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Mrs. Cowboy Boot, Santa Fe Age and Occupation: 25, Magazine Editor Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Artist and Whitewater Rafting Guide Engagement Date: April 28th, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Devil's Thumb Ranch, Colorado About Me: I grew up in Los Angeles and have since lived in San Diego, Boston, Italy, Hawaii, New York City, and Santa Fe. I speak Italian and love pasta. My real passion is the outdoors, though. When I'm not at work, I'm snowboarding, hiking with my two dogs, mountain biking, surfing, cross-country-skiing, or boating New Mexico's rivers. Despite my boyish love for adventure, I'm a girly-girl at heart and am overly-excited to pull off the romantic, vintage-inspired, country wedding of my dreams.
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Wedding Weekend: Hair Trial

May 27th, 2009 @ 10:33 am by Mrs. Cowboy Boot

This past weekend, like most brides-to-be including Ms. Perfume, I utilized the three-day weekend to wedding plan. A six-hour drive put me up near Denver on Friday night, ready for an appointment-filled couple of days. First stop: hair trial.

My naturally-straight hair in the Bahamas

As you’ve seen in past pictures, I have stick-straight hair. Always have. There’s nothing wrong with straight hair–I don’t have to “tame my curls” or worry too much about frizz–but, I’ve also never seen myself with curls. I’m often fond of wedding ’dos with soft, romantic curls, but since I’ve never had ’em, I wondered if I could feel like myself even with a little wave.

The minute I told my stylist, Tasha Valenti of The Look Beauty Salon in Denver, that I’d never had anything other than straight hair, she busted out the curling iron. I showed her my inspiration photos, and off to work she went.

Tasha getting to work

Things to keep in mind: 1) I will have a fake flower as a hair accessory (more on that later), 2) Tasha kept saying, “This is just a trial. It will look much more shiny, clean, and polished on the actual day.” And 3) All pictures below are by my awesome friend Melanie Lidman who sat through the whole wedding-planning weekend with me, and gave her two cents (and sarcasm) when needed.

Style 1: Curly side ponytail with woven back

I really like it from the front, but it feels a little young to me.

Style 2: The Low, Centered Chignon

I felt like the bun was a little flat against my neck. I wanted volume! And, I’ve worn my hair in a low chignon for the couple of proms I went to. I’m wondering if it’s time to branch out.

Style 3: The Side Bun

The point of this was to have the bun peep out from behind my head so it didn’t just look like my hair was up from the front on the low chignon. As you can see from the first picture, it doesn’t really do that. Hmmm…

Style 4: Messy, Low Side Ponytail

Tasha had started to pull it out before this last pic was taken which is why that one section looks particularly long. I personally like the curled ponytail and volume from Style One, but with a less young-looking style.

In the end, Tasha told me to look at more inspiration photos, and to find one I love, and she’ll do the style. I trust that she can. I was surprised by how much I loved my hair down with curls. Maybe I’ll let my bangs grow out and decide if I want them back closer to the wedding. And, in the meantime, I’ll be keeping my eye on some celebrities for inspiration ’dos.

Kate Bosworth

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Lindsay Lohan

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Tasha re-curled my hair just before I left so I could spend the day with curly hair.

Whose hair is better?

So, hive, which style do you like best above? Any suggestions? I didn’t thoroughly love any of them.

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86 Responses to “Wedding Weekend: Hair Trial”

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Gerbera
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Gerbera (message)  832 posts, Busy bee

I love 1 & 4!

 
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Mrs. Tiramisu
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Mrs. Tiramisu (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

Have you thought about just wearing your hair down and curly as it is in the last two pictures? If the curls lasted, that would look beautiful!

If you’d rather have it up, I vote side bun… once it’s more polished and with the flower, I think it would look great!

But you’re gorgeous with all four so I think you can’t lose :)

 
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BW4606
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BW4606 (message)  88 posts, Worker bee

Your hair looks so glossy and beautiful! I agree with Mrs. Tiramisu that it looks great in your last pic just curled and down. What about curled and in a really simple, low ponytail off to one side?

