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Mrs. Perfume, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Consultant (and Part-Time Professor) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 41, Consultant Engagement Date: May 13, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Venue: The Homestead, Hot Springs, Virginia About Me: I'd like to think that I'm a modern day Little Edie Beale. Only not as..."talented". More realistically, I'm a foodie who can't bake; a dancer and dilettente; an art collector with a penchant for the whimsical and subversive. I live in the city and adore the country, but not much in between. I like smart design, great craftmanship and good value. Most of all, I love the new vintage aesthetic: classic, sweet, delicate, bespoke. If I had to do it all over again, I'd go for a culinary arts degree rather than a PhD; but wouldn't trade Mr. P for the world.
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So, I had my first serious nightmare last night. Among other things, it was about flowers. I dreamed that the tiny start-up florist that we went with used purple mums and some rope for my bouquet. Oh yeah, and a single wilted rose. There were some flowers in some pails in the getting-ready-room (which, by the way, was the green room of a theater) and I tried to put them together, but they kept calling my cue. Wedding, theater, it’s all the same.

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I realized this morning that I want different flowers… that what I spied while reading OnceWed blog yesterday afternoon worked its way into my subconscious and surreptitiously took over my flower plan. I no longer love the mini Calla lilies that I already specified to the florist. Now I would like (really like) these:

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I was anti-white-roses for my bouquet. It was peonies, then Calla lilies, but now, it’s dusty roses! They’re soooo old fashioned!!! I love them! So, I just emailed the florist. She’s going to kill me, and then tell me it’s too late to make changes. :(

Has your floral plan shifted dramatically in the months leading up to your wedding?

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16 Responses to “She’s Going to Kill Me Over the Dusty Roses”

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I have never seen dusty roses before, and they are fantastic! Spot on describing them as old-fashioned. They would look great in the photos. I might change my order right now…

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

It’s definitely changed since the original contract — which was drawn up before I discovered wedding blogs!

 
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anhngo (message)  11 posts, Newbee

Love the dusty roses idea!

I’m considering making a change - but I don’t think I’m going to let myself go there….because you know, I might want to change the bridesmaid dresses, the groomsmen outfits, the decorations….oh the list never ends, and such is the life of an indecisive bride! =)

 
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Miss Mascara (message)  774 posts, Busy bee

I’ve stayed with our original plan but added in a few extra flowers since the beginning.

The dusty roses with be beautiful!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

I love those roses, it’s worth the risk! ;)
My floral plan hasn’t changed, but if I don’t get to doing some serious sewing, it might.

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  1,295 posts, Bumble bee

I love the dusty roses! You know me, I make a change a week!

 
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

LOVE dusty roses!

 
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LLauRRa
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LLauRRa (message)  843 posts, Busy bee

Those dusty roses seem like they are very you. Beautiful!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,640 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss D’orsay: I know you!! I’m right there with you!!! What’s wrong with us????

@LLauRRa: Awww! Thank you. :)

 
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BucknellBride (message)  85 posts, Worker bee

Love them, and I was thinking the same thing as LLauRRa - they seem very you. Yes, I realize that’s coming from someone who only “knows” you from this blog, but still!

 
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Perk (message)  125 posts, Blushing bee

I’ve already changed three times, but the ‘final decision’ has to be one month prior for ordering of flowers. That gives me just a few weeks to change my mind again :)

 
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xLailax (message)  234 posts, Helper bee

GASP! The roses are magnificent! They will go wonderfully with your wedding inspiration!

 
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

i actually think the dusty roses would go better with the overall theme/feel than the callas (which i adore, don’t get me wrong).

the lush roses are more vintagey than the sleek callas, IMHO (also talking like 14 yr old girl ;) )

tell florist lady pretty pleeeeease?

 
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

dusty roses really are perfect.
just tell your florist “pretty please” and promise not to change your mind again!

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,640 posts, Bumble bee

@LatteLove: @mrspaetz: @xLailax: @BucknellBride: You guys know me (the wedding theme) better than I know (it) myself. Thanks, ladies!!!

 
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miss mouse (message)  3,354 posts, Sugar bee

Beautiful! I hope you get your dusty roses. :)

 


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