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Mrs. Bruschetta, Philadelphia Age and Occupation: 25, Communication Professional Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Physical Therapy Graduate Student Engagement Date: November 30, 2007 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House About Me: I’m a self-proclaimed grammar geek who loves singing (like, really belting it) in the car. My mister and I are planning a vibrant summer soiree celebrating our passions – including food and Philly – and when we make it official, we’ll have been together for eight years! Being super competitive is in my nature, and talking excessively is in my genes. I’ve got a terrible sense of direction, but can always easily find my way into Mr. Bruschetta’s arms.
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Don’t Bug the Bride

May 15th, 2009 @ 2:43 pm by Mrs. Bruschetta

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The accursed and unofficial “state bird” of New Jersey loves my O Negative something fierce. Come summer, I can’t venture outside without a container of insect repellent close at hand. If and when I do, the results aren’t pretty.

Weather permitting, I’ll be spending several hours outside on the wedding day. While I know that being in the city makes me less of a target for mosquitos, I’m still afraid the bugs will be a-nipping, particularly while we’re in the lush, green historic park areas.

Eau de DEET definitely isn’t my chosen wedding day scent. And I worry, as well, about exposing my beloved gown to any type of bug spray, and the increased potential for fabric stains.

Since “something red and itchy” isn’t part of my desired wedding day look, I’m wondering how to combat the skeeter swarms.

Are you also concerned about ravenous insects enjoying their own wedding day feast? How are you protecting yourself from bug bites?

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24 Responses to “Don’t Bug the Bride”

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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

I don’t have any advice for insect repelling “beauty” products, but I can tell you what will definitely work against mosquitos -
http://www.rei.com/product/686229?preferredSku=6862290019&cm_mmc=cse_froogle-_-datafeed-_-product-_-6862290019&mr:trackingCode=4A9FDB8E-0419-DE11-B4E3-0019B9C043EB&mr:referralID=NA
I used it when I went to vietnam (for fear of malaria), and never once got a bite!

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

I’ve tested a bunch of bug sprays over the past few weeks, and recommend Cutter No-Scent bug spray. I put it on right after I get out of the shower (seriously, if there’s one single available area of skin, I’ll get a bite) and then wait a few seconds to get dressed, and have not had a single problem.

The Off! brand sprays that proclaim to smell good DON’T… and constant smells make me nauseous. So I bought little wipes for our guests as an option, but I won’t be doing that myself.

Note: that Cutter spray worked pretty well on a flower — didn’t wilt it. So I’ll likely spray our flowers down with that as well.

 
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Aviva

Skin so Soft by Avon works really well for me! And it smells like baby powder.

 
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Elizabeth

I use Alba Botanicals Lavenear sunscreen because lavender is a natural insect repellent - it’s a great two-for, and it’s organic!

 
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fleurlily (message)  24 posts, Newbee

hey miss bruchetta,
as a certified mosquito expert (well not really but a masters degree should count) lemon eucalyptus is a natural and organic option ;)

 
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mary-alice-me
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mary-alice-me (message)  1,870 posts, Buzzing bee

I don’t usually have a serious problem with the mosquitoes, even when those around me are bitten, but I like the bands as a repellent. Maybe you could wear one as an anklet if you don’t want to douse yourself in chemicals. I can’t vouch for how they’ll work for someone with a serious problem, though.

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

REI makes an insect repellant without an odor. It works REALLY well, and doesn’t smell like OFF (which my FI refuses to wear).

 
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MsJoe
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MsJoe (message)  157 posts, Blushing bee

I just got this bug spray from hawaii but I haven’t used it yet. Heard great things about it though. all natural. http://www.secondskinnaturals.com

 
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Muffet (message)  106 posts, Blushing bee

When I briefly lived in Charleston, SC I took vitamin B-12 religiously. Supposedly the mosquitoes don’t like it in your skin. I’ve also read it’s a myth. But it worked for me.

 
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Jessy

You might try Burt’s Bees Herbal Insect repellant
http://www.drugstore.com/qxp45539_333181_sespider/burts_bees/herbal_insect_repellent.htm

It’s a lemongrass base, so it’s pretty good smelling.

