Register or log in —

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Perfume
more by Mrs. Perfume (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Perfume
Mrs. Perfume's Picture
Mrs. Perfume, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Consultant (and Part-Time Professor) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 41, Consultant Engagement Date: May 13, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Venue: The Homestead, Hot Springs, Virginia About Me: I'd like to think that I'm a modern day Little Edie Beale. Only not as..."talented". More realistically, I'm a foodie who can't bake; a dancer and dilettente; an art collector with a penchant for the whimsical and subversive. I live in the city and adore the country, but not much in between. I like smart design, great craftmanship and good value. Most of all, I love the new vintage aesthetic: classic, sweet, delicate, bespoke. If I had to do it all over again, I'd go for a culinary arts degree rather than a PhD; but wouldn't trade Mr. P for the world.
About Mrs. Perfume

Our great friends, Travis and Suzi, hosted a (non)shower dinner for us at their rustic country restaurant, the Heart in Hand, on Friday night. It was so lovely!!! There were about 30 people, and the fun part was that it was kind of like a neat run-up to the wedding. I gotta say, even with only 30 people, it was hard to get around to saying hello to everyone (given it was only two hours long, or so). To encourage mingling, Suzi scared up some name tags for all the guests… even for US!

Suzi did all the flower arrangements herself.

There was a little cocktail hour before (I was late, as getting out of DC was a nightmare, as it always is on Friday nights). Then there was dinner, which was off their group catering menu. Almost all the food is some sort of recipe from Suzi’s family, including some amazing yeast rolls (that tasted like corn bread), citrus poppy vinaigrette, country filet and salmon, home-made pastries… it was all very down-home and simple.

There were speeches: Suzi recalling a fond memory of Mr. P as a child, and when she and Travis first met me. Mr. P thanked our lovely hosts and wonderful guests, and kidded about the great distances many came (from the city or, in his case, fresh off a plane from Seattle, where he was on business).

The lovely little restaurant is in the historic town of Clifton, Virginia. The rest of the establishment is decorated in early American style (as Suzi collects antiques), as well as with mementos from the couple’s polo life (including this picture of them after a match they played against Prince Charles–who are these people?!).

It was a non-shower party because we didn’t really register for any gifts. But some guests brought us things that they knew we’d like and collect, anyway! This is an antique sterling wine coaster (Mr. P has a bunch of vintage and antique silver wine accessories).

Hand-painted Chinese Porcelain (we have a lot of Chinese porcelain)… this bowl is exceptionally delicate and thin:

Gastronomic foodie gifts from Spain, via Michelle:

And Venice Biennale art festival tickets for our Italian honeymoon! (After we insisted on no gifts, our mothers said that people will want an option of giving SOMETHING, so we have a Honeyfund.com account.)

It was so sweet, fun, and we are so incredibly grateful for our family and friends!! Now we’re a little more prepared to engage each of our guests.

Did you celebrate with warm-up wedding festivities?

Tags: , |   Link for this post | Share this post: A Non-Shower Dinner Party: Practice for the Big Day      
Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Perfume
more by Mrs. Perfume (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Perfume
advertisement below

16 Responses to “A Non-Shower Dinner Party: Practice for the Big Day”

1.
Miss Gloss
Bee
Miss Gloss (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

Aw!
And that food looks delish!

 
2.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

I agree with Miss Gloss, I love your food and flower collages. And you look lovely — that’s a great dress!

 
3.
SweetSalz21
Member
SweetSalz21 (message)  43 posts, Newbee

I agree… great dress. yowsa! What a nice event thrown for you!

 
4.
pvaulter718
Member
pvaulter718 (message)  1,593 posts, Bumble bee

You have such amazing friends and family Miss P!

 
5.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Joey (message)  829 posts, Busy bee

The food looks amazing and I love that people gave you thoughtful gifts.

 
6.
yogigal
Member
yogigal (message)  394 posts, Helper bee

What a great event! I can’t wait to see pictures from your wedding.

 
7.
abbyjiu
Member
abbyjiu (message)  13 posts, Newbee

Love the flower arrangements I can’t believe your friend, Suzi, did them by herself. What a good friend

 
8.
Guest Icon
Guest
ler

Lucky you!! I LOVE Heart in Hand (I’m from Chantilly originally and went there for my prom dinner!)

 
9.
honeymyheart
Member
honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

aw, looks like a great time. the flowers are so pretty and the food looks quite yummy. what a great way to celebrate with loved ones.

 
10.
Miss French Bulldog
Bee
Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

What a lovely dinner :) Your friend Suzi did an outstanding job! and HELLO those gifts… That wine coaster is stunning!

 
11.
Guest Icon
Guest
phruphru

That looks like it was so much fun! And I’m kinda hungry reading about the food. Plus, oh my gosh, I totally heart Mr. Perfume’s outfit! (Is that weird?) I am going to have to seek out a lime green tie for my mister — it looks fabulous!

 
12.
mary-alice-me
Member
mary-alice-me (message)  1,870 posts, Buzzing bee

That looks like a great time! Lovely non-shower gifts, too, you must have some thoughtful friends.

 
13.
mrspaetz
Member
mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

wow. wow. wow.
1. you guys are a very handsome couple.
2. very classy, Ms P! love the dress & pearls!
3. such a lovely dinner and wonderful gifts!

*impressed*

 
14.
Member Icon
Member
ms boardwalk (message)  349 posts, Helper bee

ms p, you are so hot and classy looking with your pearls. LOVE.

 
15.
Bee Icon
Bee
Miss Perfume (message)  1,632 posts, Bumble bee

Aw, thanks, guys!! The pearls are freshwater, but selected rounds, that I purchased from the Pearl Market in Beijing for $40! They’re real! The dress, I found shoved in the back of a sale rack in the Vault section at Filene’s…for $30!!!! And it fit! (Usually I have to get clothes altered because I’m short and misproportioned!)

@ler: Yey Chantilly! It’s always neat to hear from local (or once local) gals!!!

@phruphru: I’m proud that you noticed! He loves a little flare. I’ll tell him you heart his outfit–that’s not weird at all!!!

 
16.
Bee Icon
Bee
Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

What a great party! You and Mr. P are an adorable duo :)

 


You can also just...

Newer blog post
more in Blog
Older blog post
Newer blog post by Mrs. Perfume
more by Mrs. Perfume (oldest)
Older blog post by Mrs. Perfume
Visit our sister sites Project Wedding
Wedding Songs
eHarmony Advice
Dating Advice
JustMommies
Pregnancy Calendar
Fertile Thoughts
Infertility Support
Copyright 2004-2009, eHarmony, Inc., Advertise
 


Sponsors
Mrs. Perfume
Mrs. Perfume Mrs. Perfume, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Consultant (and Part-Time Professor) Fiance's Age and Occupation: 41, Consultant Engagement Date: May 13, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Venue: The Homestead, Hot Springs, Virginia About Me: I'd like to think that I'm a modern day Little Edie Beale. Only not as..."talented". More realistically, I'm a foodie who can't bake; a dancer and dilettente; an art collector with a penchant for the whimsical and subversive. I live in the city and adore the country, but not much in between. I like smart design, great craftmanship and good value. Most of all, I love the new vintage aesthetic: classic, sweet, delicate, bespoke. If I had to do it all over again, I'd go for a culinary arts degree rather than a PhD; but wouldn't trade Mr. P for the world.
Weddingbee PRO
 
Boards
 
Classifieds
 

Blog Calendar
November 2009
SunMonTueWedThuFriSat
1234567
891011121314
15161718192021
22232425262728
2930

Weddingbee Bios
Wiki
More