 
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Miss Apple Cider (message)  215 posts, Helper bee

You are beautiful! I love style #1 and I have to admit I love your hair down and curly! How fun!

 
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Miss Marine (message)  141 posts, Blushing bee

I really like #1 and then the down curls that she did before you left! I think you should consider all down. How did the curls hold up by the end of the day?

 
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2009cndbride (message)  54 posts, Worker bee

1! You look amazing and I don’t think it’s a young look. You won’t have long hair forever (or at least likely not), my thought is that it would be nice to look back at wedding pictures and be reminded of all the way you look at this point in your life (omg, look how thin I was, look at how long my hair was, look how young I look).

 
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Miss Perfume (message)  1,640 posts, Bumble bee

GORGEOUSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!! 1#!!!!!! Side pony is sexy, laid back, yet chic!!!

The curly down do is delicious too!

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

ooo - I LOVE the curly hair, down. Is it going to be at all hot on your wedding day? How long did these curls last? Maybe you can get away with wearing your hair down!!
BTW, what products (if any) did she use to hold your curls? I think my hair is probably exactly like yours. Stick straight, but I’d LOVE to hold a curl.

 
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Mrs. DG
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Mrs. DG (message)  4,236 posts, Honey bee

I actually really like the side ponytail look on you! I definitely would consider a style like that.

I’m going vintage. The post I’m linking to shows the inspiration and the outcome.

http://pirateandapear.blogspot.com/2009/05/results.html

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

heehee, BTW, your hair is DEFINITELY better than your furry friend’s ;)

 
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Miss Peony
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Miss Peony (message)  10 posts, Newbee

I have the same issue (stick straight hair)- I love it down! The inspiration photos you posted look a little more messy, with an emphasis on volume- a look I’m sure you could pull off since you have such thick hair!

 
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Miss Yorkie (message)  1,015 posts, Bumble bee

I love #1… A LOT! It seems like a natural fit for your romantic barn wedding. The curly loose look is great, too! I think it’s the soft flowing qualities of these two style that work best. :o)

 
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Miss Hot Sauce (message)  932 posts, Busy bee

I have to agree #1 & 4 are really pretty!! They compiment your face really well!

 
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tifnicole (message)  73 posts, Worker bee

May I just say that before I read the comments I was agree with everyone..Wear it down and curly!

 
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mvp_bride
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mvp_bride (message)  118 posts, Blushing bee

I think style 1 is incredibly flattering on you! Definitely not too young of a look, especially with the detail in the back.

 
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Mrs. Hot Cocoa (message)  1,721 posts, Bumble bee

You look so stunning! I’d go with 1 or down and curly as in the last two photos.

 
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

I don’t think there was anything wrong with the first photos and I didn’t think it was too young… I thought it was gorgeous!

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

BTW - when she did all these styles, did she curl it first, then put your hair into the ponytails/buns, then curl again?

 
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EAQ219
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EAQ219 (message)  1,035 posts, Bumble bee

Are you freaking kidding me?? First, you look amazing. Do you know how many people would love your hair?? Maybe it’s just me, but I have crazy curly blah brown hair (I tolerate the curls and color the crap out of my hair). I would love your color.

Anyway, love the 1st look. I also love the all down look. Do you think it will be too hot on your wedding day? From the plans I’ve seen from you so far, it seems like the 1st look will fit best with the overall look of the wedding. But honestly, either way you’re going to look amazing.

 
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Newport Nuptials
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,133 posts, Bumble bee

I liek Choice #1 and 4 best. I’m contemplating on whetehr to do a ponytail with curls, down with curls or half up/down with curls.

Have you considered soemthing half up half down? I love the look of your hair down with curls. Soem people dont like down with curls for the weddign day though, so doing half up/down could be a compromise between the two.

 
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giselle

Hi, fellow redhead! I LOVE look #1! I don’t think it’ll look too young, especially if your makeup isn’t too pastel. But you can’t go wrong with the wavy down do, it’s simple yet elegant.

