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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.
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If at First You Don’t Succeed…

April 13th, 2009 @ 2:07 pm by Mrs. Bruschetta

… trial and retrial again! After reading about Mrs. Cupcake’s awesome hair and makeup pros, I reached out to Natalie Pagano and Emily Aznavourian to inquire about their availability for my wedding day. Since I wanted to see how both aspects of my day-of look would come together, I asked Natalie and Emily if we could arrange for a joint trial.

Both happily agreed, and we planned to meet at Emily’s house. (They often work together for weddings, but this was the first time Natalie and Emily did back-to-back trials together!) Mama and Sister Bruschetta came along, and captured the trials on my camera.

~~~ Now entering a NO MR. BRUSCHETTA ZONE ~~~

Google led me to my inspiration photos (thanks for the helpful suggestions about my celebrity double!):

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Natalie modified the woven bun slightly, adding a slightly poofy look to the front/top of my hair. We also discussed how my ideal wedding day look would be a slightly lower bun, incorporating more of the “woven” look. What do you think? (Oh, and be nice — we did hairstyles before the makeup trial, so this is a bare-faced Bruschetta!)

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We even played with a wedding veil Natalie had brought along — definitely helpful, since I haven’t purchased my own yet!

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Emily’s work was simply flawless. She used a variety of products (way more than I do on a regular basis!) to achieve a look I can’t wait to repeat on my wedding day — it’s me, just more polished. It looked great in both artificial and natural light… and Emily was sweet enough to ham it up for a picture!

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But, it wasn’t all so easy. Less than two hours after my trials — while just relaxing at home — my updo started falling out. A short while later, big pieces of hair randomly hung sloppily from my once-neat hairstyle. I phoned Natalie immediately, expressing my anxiety. And, she immediately agreed with my concerns, and suggested we do another trial — this one complimentary — so she could figure out how to manage my fine hair properly.

So, this past weekend, I headed over to Natalie’s apartment. She told me she wanted to shampoo and blow-dry my hair, to give it extra body. And then, we attempted the woven bun again (but this time placed the style a little lower) — and posed for a “candid” shot together.

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Nope, still not my veil…

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After the second trial, I hid out at Mama and Daddy Bruschetta’s for the afternoon, since I don’t want Mr. Bruschetta to see my wedding day hair yet. On the day-of, we’ll take the bun a bit lower still — aiming for it to fall right between my ears — and Natalie’s confident the style will hold even better (though I’m happy to report it stayed up perfectly all day!) and have more of a woven look, with this slightly altered placement. I love how, from the front, this style looks classic and somewhat retro — I feel like I’m channeling Holly Golightly — but from the back, it’s crazy and whimsical.

Any other fine-haired girls out there? What are your tips for a successful updo? And, did it take more than one trial for you to get your hair and/or makeup looking wedding-day ready?

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20 Responses to “If at First You Don’t Succeed…”

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Mrs. DG
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Mrs. DG (message)  4,227 posts, Honey bee

I’m fine haired… and all I can say is “lots of product”. The woman who was originally going to do my hair kept going on and on about how I’d want flowing locks. Clearly she couldn’t understand that with my fine hair, my only goal was to put it into place and not have to worry about it again… Seriously!

Needless to say, I’m looking for someone new!

 
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Miss Burgundy
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Miss Burgundy (message)  907 posts, Busy bee

You look lovely! They did a really great job with your hair and makeup!!

 
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purpleHaze79
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

Very cute!!! Yay for a great hair trial after all! And you could totally be Emmy Rossum’s twin, btw!

 
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Mrs. Cupcake
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,169 posts, Bumble bee

It looks fab! Not that I’m surprised :-) You do look so natural, just “refined,” and I think that’s of ultimate importance. Both Natalie and Emily made me worry-free about my hair and makeup on the wedding day (and I’ve remained friends with both of them since our big day!). It’s so nice to have vendors you get along with.

 
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lreighard1
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lreighard1 (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

