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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.
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Got My Hurr Did

June 12th, 2009 @ 2:21 pm by Mrs. Mary Jane

The biggest issue with growing out a super-short haircut is the layers. My hair is bone-straight, so no unpredictable waves or curls will hide my uneven growth. Unless it’s trimmed fairly often, my hair quickly transforms from “short & sassy” into a style somewhere between “Midwestern-mom-chic” and “mullet“.

…Yeah. So I need somewhat regular haircuts, even while growing it out. (It’s a good habit anyway - fewer split ends equals healthier hair at any length, ladies!)

To help me reach my goal haircut, I bring inspirational pictures to each hair appointment and remind my stylist that I’m trying to grow my hair out to reach that style. This helps her shape my hair. Since it’s still too short, it won’t look like the inspirational picture when she’s finished, but it’ll be one step closer to getting there.

Here’s the photo I’ve been bringing for the last 6 months.

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And here’s me before and after.

Much better! My stylist, who I’ve been going to for 2 years, is moving across the country in July. She was able to recommend two other stylists. As I mentioned, I have completely straight hair. So it’s not like my hair is hard to cut. I just need someone who understands me and doesn’t go all “creative” on me when she’s in the mood.

I’ve got one more haircut planned before the wedding, and it’ll be with a new stylist! It’s gonna be interesting to see how it all plays out!

Do you get to keep your usual stylist, or are you trusting a new one with your wedding hair?

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26 Responses to “Got My Hurr Did”

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Tori

First of all, your trim is insanely cute.

But girl, I hear you! I completely did an inverted bob - chopped off like eight inches and straightened it out for years until my baby sister asked me to be her MOH and grow my hair out. Growing it out was the most awful thing in the world! I had the weirdest mullet in the world. What I finally ended up doing was pinning the front part back. I did little poofs. I clipped it. I pinned braids back. That was it was out of my face and you couldn’t tell it was a mullet while it was growing out. Now I’ll be getting married in a few weeks and I’m really glad that baby sister asked me to grow mine out because it’s so long and past the awkward-y stage.

 
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ejs4y8
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ejs4y8 (message)  6,932 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh, it’s so cute! Oh man, when I lopped off my hair, I was soooo scared I’d have a she-mullet. I went to a fancy salon in Savannah called The Ritz for a haircut. Paid $60 but I did NOT have a she-mullet! Yours is way chic =]

Why do older women think short on top and long in the back is OK?!

 
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Mrs. Flamingo (message)  1,267 posts, Bumble bee

Luv it! I heart that pic of victoria beckham… but not for the same reasons. I love her tattoo. LOL

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Flamingo: Me too :D

 
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Trixie Jean
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Trixie Jean (message)  22 posts, Newbee

Your haircut? Adorable.
I got my hair bobbed last summer and it was the best cut I ever got. I gotta keep it neat, now, of course. (This means getting it trimmed every 4-6 weeks.) But it’s definitely worth it.
PS — I’ve heard that eating Jello makes one’s hair grow faster. Fact or fiction? I have no idea. But worth passing on!

 
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Alison

Your hair looks cute, but in response to the post above, do people really ask their bridesmaids to grow their hair out and such for a wedding? Seems a little above and beyond the call of duty in my opinion.

 
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Bridebella
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Bridebella (message)  350 posts, Helper bee

Thank you! You just reminded me to call my hairstylist about my wedding appointment. Thank you, thank you! I’ve been forgetting to do this during business hours for the past two weeks!

 
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GwenMarieDC
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GwenMarieDC (message)  65 posts, Worker bee

Looks great! I got this cut as well last summer and love it. I have finally decided to let it grow out but it was super fun!

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  3,310 posts, Sugar bee

I love your hair cut! Are you considering coloring it before the wedding? I think it would look really cute with the “darker underneath” think Vicky has going on.

 
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Melissabegins
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Melissabegins (message)  845 posts, Busy bee

I am cracking up at your examples, Miss MJ! I sent my friend that midwestern page.

Your hair looks goood, girl!

 
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leslie

my cut is very similar to yours! good choice :)

 
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Rhiannon
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Rhiannon (message)  136 posts, Blushing bee

My mom is a hairdresser. She’s the only person who has ever cut, colored, or permed (hey, I grew up in the 80s) my hair. So of course she’s doing my wedding hair!

 
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Miss Hot Sauce (message)  932 posts, Busy bee

I love your hair! Very cute! It is going to look great for your wedding. ;)

I am going to the same lady to get my hair cut that I usually do but she will not be doing my hair for the day of the wedding. I am going to a hair and makeup stylist for that.

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,351 posts, Bumble bee

omg for some insane reason the only haircut they do in Chile is THE MULLET. SERIOUSLY. I’m sporting splits ends like it’s going out of style. I’m going to santiago next weekend in hopes that someone in a more metropolitan area doesn’t transport me back to the 80s via scissors.

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,351 posts, Bumble bee

@ejs4y8: srsly. what gives with the grammy mullet?

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

Super cute new ‘do Miss MJ! I have a similar problem w/ the Midwestern/Mullet, so I feel your pain. I’ve been going to the same girl for years and I still bring a picture almost everything I go in, just to remind her. I know she sees a TONS of other clients and I don’t expect her to remember my hair woes every time. Although this last time she did a GREAT job and totally remember w/o the picture! I would hate to have to find a new persons - I hope that all goes well :)

 
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CinnamonGirl
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CinnamonGirl (message)  43 posts, Newbee

I have shoulder length hair and am trying to grow it out. My usual stylist has stopped listening to me and insists on whacking off length, layering and neon blonde highlights.

SO. I have started seeing a new stylist and so far I love her. It’s hard breaking up with a stylist though.

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  1,372 posts, Bumble bee

The shape is really great with your face…I love it!

 
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Aylee Bits
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Aylee Bits (message)  34 posts, Newbee

I love the new cut!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,094 posts, Honey bee

i like it! I hate getting my hair cut because I’m always nervous.

 
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Sweet10ve
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Sweet10ve (message)  111 posts, Blushing bee

Your new cut looks really cute! =)

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

wow i LOVE it! very refreshing!

too bad i can’t pull off a short bob like that because of my big face. sulk.

 
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KarnainBR

Love it! That style looks great on you! I’m so jealous of the girls who can wear that style.

 
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Mom101

Okay, it looks absolutely fantastic. Not a trace of Midwestern anything at all. (With all due respect to midwesterners, many of whom I’m sure could rock a runway. Maybe. )

 
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tiffany

hi there - i commented on your dress post yesterday and today when i was bored on ebay i came across this - hope it helps!

http://cgi.ebay.com/Dessy-Bridesmaid-Dress-style-2509_W0QQitemZ260425592593QQcmdZViewItemQQptZLH_DefaultDomain_0?hash=item3ca2932f11&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=65%3A12|66%3A2|39%3A1|72%3A1205|240%3A1318|301%3A0|293%3A1|294%3A50

 
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HistoryBride
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HistoryBride (message)  411 posts, Helper bee

That’s really cute! How much styling do you have to do on a daily basis? I’m a lazy bum when it comes to my hair, but I’d like to try this variation on the normal bob that I do.

 


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