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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.
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Civil Inspirations

April 22nd, 2009 @ 10:21 am by Mrs. Mary Jane

The idea behind a civil ceremony is that it’s personal, bare-bones, and intimate. To me, there’s something so romantic about “just doing it”. It’s like saying, “we wanted to get married, so we did.” I find it amazing how something with such traditional roots has now become unusual, but I’m not complaining! I don’t need to go with the flow.

A city hall ceremony doesn’t exactly require a multi-tabbed binder and a hired coordinator to plan. All we need is about $70 for the license, and all we want beyond that is our parents, a nice dress and handsome suit, our wedding rings, some (any) flowers, and a piece of cake afterward. But I’m still allowed to have some inspiration, right? It’s actually rather difficult to find photos of stylish civil ceremonies. Due to the roots that inspire them, I suppose they’re just not heavily photographed. It’s a court procedure, rather than a super-glamorous party. It’s still meaningful though, and the photos that I have found really reflect the happiness and personalities of the couples.

Look at these simple, happy affairs.

Civil Inspirations :  wedding pictures Cityhal
[Sources: top (both), bottom: left, center, right]

I can’t stop drooling over this one. Her hair, her dress, her lips, his color-coordinated tie… gah!

Civil Inspirations :  wedding pictures Cityhal01
[Source, found via this site.]

And oh! Look at these two. Love it. So vintage, with an extremely modern edge.

Civil Inspirations :  wedding pictures Cityhal02
[source]

I’m sure you’ll recognize one of these…

Civil Inspirations :  wedding pictures Cityhal03
[sources: left, right- the story surrounding this one is quite interesting.]

I’ve saved my personal favorites for last. Look at the bride on the left’s coat and shoes! The simplistic style of the couple on the right! I’m so full of love for these weddings.

Civil Inspirations :  wedding pictures Cityhal04
[sources: left, right]

Are you starting to see how I was hooked by city hall? Would you consider a civil ceremony for your own wedding?

*Note: I had to crop some of the above photos to make them fit in my collage. Visit each source page to see their original as well as other awesome shots from each event.

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Oooo, I love the flowers in the first inspiration photos — these are all so different and obviously special in their own way!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh wow, just read up on the interesting photo story above — love the angle the photographer captured!

 
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,566 posts, Bumble bee

I love that gown carrie wore to city hall!

 
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,970 posts, Buzzing bee

@Miss Rye Bread - yeah me too! A commenter on another post told me that it’s a $6000 Christian Dior. Doh!

 
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Jo

but… it was vintage $6,000 Dior? ;)

you’re absolutely right about the romance of a “let’s do this” attitude. it’s probably also loads easier to truly make it your own when you don’t have the entire female portion of your family breathing down your neck about every decision!

 
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Cacey

Have you seen this City Hall marriage? It is gorgeous and the bride is so pretty.

http://www.annhamiltonblog.com/index.cfm?q=Anna+%2B+Seth+%28part+I%29+&x=8&y=15

 
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,222 posts, Bumble bee

I totally would! I actually suggested it once, Mr. Gloss shot me down - but I didn’t put up too much of a fight :)

 
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lou

@Miss Mary Jane:

Wha’?! What happened to Carrie’s outfit being a simple ‘no label’ dress? :)

Love the simplicity and independence of City Hall weddings. And they do seem vintage to me as well - I just think of Paul/Linda McCartney’s and Mick/Biance Jagger’s weddings .

 
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,970 posts, Buzzing bee

@lou - I dunno; not a huge SATC buff - it’s just what someone said in a comment: that carrie’s “no label” dress was actually a $6k Dior. Maybe Google holds the truth?

 
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,970 posts, Buzzing bee

@Cacey - OMG, I had not seen that one. Beautiful! Thanks.

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  2,272 posts, Buzzing bee

ZAAAAAAH! I love the yellow dress one!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,380 posts, Bumble bee

I love that yellow dress! I love the simplicity of a city hall wedding… if I wasn’t half way through planning ours, I would definately consider it!

 
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Nina (message)  8 posts, Newbee

I agree…I think civil unions are a little romantic…it’s all about the couple :-)

 
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rannfar

I am in love with the yellow dress wedding. They both look so happy, plus the groom is adorable. If I were going to do a city hall wedding that’s the way I’d do it.

 
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chelseamorning (message)  2,252 posts, Buzzing bee

That bottom right photo of the unsmiling couple has such excellent, amazing composition. That is a beautiful picture. Look at the way it says “to an exit” next to her head…is it an exit to the wedding? :)

 
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Cara

I love these pictures you included!
I have a question about your statement at the beginning though. How does a civil ceremony have traditional roots? I was pretty sure that religious ceremonies are the most traditional ways to go about getting married.

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,804 posts, Buzzing bee

I often find myself wondering why we didn’t just do City Hall. If only I could call rewind. Can’t wait to see your pics!!

 
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mary-alice-me (message)  1,864 posts, Buzzing bee

I considered doing City Hall. My city has a beautiful city hall! Alas, they perform marriages in the courthouse. Big, foreboding, industrial looking, and with the tone of people making judgments and waiting for freedom or sentences. Not a place for my wedding! Love your inspiration, although that last couple doesn’t look too happy.

 
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MissCamera (message)  770 posts, Busy bee

I too love the vintage romantic feel of city hall weddings. Especially when you’re lucky enough to have the beautiful historic city hall buildings, there’s so much charm and history there already!

Ever since your post on the brown suit (which is a great idea) I couldn’t help looking for something vintage and sassy for you to wear. While I agree the traditional wedding dress wouldn’t fit in your “vision”, (pardon me for saying this) I think your suit is also a little too blah and makes you look older than you are. While you dont want a wedding dress, you still want to look and feel good on one of the most important days of your life, yes?

I did a little searching and wanted to share some of the options I found:

http://www.unique-vintage.com/stop-staring-black-yellow-pleated-dress-p-2117.html?osCsid=100b0c7a5fc02dbf3e07b9bce26595f4

http://www.unique-vintage.com/queen-heartz-style-seafoam-green-dress-xs3x-p-1880.html

http://www.unique-vintage.com/ivory-embroidered-short-antique-style-wedding-dress-p-2723.html

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

yellow dress is adorable!! you are making me think twice about the “production” of a wedding..!!!

 
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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.

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