 
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sunflwra
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sunflwra (message)  153 posts, Blushing bee

I loved #1 and didn’t think it looks young at all– that’s my ideal style, I just don’t have the length for it. My only question (being a stick-straight hair girl myself) is if humidity is a factor for you? I’m getting married in Oct but the potential of humidity that would pull any curl out of my stick straight hair is a concern enough that I’m going for some kind of updo. Not sure if that’s an issue where you are…

 
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IA_Snowflake
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IA_Snowflake (message)  1,622 posts, Bumble bee

I like #1, but I also like the pics with just your hair curly. You could just pin the flower in your hair and you’re good to go.

 
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nurseheather30
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nurseheather30 (message)  415 posts, Helper bee

I love the last pic with it down, also number 2

 
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AmberWaves

I like #1 but I agree with some of the rest………..you hair down with curls is absolutly beautiful. Definitely have hair envy right now!

 
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i really like the last pic with your hair all down! but if i had to choose between #1-4, i would definitely pick #1! :)

btw.. i love your hat from the first pic (bahamas).. where is that from? :)

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,604 posts, Bumble bee

I think if you’ve already down the low chignon for proms, you want to feel special and different on your big day! I do really like picture #1. Could she do this style with a bit more volume on top?

 
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Piaffette
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Piaffette (message)  104 posts, Blushing bee

I love your hair in the last pics, where is is down and curly! Gorgeous! What about having her pull the sides back, but keeping that long, volumized look with the soft curls? It’s so pretty!

 
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JennyBryde
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JennyBryde (message)  1,148 posts, Bumble bee

You have BEAUTIFUL HAIR! wow! I like number 1 the best!!

 
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LovestheBear
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LovestheBear (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

Number one is so pretty–I get what you mean about curly hair. I’m a straight as a pin girl myself, can’t wait to see what style you decide on!

 
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aja0829 (message)  140 posts, Blushing bee

All of the styles look beautiful on you, but the last two pictures with it down and curly are my favorite. I would pull a little bit back so it’s not in your face and leave it at that.

 
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Miss Cowboy Boot (message)  260 posts, Helper bee

@Miss Bear Cub: Heya! The curls lasted all day. I ended up pulling them back within the first hour because we had a two hour drive and they were getting in the way. I don’t know what product she used but I’ll find out for you. As far as heat, it should be in the 50s and 60s (so very temperate, if not cool) and lowwwwww humidity. High altitude in Colorado mountains = dry (hopefully, of course). And yes, the styles were done in the order you see above. So she curled it first, did the pony tail, did two up dos and then the last pony tail and then re-curled it for the day.

 
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Kate

#1 , #1 , #1 !!!!!!!!!!! Heaven!

 
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Miss Cowboy Boot (message)  260 posts, Helper bee

@@: That picture was from a work trip to Exuma in the Bahamas. It’s an out island, a tiny spit of land with beautiful water. Loved it! I’d recommend the Four Seasons there. There isn’t much else, though.

 
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365
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365 (message)  224 posts, Helper bee

I loooooove your hair just down and curled, it’s so elegant and beautiful. I’m with the others who asked, have you thought about that?

 
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CalicoBride (message)  39 posts, Newbee

Are you wearing a veil? I love the side looks, but would be concerned if they would look lopsided with a veil.

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Wow, you look so beautiful with curls! And although you say you didn’t LOVE any of them, at least they all looked good on you! Looks like you can pull off any style.

Have you not thought of a mostly down style with a bit up or pulled back at the top?

I like the Lindsay Lohan pic, if you’re set on loose ponytails!

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

1 and 4 are amazingly hot!! You are beautiful!!

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

You look beautiful! I’d have to say #1 or down with curls.

 
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spraguebride
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spraguebride (message)  352 posts, Helper bee

I really like 1 & 2, I think is really frames your face. You look lovely

 
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Miss Swan (message)  388 posts, Helper bee

Um, Miss Cowboy Boot…..you’re kinda hot. :)

Anyway, I think you look great in these especially #1 and #2.

I think the ponytail might be nice because it will go more with your relaxed coutry theme (am I getting the theme right?). The low chignon is nice as well because it keeps your hair out of the way and is still not too formal.

