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Real Budgets Feature Launched: July 3, 2007 About: Real wedding budgets submitted by former brides.
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Real Bee Budgets

June 11th, 2009 @ 6:49 pm by Real Budgets

Mrs. Penguin here!

Money always seems to be a mysterious subject when it comes to weddings. I remember starting to plan, and seeing so many beautiful details all over the web and thinking, ’Well, I can’t afford that.’ With a good amount of digging, researching, planning, and comparing, I found out that there were definitely a lot of things that I THOUGHT were much more expensive than they actually were (and on the contrary, some things that were much more expensive than I thought!).

All bee applicants share their wedding budgets with us, and we hope we’ve done a fair job of representing the entire spectrum of wedding budgets here on Weddingbee!

Today we’re launching a series called Real Bee Budgets. Some bees will be sharing their budgets openly, and other bees have chosen to submit their budgets to us, anonymously. Either way, you’ll be able to see how a wide range of bees, past and present, have spent their wedding budgets. Since wedding budget calculators are generally vague, we hope that this series gives you a better idea how real brides spend real money to produce beautiful and inspiring weddings!

We’re kicking off the series with a recap of the past bees who have graciously shared their budgets with us, and in the next few weeks, you’ll see a wide range of budgets shared, so you can get an idea where money really goes into weddings around the hive!

Mrs. Tulip - Washington DC - total budget: $5,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Tulip tulip


Mrs. Cherry Pie - Polebridge, Montana - total budget: $36,300

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Cherrypie cherrypie

Mrs. Butterfly - New York City - total budget: $45,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Butterfly butterfly

Miss Bunny - Columbus, Ohio - total budget: $5,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Bunny bunny

Mrs. Pineapple - Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania - total budget: $14,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Pineapple pineapple

Miss Joey - Seattle, Washington - total budget: $10,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Joey joey

Mrs. Plumeria - San Francisco, California - total budget: $38,500

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Plumeria plumeria

Miss Mary Jane - Grand Forks, North Dakota - total budget: $1,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Maryjane maryjane

Mrs. Kiwi - Los Angeles, California - total budget: $12,700

Part II

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Kiwi kiwi

Mrs. Corn - Newport, Rhode Island total budget: $41,000

Real Bee Budgets :  wedding features Corn corn

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We’d really love for hive members to share their budgets as well! If you’d like to participate, check out our past real budget features, and submit your own budget and pictures with the information provided here!

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47 Responses to “Real Bee Budgets”

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keyeodontie

Wow! I’m going to have to check out those $40,000 weddings. I can’t imagine spending that much. But maybe it’s just because I’m a student and my fiance and I barely make that much combined in a year.

This was a cool post though. It’s good to see the spectrum of budgets!

 
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Newport Nuptials (message)  1,230 posts, Bumble bee

This is so helpful. I love that you are featuring all the diverse budgets. I’m always wowed by the bees so its fun to see how much the weddings really cost. I’m always amazed at how the bees pull off beautiful weddings in various budgets! It’ll be cool to see the stats

 
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creme_de_violet
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creme_de_violet (message)  358 posts, Helper bee

This is incredibly helpful!

 
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EAQ219
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EAQ219 (message)  1,448 posts, Bumble bee

Thank you so much for this. I may be in the minority here, but we’re fortunate enough to have a fairly high budget ($30-$40,000). Sometimes I start to feel bad because so many people seem to do it for so much less. It’s nice to see that I shouldn’t feel guilty and it’s ok to I feel blessed.

 
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KateMW
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KateMW (message)  2,704 posts, Sugar bee

Our budget for our vow renewal is around 30k, but I’m trying to spend as little as possible.

 
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Daisy417

This is so very helpful I am in the middle of planning and feel like I want to have it all with a $30K budget. This is a good reality check

 
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kosstobe
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kosstobe (message)  232 posts, Helper bee

I noticed that only a few of the budgets above included the rings. Are they normally included or excluded as part of the overall budget? What about the engagement ring?

 
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Mrs. Bee
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

@kosstobe: erings and wedding bands are typically not included because they are not part of the wedding day budget. Same goes for the honeymoon.

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

such a helpful post!!!!

 
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kosstobe
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kosstobe (message)  232 posts, Helper bee

@Mrs. Bee: Thanks…good to know!

 
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tenmylove
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tenmylove (message)  435 posts, Helper bee

So awesome! Thanks so much Mrs. Bee! I know budgets are a touchy some sibject with all but it really is helpful when trying to plan your own wedding.

 
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laurajane
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laurajane (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

This is such a great series!
I agree- it’s great to see budgets all over the map. I think it would be interesting to see what the actual “budget” was versus the “spend”, and what pushed ‘em over (that is, if people are willing to share!)

 
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Miss Joey (message)  1,031 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Bee: DOH! Mine includes the wedding bands and the honeymoon. So I guess mine is around $10,000?

 
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Amy

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for this feature. It is so nice to have as a reference. We are trying to stay at $10K and it’s nice to know it can be done!

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  2,116 posts, Buzzing bee

Thank you so much! I think seeing how much was spent on different weddings gives a great perspective!

 
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Mrs. Flamingo (message)  1,366 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, so many various budgets… definitely a post I would of loved when I got engaged.

 
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MidwestElle

Wow–Amy who commented right before me “stole” my comment. Although I’d love to stay under $13k…I hope I hope I hope!

THANK YOU

 
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MissBK (message)  69 posts, Worker bee

This is interesting to see - thank you for sharing, but I would love to see how many guests each wedding had or expect to have.

 
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MissBK (message)  69 posts, Worker bee

Ooh i didn’t click on them, most of them do include how many guests!

 
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rhodeygirl

I would love if in the next part of this series you also post the month and year the couple got married. It would be interesting to see and also helpful (at least for me).

great series!

 
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