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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.
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I’ve written way too many of these dress posts, ladies. I’ve shared body image issues, I’ve lamented about length, and I’ve waffled on my oh-so-confident choices not once, not twice, but thrice. I’m not going to make you sift through my insecurities and justifications for my wishy-washiness. I’m just going to show you the fourth (and final) dress of this four-dress bride.

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This is my dress. I love it. It’s fancier than the sun dresses. It’s frilly and feminine. It shows my shape. It covers my knees. And it was $192.00 ($16 shipping). And I cut the tags off. This. Is. My. Dress.

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I wore my shoes, expecting to have Mr. Mary Jane snap a few photos in our living room or somewhere else indoors and dry. But the light on this dreary day was best in our backyard. So I went out in to the too-long, wet grass (we mowed it four days ago swear!) and came back lookin’ like this. At least it was just water. They dried.

FYI, here’s the dress on the model.

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It’s strapless in the store’s pic, but oddly it actually has spaghetti straps. I prefer the strapless, so I’ll probably remove them (though tucking them in worked pretty well, too). I would like the sash on mine to fall at about where it’s falling on her. (She’s got to be a good 4″ to 6″ shorter than I am.) I’m planning to remove the black sash and replace it either with another black sash, or a sash with green elements in it to match my shoes. Either way, the new sash will be wider and lower. The current location of the sash (on me) looks like it’s cutting my midsection in half, I think. I’m also going to have it professionally steamed: it’s wrinkled!!

If you want this dress, it’s by Cachet, and I got it at Belk.com. It runs large: I’m normally a snug 10, and this 8 has some room to spare. Kudos to WB member NC Girl for hooking me up with the link! Less than three months from the wedding date, I have finally checked “Dress” off my list.

Finished.
Done.
Th-Th-Th-Th-That’s All, Folks!

Did you have trouble finding THE dress?

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Who says I can only wear it on one day? :D

Revisit the entire series:
Part One: I hit the stores.
Part Two: I go nuts at Nordstom.com.
Part Three: A brown suit becomes my wedding dress. (That’s dress #1!)
Part Four: I ditch the suit for a $14 Penney’s sun dress (Dress #2!)
Part Five: Goodbye, new sun dress, hello, old sun dress (Dress #3!)
Part Six: Readers give me great options and I buy one of them.
Part Seven: (This post!)

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98 Responses to “Finding a Courthouse Wedding Dress: Part 7 (The End. I’m Out of Money.)”

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Mrs. Perfume (message)  2,253 posts, Buzzing bee

THAT DRESS IS AWESOME. And sassy–just like that last pic. LOVE IT!!!!!!

 
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jesssr (message)  67 posts, Worker bee

i was going to say that you should change the sash to green if you could, and then further down the post you said you were going to. weird! anyway, i’m glad that you have your dress and it looks lovely on you!!

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,970 posts, Buzzing bee

@jesssr: That’s also what my mom said, as soon as she saw it. Great minds think alike!

 
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Anna Marie

YAY!!!!!! THIS IS THE DRESS!!!! I have been following your posts and this beats the other dresses over the head with a baseball bat!

CONGRATULATIONS!! It’s gorgeous and flattering and you’ll feel so special in it! whoop I can’t actually believe how excited I am for you!!! Well done Miss Mary Jane! x

 
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Wedding Poodle (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Cute dress! Are you getting different shoes since this one is dressier?

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,970 posts, Buzzing bee

@Wedding Poodle: Heck no! ;) I luuuuuurve my shoes.

 
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,566 posts, Bumble bee

awesome! You picked a winner! :)

 
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AmberWaves (message)  326 posts, Helper bee

As soon as I saw the first picture I thought yup, this is it. Love it Ms. MJ! And I second a green sash to go with the shoes. I’m so looking forward to seeing the pics after the big day.

 
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tessabella76
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tessabella76 (message)  3,122 posts, Sugar bee

Looks great!! I love the shoes with it!

 
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Bizz1011 (message)  82 posts, Worker bee

It’s beautiful and so flattering!!

 
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Miss Cloud (message)  802 posts, Busy bee

I LOVE it! And to be honest I could tell it was the one before I read anything by looking at the pic, you look more confident and happy in it!!

 
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Hobochic (message)  183 posts, Blushing bee

It’s a winner!!! Loving the dress Miss Mary Jane! And I’m so glad you found green shoes to match! I’m still on the hunt for my pair of green shoes. Short groom+ Tall Bride (with picky shoe tendencies) = shoe chaos!
Beautiful, beautiful dress - so glad you found it!

 
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Natakie16
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Natakie16 (message)  859 posts, Busy bee

Perfect, I love the ruffles! I think it will look fabulous with a new sash- esp. green! Love the last picture too!

 
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krissybee (message)  3,921 posts, Honey bee

LOVE this dress on you!!! it is THE ONE for sure!

 
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Jessica

That dress is perfect, I’m so happy for you.

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

It’s oh-so flattering on you — and very cute and feminine. Great find, MJ. :-)

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  918 posts, Busy bee

I love it, MJ! I thought the sundress was cute, but am really glad you went this route. Even though your wedding is going to be low key, doesn’t mean a girl can’t feel a little fancy on such an important day :) I think you maybe a fabulous decision and you look quite sassy in that drass :) Perfect!

 
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miss_norris (message)  82 posts, Worker bee

That’s definitely the one!! :) I love the last pic, you’re so fierce!

 
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Melissabegins (message)  3,340 posts, Sugar bee

you could totally rock this dress after the wedding - I see it with a blazer for work stuff, with some sparkly shoes and maybe a wide sparkly sash for a New Year’s Eve party, maybe even with some flats and some funky accesories for a regular weekend. Oh, and also for sassy photo shoots. :)

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  708 posts, Busy bee

Gah! This is awesome! I love that feeling when you put on a sassy feminine dress and it just makes you go “mmm hmmmm, check me out!” I think that sash is supposed to cinch right at your natural waist, so it probably looks very different on various women depending on their waist to hip ratio. Looking forward to a green sash hunting post (or 4? Only kidding!)

 
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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.

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