Register or log in —

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
more by Mrs. Crab Cake (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
Mrs. Crab Cake's Picture
Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
About Mrs. Crab Cake

Indecisive Once Again!

May 1st, 2009 @ 9:28 am by Mrs. Crab Cake

I won’t lie, finding our florist was easy. One of my bridesmaids is a florist. Of course I’m going to have one of my best friends design my flowers! Her work is amazing, and I know she can get it done. She did her own flowers for her wedding in September ‘07.

dsc_0023-copy

2

I absolutely love all the texture in these bouquets. Yes, those are artichokes! I hated to leave that bouquet behind at her wedding! It was so pretty!

I didn’t want to spend a lot of money on flowers. I like flowers, but I realized early on that I’d rather spend my (very limited) money elsewhere, on something that wouldn’t be dead the next day. We’re only having live flowers at the ceremony. Our bridal party (parents included) will get flowers, and we will have two arrangements in the front of the church. That’s it. I didn’t see the need to have live arrangements anywhere else.

Our centerpieces are a combination of silk peonies I bought at Pier One on clearance last fall, and candle arrangements using all those wine bottles. We haven’t really mocked this up yet, but I promise to share them with you when we do!

My floral inspiration has really been all over the board. I originally wanted a green bouquet. Then I was determined to have nothing but peonies. Now, I’ve settled somewhere in between.

38cfb2e54fa7d71eba84edd4e977ec12_player

source

I have sent her a million one liner emails that read something along the lines of:

“Can I have fern curls?”

“What about ranunculus?”

“How do you feel about succulents?”

The poor girl has been bombarded with crazy requests from a bride who had no idea what she wanted. What I did want was a big fluffy bouquet with lots of texture. We finally decided on a combination of peonies (yay!), ranunculus, garden roses, cymbidium orchids, and hypericum berries, with lots of texture added through the use of curly willow, bear and lily grass, fern curls, and succulents. I’m envisioning something with a hint of color (pink) but not a ‘pop’, if you get what I mean.

hint-of-color

(source)

Yes!!! except not that big…good Lord!

pop-of-color

(source)

No!! The size is better though, and I love the texture!

The maids will carry similar bouquets, smaller in size, and more on the cream side of things. They get no peonies!! I just could not afford to give everyone peonies. They will get the big fluffy garden roses.

Mini CC will carry a pomander (or kissing ball) made from carnations. I know, carnations… but seriously, we’ll be lucky if this thing makes it to the ceremony, and then it’s definitely going to end up being abused. I can forgive her for beating up carnations!

Mr. CC is not exactly a “pink” kind of guy and requested something a little more manly. Lucky for him, I love succulents, and think they are wonderfully vintage. His boutonniere will look something like this.

succulent-bout

(source)

I love the texture in this, and the Mister loves that it isn’t terribly girly! The boys are, however, going to be subjected to flowers. But, likely cream, not pink!

And I’m basically leaving the rest of the arrangements up to my bridesmaid. I trust her to design something fantastic, vintage (ish), and totally me.

Did you have a specific vision for your florals or are you trusting your florist to handle the details?

Tags: |   Link for this post | Share this post: Indecisive Once Again!      
Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
more by Mrs. Crab Cake (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
advertisement below

19 Responses to “Indecisive Once Again!”

1.
LatteLove
Hostess
LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

I love that you are adding texture (and succulents!) to your fluffy flowers. Great choices!

 
2.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Beagle (message)  1,051 posts, Bumble bee

I love the pictures from the first bouquet… I would not have wanted to leave it behind either!

 
3.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the idea for your bouquet — it’s going to look amazing! And I can’t wait to see Mini CC’s pomander. (I love that idea for flower girls!)

 
4.
Miss Pinot Grigio
Member
Miss Pinot Grigio (message)  735 posts, Busy bee

What a talented friend you have! I love that she used artichokes…how unique.

I also had my flower girls carry kissing balls made of carnations…and people underestimate the beauty of that flower! When placed together in large quantities, their texture is stunning. Your kissing balls will be fabulous.

 
5.
Gilneas
Member
Gilneas (message)  1,029 posts, Bumble bee

Artichokes! How freaking cool is that!!

 
6.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Mascara (message)  771 posts, Busy bee

That’s great that your BM is a florist! It’s much easier to bounce ideas off of someone you’re comfortable with, especially if you weren’t sure what you wanted at first! Your flowers will look great!

 
7.
Miss Mary Jane
Bee
Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

Oh wow, i LOOOOOVE that bout. we were going to have those, I’d totally be stealing this design. :D

 
8.
Member Icon
Member
hirsche (message)  227 posts, Helper bee

The bout is CUTE!! And the purple bouquets…. sigh….GORGEOUS!! Can’t wait to SEE what all this “inspiration” turns into!

 
9.
Newport Nuptials
Member
Newport Nuptials (message)  1,133 posts, Bumble bee

I am in love with the succulent boutineirre! I just sent a copy of the picture to my fi!

Its awesome your friend is doign the flowers, I love flowers too, but we are doing minimal flowers, just the bridal party , famiyl members and maybe a couple pieces at the reception. We are doing lots of candles instead, it is saving us a ton!

 
10.
Member Icon
Member
Grey56 (message)  535 posts, Busy bee

Great post! I love your ideas. My fiance said he WANTED flowers. Haha. I didn’t think he was going to, so I had told our florist to give him some herbs and other greens. I had to call them back and say, give him flowers!

I also want the so-pale-pink-they’re-cream flowers.

 
11.
tea
Member
tea (message)  2,626 posts, Sugar bee

all i know is that i want something green, fluffy and textured. what it will be made of exactly is totally up in the air

 
12.
Miss French Bulldog
Bee
Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

I probably completely overwhelmed my florist will all my floral inspiration… I wanted fluffy too and there were specific flower I absolutely did NOT want. She wrote them in big letters on top of my file :)

 
13.
Lillindy
Hostess
Lillindy (message)  4,264 posts, Honey bee

I had a specific vision and our florist had her own, so it was quite interesting…

 
14.
MightySapphire
Hostess
MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

I had such specific vision my florist asked to keep my inspiration photos! Yay because I’ll know what I’m getting!

 
15.
Member Icon
Member
gabbydancer (message)  90 posts, Worker bee

I also love succulents and bouquets with lots of texture. Can’t wait to see the final result!

 
16.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Perfume (message)  1,633 posts, Bumble bee

I love the vegetable addition! Artichokes! And the green things almost look like asparagus! The purples are especially pretty.

 
17.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss D'orsay (message)  1,293 posts, Bumble bee

OOO, I love the bouts, and succulents (obvi)! Could you ask you friend what the purple wispy flower is in the first picture? Muchas gracias!

 
18.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Labrador (message)  1,325 posts, Bumble bee

Ooooooo! I love that bout! I haven’t even begun to think about those!

 
19.
Guest Icon
Guest
crash

The bout is so awesome. Not exactly vintage… but very manly

 


You can also just...

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
more by Mrs. Crab Cake (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Crab Cake
Visit our sister sites Project Wedding
Wedding Songs
eHarmony Advice
Dating Advice
JustMommies
Pregnancy Calendar
Fertile Thoughts
Infertility Support
Copyright 2004-2009, eHarmony, Inc., Advertise
 


Sponsors
Mrs. Crab Cake
Mrs. Crab Cake Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
Weddingbee PRO
 
Boards
 
Classifieds
 

Blog Calendar
November 2009
SunMonTueWedThuFriSat
1234567
891011121314
15161718192021
22232425262728
2930

Weddingbee Bios
Wiki
More