I’m a huge fan of the bun! Both times! I’m glad that the second one stayed in better :)

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

@Mrs. Cupcake: They’re both so sweet, and had some great ideas to help me achieve my ideal wedding day look. And during the second hair trial at Natalie’s apartment, I recognized the front of your thank you note — saw the teal, green and Abermarle Swash and was like “yup, that’s Cupcake’s!”

 
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Sparkles
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Sparkles (message)  706 posts, Busy bee

I had two different trials with two different stylists. And neither really captured a look I had in mind. So I am going to give the stylists another try otherwise I will have to keep searching for someone to do my hair. It is rather frustrating.
You look great btw! Love the woven look!

 
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diorable (message)  251 posts, Helper bee

I have really fine hair too and the advice I’ve always gotten about hair “falling” out of a style is to not wash it the day of the appointment. The extra oil does magical things I guess.

 
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denise

Hmm… well, while I don’t want to be negative, but I can’t say that I like the ‘do. It just looks as if random strands of hair were lumped together on top of a bun, you know? I don’t see anything about it that’s woven, like your inspiration picture. However, your makeup does look very nice! :)

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

@denise: Thanks for sharing your opinion. I really LIKE the randomness of the big, messy bun — and how it contrasts with the simple, classic front part of the ‘do. And when I talked to Natalie about the woven look, she advised me that it’s possible to replicate the inspiration photo a bit more, but I’d need a bunch of extensions, and I’m not interested in going that route. Also, my hair’s not quite brown, but definitely not blond, and intricate styles (like the photo I brought along with me) show up much better on lighter-haired ladies.

 
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DEGirl (message)  60 posts, Worker bee

Hi Miss Bruschetta!

I also don’t want to be negative. But I actually had a trial with Natalie (I live in DE!) and I wasn’t thrilled with the results after 2 styles. I also didn’t have the heart to tell her at the time because she’s so nice, and left a deposit anyway. What does your gut say? I think you should at least do a trial with one more stylist. It’s worth the extra $$ for your peace of mind.

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,601 posts, Sugar bee

Cute hair!!! I wonder what would it look like with some hair in the front, wispy side swept bangs, perhaps?

 
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norak82

I’m so glad you wrote about your experience– I’m trialing with Natalie and Emily this Friday! :)

 
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Crash (message)  378 posts, Helper bee

I have really fine hair too. I never know what to do with it. To combat that I’m going with a lower ‘do, which I think looks better on me anyway. I look young, especially when I smile, so I want to stay far, far away from an updo that might look at all prommy.

 
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mvp_bride

I completely sympathize! I have very fine hair, and the last time I was a bridesmaid and we had mandatory updos it was a mess. They attacked me with a million bobby pins and a gallon of hair spray, but it was definitely something I do not want to replicate for my own wedding… For my engagement photo they curled my hair before pulling it back, and it stayed much better. I’m definitely going for a messy updo so that the escaped pieces of hair won’t look horribly out of place!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

I love the back! I’m paranoid about my hair falling out too. I have a strong dislike for bobby pins…we don’t have a great relationship.

 
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beachykeen

Definitely agree with it a little lower. I think on the first trial it looked a bit high school prom.

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

I had so much product in my hair that it was SOLID. I wanted flowing curls and I got them, but in a solid way! Luckily they looked nice from afar :-) I feel your fine hair pain. Your style looks great though!

 
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Amanda71109

hmm I dont really like it, it doesnt look at all like the picture you gave her. I wonder if you could maybe try someone else?

 
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Katie

I have very thin hair as well and for my hair trial the girl told me not to wash my hair for two days before. If you are getting married on Saturday, I recommend shampoo-ing your hair twice on Thursday, using a light conditioner on the ends, and lots of product before you blow dry. Then don’t wash it again until after the wedding. I wore my hair down and in curls (which NEVER stays on a regular day) and I had the curls all throughout the weekend!

 


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