I’ve also tried Skin So Soft by Avon, but I can’t remember how well it works :/

 
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almostananderson

I use the Avon Skin So Soft bug lotion, works great and smells better!

 
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soniasays (message)  47 posts, Newbee

lemon & eucalyptus is always a safe combination and if you drink a tablespoon or so of apple cider vinegar (mix it in with some water so it doesn’t taste so strongly) the mosquitos stay away! it’s never failed me : )

 
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ekb830 (message)  34 posts, Newbee

Try the Don’t Bite Me! patches. They are natural insect protection. http://www.dontbitemepatch.com

The ingredients: Vitamin B1 and Aloe

They worked really well for me last year, up until my hyper-sensitive skin decided to react to the adhesive. booo! I had to go back to living inside around dusk.

Good luck!

 
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Miss Grizzly Bear
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Miss Grizzly Bear (message)  42 posts, Newbee

I’ve heard that if you take a Vitamin B complex, it will ward them off! Apparently if you are lacking your “b”s, you taste sweeter!

 
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clarerichardson (message)  49 posts, Newbee

I’m all about the Avon Skin So Soft lotion, especially when we visit the groom’s family in Brigantine, NJ. The greenhead flies literally bite off a chunk of your skin. Ouch!
Skin So Soft makes your skin pretty oily, so the bugs just slide off.

 
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Miss Gloss
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,057 posts, Bumble bee

We will probably have a bug problem now that I think about it….and our reception is outside!
Crap….

 
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aliangel64 (message)  79 posts, Worker bee

As some of the other commenters have suggested, Avon Skin So Soft has a nice scent, but it feels very oily on your skin and may affect your dress. Grizzly Bear suggested vitamin B1, which when taken, leaves a faint odor on your skin. We use in when camping, and it works pretty well. You may want to test that out before your wedding to see if helps against your “biters.”

It might also help if you don’t wear perfume or scented hairspray until you’re inside for good. Also, try to stick to the most neutral-smelling deodorant, since any perfume in it will attract more bugs.

 
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Lexatron
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Lexatron (message)  330 posts, Helper bee

I’ve been using a combination of citronella, rosemary, and tea tree oils. I just put a drop on each ankle and it prevents me from getting a single bite.

 
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Laura27
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Laura27 (message)  167 posts, Blushing bee

If you’re reception is outside you might consider investing in some Thermocells. They keep the bugs away within a 15 ft radius. You could strategically place them around the perimeter of the reception area. They work very well and a friend told me he used one while hunting in the swamps of Louisiana and didn’t get bit once.

 
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evani

It might also help if you don’t wear perfume or scented hairspray until you’re inside for good. Also, try to stick to the most neutral-smelling deodorant, since any perfume in it will attract more bugs

evani

Toronto wedding

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

@ all: Wow, thanks for all the tips! I’ll definitely be trying these out in the summer months leading up to the wedding! :-)

 
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miss mouse (message)  3,354 posts, Sugar bee

Put a dryer sheet in your pocket (or tuck one in your bra if you’re wearing a dress). It really works!

 
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traceylynne (message)  11 posts, Newbee

My old coworker was one of those moms who know everything. I was telling her about how sensitive I was to mosquito bites and she told me to try vanilla body spray (like from bath and body works). She gave me a bottle she had in the car. I could not believe how well it worked-they would buzz near my skin but not bite! My FI has started using it too!

 
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kates

Being highly allergic to mosquitoes (yes this is possible, after some travel in europe with the evil tiger mosquito, I’ve built up an allergic reaction to the bites), and living in a big city, I find that I often end up in parks during the summer for a few after work drinks, leading me to carry my favorite bug spray in my purse at all times, “OFF no-scent” (it’s a slender blue bottle with orange top). I just spray it on my feet and lower legs and it seems to keep the buggers away from me entierly. It hasn’t left any stains or anything on my clothing and isn’t quite as greasy as other sprays and really has no scent. A splash of perfume and you’ll never know the difference! Best of luck!

 


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