Are you going to have another trial somewhere else?

 
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Boddy (message)  127 posts, Blushing bee

You look great in every style, but I have to pick Style No. 1 as my top pick, then Style 3, and I really like the last picture of your hair in just curls as well.

 
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Vic004
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Vic004 (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

I like the last two hair pics of your hair in the side ponytail and down and wavy. That is one cute big doggie too!

 
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allurex112
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allurex112 (message)  155 posts, Blushing bee

#1 or #4. But you look great with just curly hair, down.

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

i love the last side pony, but I think you should ask if she can pull more tendrils out and curls them for the messier look like kate bosworth’s

you have amazing hair!!

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

I have to agree with Miss Swan, you’re kinda hot ;-)
My favorites are #1 & #4… but I agree with the other ladies that our hair looks great down and curly :)

 
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DEGirl (message)  60 posts, Worker bee

I vote for # 1 too!

 
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honeymyheart
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honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

love #1 :) your hair is so pretty. it looks really great curled too!

 
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Kiley

I am so in love with number 1! It’s so romantic!

 
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Sarah

I like everything except number 3. Even the all-down looks great.

 
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tbrooke
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tbrooke (message)  149 posts, Blushing bee

Your hair is beautiful! You give a fellow straight-haired bride-to-be hope ;-) I really liked #1 (all the styles turned out great though). I also think you looked great with your hair down and curled. It’s very very pretty.

Wow… I totally miss having long hair now. At least I have awhile to continue to grow mine out before our wedding :-)

 
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kimtim

i love your hair down in the last pic it looks so beautiful! what if you had it pulled looselyhalf up half down wih your bangs the same way in your face? that would be a good solution so its not bothering you all day. i vote down!!

 
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pacos
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pacos (message)  109 posts, Blushing bee

I like number 1. And I also like your hair down and curly.

 
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Mrs. Champagne (message)  1,068 posts, Bumble bee

so so pretty! I love number one but you look great with all four!

 
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heavnzbrat

go-geous! ur hair looks radiant w/ smooth curls in the last 2 shots!!!

 
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Trixiepinks
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Trixiepinks (message)  17 posts, Newbee

I say it looks best down! you have such pretty hair. I’m jealous :)

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

Your hair is so gorgeous! Ok I say either #1 or with your hair down and curly like in the last photo

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,275 posts, Honey bee

Out of the above choices, my vote would be for your hair down with the girls or even a version of that where just some of it is slightly pulled back–half up I guess you would say. The side pony just seems too young and trendy for me, so that would probably be my last vote, but I do like the volume of the first one. The chignon and side bun look nice, but like you said you’ve already done that style for proms and such with the chignon. Maybe if you had the side bun redone so it looked a little more like this:
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/0/3987/34_2007/sophia.jpg
and this: http://hairstylesdesign.com/gallery/photos/sophia_bush_2838_4441.jpg that way you can actually see the hair poking out from the back.

 
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miss star (message)  1,291 posts, Bumble bee

LOVE #1!!

 
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KateMW
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KateMW (message)  2,714 posts, Sugar bee

God, you have amazing hair and are stunning! Go You!! I’m a vote for #2. I actually like a low bun. I also like #1, but would be afraid it would just turn into a plain ponytail after a little dancing.

 
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Jessica

I actually like 3. I don’ think 4 looks bridal at all, and one is great in the front but i’m not feeling the back so much.

 
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Catalina

You are beautiful!! I say option #1 for sure!

 
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Miss Blondie
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Miss Blondie (message)  52 posts, Worker bee

If you are able to recreate it - I love the lindsay lohan picture and after she curled your hair for the rest of the day I really think you would gorgeous with that hair style. The buns didn’t make you look glamorous and I think you should look spectacular on your big day. Good luck :)

 
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eLLe2
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eLLe2 (message)  17 posts, Newbee

i like #s 1 & 2. #1 is frame your face really well although i can’t picture how you would put the veil on. #2 is “veil friendly” and elegant.

