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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.
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Addressing the Options

May 1st, 2009 @ 3:10 pm by Mrs. Bruschetta

I love receiving mail. I’m that person who actually notices the stamp on an envelope, and appreciates seeing my name and address scrolled in fine penmanship.

Addressing the Options :  wedding calligraphy Calligr01

Since the little details are important to me, I’m thrilled to have found a talented and affordable calligrapher through Etsy. (And can’t believe I didn’t know about this amazing site until I started reading Weddingbee — blasphemous, I know!) Etsy has also led me to the letterpress designer who will be creating and printing the Bruschetta wedding invitations.

I’ll be revealing these pros in future posts — I know, I know, I tease – but for the present, have a question to pose to the hive.

If the front of the envelopes are addressed by our calligrapher, should she also handle the return address portion of the back flaps? Or, should we have this part completed in letterpress? I’m torn between my love of consistency and my desire to pinch pennies when possible — and back flap printing is included in the letterpress package. (Another option — which would be much cheaper than individually hand-written return addresses — is to have our calligrapher hand letter the return address once, and then scan and print it onto the back flaps.)

I realize it’s a minor decision — and totally acknowledge this is a splurge for almost any budget (ours included!) — but would love to hear what you think.

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34 Responses to “Addressing the Options”

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Habibi
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Habibi (message)  567 posts, Busy bee

It’s perfectly appropriate for the return address to match the printing used on the invitation! go forth and letterpress that sucker.

 
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Lovespearls
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Lovespearls (message)  863 posts, Busy bee

How about having her doing it once, uploading it to a file and having a custom stamp created of that file? That way it will still have that real ink look?

 
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monalisa670
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monalisa670 (message)  869 posts, Busy bee

I had this dilemma too because we are having letterpress invites and a calligrapher too- I’m also THAT girl that loves anything written, paper, etc! In the end we went with letterpress return address on the backflap because it was a bit cheaper. I almost feel like it’s a little more formal that way too, or am I just telling myself that?

 
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Miss Mascara (message)  859 posts, Busy bee

Funny you post this…I was just thinking of the same dilemma this morning! I’ll be paying attention to your responses :)

 
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heather25
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heather25 (message)  2,355 posts, Buzzing bee

Can she send a file to the letterpress company so they can create a plate with her script?

 
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ATbride
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ATbride (message)  81 posts, Worker bee

I agree with Habibi - letterpress it! Especially if its included… save the money. I’m sure they are going to be beautiful!!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

Letterpress!

 
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Emilydll
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

I think it’s perfectly okay to have the back flaps letterpressed.
For our save the dates, obviously less formal, we paid for calligraphy on the front, and had the back flap printed by the lady who did our save the dates (also an Etsy shop and also included in the price).
I loved the way the save the dates turned out and I thought the front w/the guests names really popped and looked special since they were in fancy calligraphy as opposed to our return address.
Whew, that was a mouthful, but hope it helped. :)

 
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LegallyWed (message)  31 posts, Newbee

I purchased an embosser for our return address on the invitations. It matches the font/ style of them AND we can continue to use it after the wedding! AND it was cheaper than having the printer do it (especially because I ordered the envelopes separately online). It came to $50 total.

I wish we had money for calligraphy (guests will just have to tell with my penmanship), but what vendor on Etsy did you find? It may be in our price range (fingers crossed!)

 
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FlipFlopBride
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FlipFlopBride (message)  1,437 posts, Bumble bee

I would say letterpress it, but I am also liking the idea from LovesPearls - I think a stamp would be cool!
And if you’re having the RSVP’s sent to your house (i.e. not mom’s or wherever), then you can use the stamp again later on your thank-you envelopes and anything else requiring a return address.

 
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nowmrswhite

Letterpress… seriously, you can’t go wrong there. Calligraphy is gorgeous, but save yourself some $! Letterpress is at the top of the impressive invitation scale anyway. ;)

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

@Lovespearls: Interesting idea…I’ll have to ask about this.

@heather25: Love this idea, too, but I’d need to see if it’s a possibility, and how much extra it would cost.

@LegallyWed: Stay tuned…I’ll be revealing both vendors in future posts! ;-)

@FlipFlopBride: True, true. We WILL be receiving the responses…but might not be at our current address for too long after the wedding…

@ all: Thanks for the opinions! Still not decided yet, but you all are so amazingly creative with ideas and definitive in your thoughts, and I really appreciate that!

 
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ggsb
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ggsb (message)  1,245 posts, Bumble bee

Letterpress…..we debated the same thing and I’m so happy with our decision to do letterpress. The post office even mentioned they prefer it b/c it’s easier to read if there is a problem with the front address.

 
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ErinMarguerite (message)  1,428 posts, Bumble bee

I love the idea of a custom stamp. Failing that, I’d scan and print.

 
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Kristen

I had this delimma as well but ultimately decided to have it done in letterpress. I do love the idea of having the calligrapher do it once and then the invitation designer can put it on the back of the invitation. I’m glad that I went with the letterpress option because it is so beautiful! I found my letterpress designer on etsy, too and I love her! She’s been mentioned on the WB a few times and she is so easy to work with :)

P.S. I didn’t know about etsy until this website either!

 
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miss mouse
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miss mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I’d go with the cheapest option–they would all look nice!

 
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LisaBee
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LisaBee (message)  358 posts, Helper bee

Letterpress!

 
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LovestheBear
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LovestheBear (message)  1,250 posts, Bumble bee

I’d go with the letterpress or the embosser route.

 
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Jackie

We had the same dilemma! We ended up purchasing an embosser from Paper Source and embossing the return address on each of them. It saved SO much money and actually looked just a nice. Hope this helps!

 
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Kim

Definitely letterpress! It will look great and save you $$. I’ve received plenty of invites that were hand written on the front and printed on the back.

 
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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.

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