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Mrs. Cub, Chile/Portland Age and Occupation: 26, Astronomer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Astronomer Engagement Date: May 10, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: Westwind YWCA camp About Me: I'm a small-town girl who's making a living in Chile, with her heart in the Pacific Northwest. I grew up in Southern California, went to high school in Texas, grad school in New Mexico, and now I can't wait to settle down in Oregon! I love pears, hazelnuts, knitting, traveling, running, baking, and long talks on the phone with good friends. I'm planning my Oregon coast summer camp wedding while abroad with my best friend - I'm always at home when I'm with him!
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The Wedding Dreams are Starting

June 13th, 2009 @ 5:20 pm by Mrs. Bear Cub

Last night I had one of my first wedding-themed dreams.

We were running late, or we were rushed - I can’t remember, only that everyone was seated really quickly. The weather was gorgeous, and everyone was sitting in chivari chairs on the high meadow at Westwind (the grassy meadow that overlooks the coastline). I was running late, I had no makeup on, and my hair was just down - normal, straight, flat. The ceremony was starting in a few minutes, so I grabbed a strip of extra lace fabric, and tied my hair in a loose low side ponytail with a lacy bow (I’ve actually been eyeing my mom’s vintage lace scarf! I don’t think she’d actually let me use it, though… it’s sooo pretty). I was wearing my insanely stunning gown, but I was barefoot and late. So I ran the mile from our cabin to the ceremony site. Barefoot. In my designer gown and lace bow.

Everyone was waiting there for me, and although only 20 or so (out of 150!) had made it, they all looked so happy to see me. I caught my breath - and I caught the most beautiful smile from my fiancé, waiting for me at the other end of the aisle. I grabbed some wildflowers from the earth, and, holding them haphazardly at my side, I walked down the aisle to marry my best friend. We had forgotten the rings, but we didn’t care - we said our vows, and we married anyways.

My first wedding dream was riddled with hang-ups and problems, but the thing I remember most of the dream wedding day is how happy I was.

I didn’t care that I was barefoot, or that my hair wasn’t fancy, or that we didn’t have our rings. I was calm and contented to be surrounded by the love of my family and friends, and my new husband.

Amidst the dreaded wedding-day nightmares, have you had any positive wedding dreams?

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8 Responses to “The Wedding Dreams are Starting”

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Miss Bunny (message)  310 posts, Helper bee

My wedding dreams have been similar — things go wrong, we’re not ready, but I’m so happy to be getting married (though not exactly calm)!

 
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365 (message)  224 posts, Helper bee

I’ve only had one and I don’t remember too much about it, so it’s not a big deal. Although I’m sure once I start having more of them, they’ll begin turning into nightmares, yikes.

 
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mdarrah (message)  1,006 posts, Bumble bee

My actual wedding dreams were all kind of similar and we never got to the happy part. It was always me running around and vendors not having shown up or dress forgotten etc. But I did have one nightmare that made me so sure about getting married. We were being chased to the top of a building and they were threatening to push one of us and in an instant we grabbed hands, hugged, and jumped together (and splashed down safely in the water - no suicide dreams). I woke up with this feeling of knowing that if we were holding hands, jumping into the unknown was just fine by me.

 
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

i dreamt that i had a horrendously metallic purple themed wedding (like total OTT purple!) in a garden where excavators/tractors moved in and started digging and a wrecking crew came to demolish a gazebo we were supposed to wed in — and get this, the groom was some random guy, and wearing a metallic purple suit! GAAAH!!!

(and i’m not even having a vaguely garden-ish wedding at all!)

no good dreams yet, unfortunately :(

 
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santababs (message)  56 posts, Worker bee

I had the same dream! Well, except for the fact that I went down the aisle in JEAN SHORTS and the top part of my dress (because the skirt fell off when I was getting ready). Did I mention I was also in high heels? But I saw my honey and was just so so happy and didn’t care how ridiculous I looked.

 
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lreighard1 (message)  643 posts, Busy bee

No! My last one was that my FI LEFT me, my hair caught on fire and I still insisted on making the escort cards — I’m SO EXCITED for the happy dreams to start! :)

 
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Miss Labrador (message)  1,324 posts, Bumble bee

Aw, your dream is so sweet! Mine always end in horror. Lucky you! lol

 
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bjarrett062009 (message)  12 posts, Newbee

Oh, man… I wish my wedding dreams ended up happy. Mine were mostly about being late and no one in the wedding party showing up. There was also one where it started snowing during the wedding (we got married the middle of June). Now that one was weird!

 


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