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Mrs. Flamingo, Montreal, Canada Age and Occupation: 25, Graphic Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Nursing Student Engagement Date: December 2004 Wedding Date: June 21, 2008 Venue: Imperia Hotel (modern chic hotel) About Me: I am a passionate designer who loves anything pretty. I heart all paper products (eco-friendly of course). My passion revolves around anything considered glamour; vintage and modern. In my free time, I love reading Martha mags, designing jewelry and making a pit-stop at Starbucks for a chai latte. I'm also a chocoholic at heart and my family drools over my homemade truffles.
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After we finished our first dance, we made our way to our seats and heard a little “ching ching”. I looked around and saw my father standing up, sweating bullets and trying to keep his cool. I knew from that nervous smile of his, it was time… he was ready to give his speech.

“I want my speech to be perfect,” he had told me earlier that week. “Perfect, because you deserve no less.”

I started tearing up. Who wouldn’t after those heartfelt words?

I looked at my daddy, and instantly, all the memories of my childhood, of him and me, flashed before my eyes… and I smiled. I took a deep breath, just as he did, and tried to keep the lump in my throat under control.

And he started (originally written in French; translated by me):

Dear parents, family and friends,

I would like to thank each and every one of you for being part of this special day, Kelly and Marc-Andres’ wedding day.

Dear Kelly,
I look at you today and with my father heart, I will summarize the movie of your life:

From the day you were born I have been touched…
Touched by the memory of the first time I held you in my arms.
Touched by looking at your grow through the years. And I am so proud of the woman you’ve become.
Touched when you took my arm this afternoon and we walked down the aisle together.

And today my dear Kelly, the next scene of your movie arrives, the one about your union, your couple life. You stand beside an exceptional man that I cherish, appreciate, and love very much. I wish you both lots of love, happiness, and hope that I will be moved by becoming a grandfather one day.

Tears steaming down my face, he looked up at me and invited me to join him and dance by his side for our father/daughter dance to the song In my Daughter’s Eyes by Martina McBride. He had chosen this song carefully because he wanted words that represented “US”.

In my daughter’s eyes I am a hero
I am strong and wise and I know no fear
But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I wanna be
In my daughter’s eyes

- Lyrics of In my Daughter’s Eyes by Martina McBride

I had not shed a single tear until this moment. I had found a way to keep my cool all through the ceremony and even the first dance… but this was too much. So, my father and I cried together while we danced our dance. It was a very important part of my wedding day…

We looked around and our guests circled us while shedding a tear or two. Mid-way through the song, we invited all fathers to finish the dance with their daughters… it was simply priceless. Just writing about it makes me emotional.

What was the most emotional part of your wedding day?

Up next: Boogie on down…

Images taken by Ipi-events and guests
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Previously:
Glamnuptials: Beauty Time
Glamnuptials: Prep Time
Glamnuptials: Ceremony Part 1
Glamnuptials: Ceremony Part 2
Glamnuptials: Bride Posing
Glamnuptials: Groom Posing
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 1
Glamnuptials: Strike the pose Part 2
Glamnuptials: The Newlyweds
Glamnuptials: We are Family
Glamnuptials: The first dance
Glamnuptials: Le Gâteau
Glamnuptials: The Guestbook
Glamnuptials: Decor Elements
Glamnuptials: Giving our gifts
Glamnuptials: DAS aka Day after Shoot
Glamnuptials: Wedding Movie Trailer
Glamnuptials: Real Wedding Inspiration Board

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14 Responses to “Glamnuptials: Toast Time With a Lot of Tears”

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Melissabegins
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Melissabegins (message)  843 posts, Busy bee

your post melted my icy heart! ;-)

I think your father’s speech was great - to the point, and exceptionally touching. Imagine when you have children!

 
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travelchick (message)  83 posts, Worker bee

oh my goodness. what a wonderful speech and a wonderful song. i am wiping my tears as i write this…

 
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Vic004
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Vic004 (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

I got a little teary too, I also really like how you invited the other father and daughters to the dance floor, so touching!

 
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laurajane
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laurajane (message)  320 posts, Helper bee

Aww your dad’s speech was lovely! I love the part about the new chapter of your life :)

I’m not married yet, but I anticipate muchos tears streaming from my face as well as my dad’s (the old softie!) :)

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Awww, so sweet! I told my father he can’t repeat the line he used — amidst some more sentimental material — at my sister’s wedding: “Today, we don’t just lose a daughter. We gain a son…and we lose a fortune.” Hardy-har. ;-)

 
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Lexatron
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Lexatron (message)  330 posts, Helper bee

Wow! I don’t think that I’ve commented on any of your posts before, but only because, while I find your wedding very beautiful, it is very different from what my own will be (I am very much an UNglamorous bride). However, ever since getting engaged, I already tear up when thinking about my father’s speech. I can only hope that he has half the eloquence as your father - I would be sobbing if my dad said something as touching as yours!

Oh - and that first picture of you and your father? Flawless!!

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

What a sweet speach :) This post made me tear up a bit thinking about my dance with my Daddy :)

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

wow… that made me tear up.

very sweet :)

 
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Mrs. Flamingo (message)  1,267 posts, Bumble bee

Ah thanks… just re-reading my post makes me tear up.

I loved my fathers speech. It was perfect and I was especailly touched by the whole “movie aspect.” He actually found a way to include part of our theme, what represents us in his speech. A+ to you dad!!! :)

 
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sphbride

You made me tear up too. It is so sweet of your father to write such a loving speech. His speech touched me too.

 
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ipodgirl
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ipodgirl (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

I love your father’s loving speech and the song he selected. You made me tear up!!

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

Love the speech!

The first time I cried was when our friends daughter read the poem we had picked out!

 
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ms boardwalk (message)  349 posts, Helper bee

awww, this post made me tear. your father did a beautiful speech. i especially like the idea of inviting other father-daughters to join in with you.

 
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Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,632 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, Mrs. F, that speech!!!

 


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