 
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bakerbride

I have the same hair as you (except not that awesome red color!) and curls seem to fall out quickly for me. How long did yours stay in for? I love the ponytail of #1. You look beautiful!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Oooo, I love the messy pony best!

 
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AbbieOinCO
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AbbieOinCO (message)  146 posts, Blushing bee

I like 1 & 4 both… your hair looks very flattering down. Curls fall out of my hair so easily, too. I just don’t even deal with them. I actually told my stylist at my last appointment the same thing about my bangs. I’m growing them out right now, but I may change my mind in July!

 
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sgarrison2
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sgarrison2 (message)  186 posts, Blushing bee

Love the two ponytails! Ps- your hair color is beautiful!

 
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Briana

I love #1!!! Also, if you were considering hair down…it looks beautiful down and curled. Truly both are amazing.

I’m getting married in Colorado too! YAY CO brides! Gotta love that low humidity for the hair! :)

Briana
http://elizabethannedesigns.com/blog

 
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elili

I love your hair down with curls, it looks romantic!!
On a side note: I really like your hat from your work trip picture! Any idea where you got it from?!

 
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Cole B
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Cole B (message)  450 posts, Helper bee

I really love #1, the first thing that popped in my head when I saw it was “that looks just like Miss CB!” I like the way it looks down but know how easily curls can fall out of straight hair and would hate for you to be left with kind of curly hair at the end of the night.

 
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Miss Cowboy Boot (message)  260 posts, Helper bee

@elili: Thanks! My hat was by Paul Frank. I believe it was in his Summer ‘08 collection so you may have a hard time finding it. Modern Amusement makes similarly adorable fedoras.

 
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Carbon Girl
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Carbon Girl (message)  437 posts, Helper bee

I love the first hair-do–the bangs are my favorite part!

 
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Diane and Bill Troxell

#1 and your hair down and curly is lovely
on you!!! FYI Bill especially likes it long and
curly!! But you look beautiful any way you
wear your hair!!

 
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MightySapphire
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MightySapphire (message)  2,608 posts, Sugar bee

Oh girl you look so cute in curls! I love style #1, but I think maybe you should consider a half updo. You’d look really cute with some hair down!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

i like #1, but you’re so pretty i think you can pick whichever!!!

 
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lauralou852
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lauralou852 (message)  289 posts, Helper bee

You have beautiful hair!! I agree with what others have said about either wearing it down with curls like the last picture or just pulling half of it up. But regardless, you’ll look gorgeous!

 
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eileen marie
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eileen marie (message)  375 posts, Helper bee

You’re so cute, you could do any, but honestly, the one where she just curled your hair & left it loose is best. I am “blessed” w/ curls myself & am going to rock them @ my late June wedding.

 
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Amelia

I LOVE the ponytail! But I have to admit, I love your pyrenese even more! Haha, sorry I have a soft spot for those breeds.

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,520 posts, Bumble bee

I loooooove the last one. :D The side bun could be cute too if they COULD peek it out from the side a little more.

 
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finallytowed
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finallytowed (message)  28 posts, Newbee

I’d have to agree that #1 is gorgeous for having it pulled back, although I absolutely love the free-flowing look…have you thought about half-up/half-down?

 
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PlanningMyPurpleWedding

I love how #1 looks from the front but I’m not crazy about the back. I agree that it’s really young looking. I love curl in your hair though!

 
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PeachandPearl
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PeachandPearl (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

I love the first ponytail! But they all look great…

 
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Golden139
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Golden139 (message)  340 posts, Helper bee

I think I echo everyone in saying that I love the side pony and your hair all down. You can’t go wrong, so pick the look that feels right for you. :)

 
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Miss Labrador (message)  1,325 posts, Bumble bee

Ahhh! I like them ALL! I feel like any one of them will be stunning on your wedding day. I just wish your bangs were pushed out of your face just a tad so we could see more of your beauty! ;)

 
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Jenn

Loved the first one and agree that all done and curly would be lovely. It’s exactly what I want to do but I really don’t think my hair will hold any curl, so up it will likely be!

 


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