze79: I’m so glad he made it a surprise. I was wondering if my reaction would just as emotional since we picked out the ring together.. and it was!

@miss rye bread: A self portrait it is! We took it right after I said yes.

 
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Miss Mascara (message)  774 posts, Busy bee

Wow Mr. Beagle and Mr. Mascara proposed in almost the exact same way! We got engaged in the Chicago Botanic Gardens on a really hot day after I complained that I didn’t want to go :)

 
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Mrs. Hot Cocoa (message)  1,721 posts, Bumble bee

Such a cute story!

 
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LzzNYC
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LzzNYC (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

That’s so sweet!!! It’s so nice that you had your camera to take a picture of the moment!
I had no idea what so ever until he looked like so terrified and told me how much he loved me as well. I shoulda picked up on the hints of him being nervous but I didn’t! I’m so goofy and dorky I go along with his crazy plans… :-)

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

Such a sweet story! I was surprised as well. We were supposed to be just going out to dinner with my family and he suspiciously and awkwardly asked if I wanted to go for a walk.

 
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Miss Quiche (message)  2,186 posts, Buzzing bee

awww…how sweet!

 
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karilynn6 (message)  99 posts, Worker bee

That’s such a sweet story, and what a beautiful place to get engaged! I had never been there until we went hunting for a ceremony location, but the gardens there are incredible. And I love Galaxy, I’m so glad to see they opened one in the Triangle - yay!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,640 posts, Bumble bee

What a sweet and touching story!!!!

 
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MaPo
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MaPo (message)  312 posts, Helper bee

I got a total surpirse. I was really expecting the prosposal about 6 months later than it came, so it was a shocker. Mr. Boyfriend. At the zoo. With the Ring. In front of the fountain.

 
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frenchbulldog
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

Awe, what a sweet story! FH’s proposal was also a reflection of our relationship… we had spent the whole day together and he took me to our favorite restaurant for dinner and then to our bench behind a beach resort near home :)

 
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doublemint921 (message)  489 posts, Helper bee

What a sweet proposal! Sounds like everything worked out perfectly in the end, well besides the fact that it was probably still 100 degrees and your coffee was gone. :)

 
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Ms. Sapphire
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Ms. Sapphire (message)  231 posts, Helper bee

Such a sweet proposal! Despite the heat, it sounds like it was a perfect day!

 
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Miss Glitter (message)  880 posts, Busy bee

Mr. G went to great lengths to create a surprise engagement. He even got me a fake diamond ring!

You have a beautiful engagement story!

 
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Margoxyvon (message)  32 posts, Newbee

As a fellow Austinite that spends daylight hours indoors between June-September, I completely understand your point of view! Great story!

 
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asdionis
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asdionis (message)  66 posts, Worker bee

What a cute story! I love that the hot Texas sun was a prominent part of your proposal memory :) Like the previous commenter, I’m an Austinite, too!
Our proposal story is a little like yours; we picked out the ring a couple months earlier and I knew he’d bought it, but not when it was coming. I was totally surprised!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

so sweet. makes all the sweating worth it eh?! :P

 
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Cole B
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Cole B (message)  450 posts, Helper bee

such a cute story!

 
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honeymyheart
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honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

great story and beautiful setting.

 
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miss mouse (message)  3,354 posts, Sugar bee

Aww, sweet story. I’ve lived in Austin for 8 years, and I’ve never been to the botanical gardens, haha.

 
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Whitty B

Surprise engagements are the best! My FI and I were in Park City, Utah (we live in NC) up on the top of a snow covered mountain during a snowmobile tour when he popped the question! Not only were we in a beautiful location but he had brought along two amazing Utah photographers (retrospectstudios.com) to capture the moment!

 
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Brittney

my fiance proposed at the Botanical Gardens too :) And… it involved photography just like you… :)

 


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