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Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.
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I’ve written way too many of these dress posts, ladies. I’ve shared body image issues, I’ve lamented about length, and I’ve waffled on my oh-so-confident choices not once, not twice, but thrice. I’m not going to make you sift through my insecurities and justifications for my wishy-washiness. I’m just going to show you the fourth (and final) dress of this four-dress bride.

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This is my dress. I love it. It’s fancier than the sun dresses. It’s frilly and feminine. It shows my shape. It covers my knees. And it was $192.00 ($16 shipping). And I cut the tags off. This. Is. My. Dress.

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I wore my shoes, expecting to have Mr. Mary Jane snap a few photos in our living room or somewhere else indoors and dry. But the light on this dreary day was best in our backyard. So I went out in to the too-long, wet grass (we mowed it four days ago swear!) and came back lookin’ like this. At least it was just water. They dried.

FYI, here’s the dress on the model.

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It’s strapless in the store’s pic, but oddly it actually has spaghetti straps. I prefer the strapless, so I’ll probably remove them (though tucking them in worked pretty well, too). I would like the sash on mine to fall at about where it’s falling on her. (She’s got to be a good 4″ to 6″ shorter than I am.) I’m planning to remove the black sash and replace it either with another black sash, or a sash with green elements in it to match my shoes. Either way, the new sash will be wider and lower. The current location of the sash (on me) looks like it’s cutting my midsection in half, I think. I’m also going to have it professionally steamed: it’s wrinkled!!

If you want this dress, it’s by Cachet, and I got it at Belk.com. It runs large: I’m normally a snug 10, and this 8 has some room to spare. Kudos to WB member NC Girl for hooking me up with the link! Less than three months from the wedding date, I have finally checked “Dress” off my list.

Finished.
Done.
Th-Th-Th-Th-That’s All, Folks!

Did you have trouble finding THE dress?

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Who says I can only wear it on one day? :D

Revisit the entire series:
Part One: I hit the stores.
Part Two: I go nuts at Nordstom.com.
Part Three: A brown suit becomes my wedding dress. (That’s dress #1!)
Part Four: I ditch the suit for a $14 Penney’s sun dress (Dress #2!)
Part Five: Goodbye, new sun dress, hello, old sun dress (Dress #3!)
Part Six: Readers give me great options and I buy one of them.
Part Seven: (This post!)

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96 Responses to “Finding a Courthouse Wedding Dress: Part 7 (The End. I’m Out of Money.)”

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Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,632 posts, Bumble bee

THAT DRESS IS AWESOME. And sassy–just like that last pic. LOVE IT!!!!!!

 
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jesssr (message)  51 posts, Worker bee

i was going to say that you should change the sash to green if you could, and then further down the post you said you were going to. weird! anyway, i’m glad that you have your dress and it looks lovely on you!!

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

@jesssr: That’s also what my mom said, as soon as she saw it. Great minds think alike!

 
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Anna Marie

YAY!!!!!! THIS IS THE DRESS!!!! I have been following your posts and this beats the other dresses over the head with a baseball bat!

CONGRATULATIONS!! It’s gorgeous and flattering and you’ll feel so special in it! whoop I can’t actually believe how excited I am for you!!! Well done Miss Mary Jane! x

 
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Wedding Poodle
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Wedding Poodle (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Cute dress! Are you getting different shoes since this one is dressier?

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

@Wedding Poodle: Heck no! ;) I luuuuuurve my shoes.

 
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,350 posts, Bumble bee

awesome! You picked a winner! :)

 
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AmberWaves (message)  227 posts, Helper bee

As soon as I saw the first picture I thought yup, this is it. Love it Ms. MJ! And I second a green sash to go with the shoes. I’m so looking forward to seeing the pics after the big day.

 
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tessabella76 (message)  2,682 posts, Sugar bee

Looks great!! I love the shoes with it!

 
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Bizz1011 (message)  78 posts, Worker bee

It’s beautiful and so flattering!!

 
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Miss Cloud (message)  587 posts, Busy bee

I LOVE it! And to be honest I could tell it was the one before I read anything by looking at the pic, you look more confident and happy in it!!

 
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Hobochic
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Hobochic (message)  180 posts, Blushing bee

It’s a winner!!! Loving the dress Miss Mary Jane! And I’m so glad you found green shoes to match! I’m still on the hunt for my pair of green shoes. Short groom+ Tall Bride (with picky shoe tendencies) = shoe chaos!
Beautiful, beautiful dress - so glad you found it!

 
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Natakie16
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Natakie16 (message)  493 posts, Helper bee

Perfect, I love the ruffles! I think it will look fabulous with a new sash- esp. green! Love the last picture too!

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  1,005 posts, Bumble bee

LOVE this dress on you!!! it is THE ONE for sure!

 
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Jessica

That dress is perfect, I’m so happy for you.

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

It’s oh-so flattering on you — and very cute and feminine. Great find, MJ. :-)

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  759 posts, Busy bee

I love it, MJ! I thought the sundress was cute, but am really glad you went this route. Even though your wedding is going to be low key, doesn’t mean a girl can’t feel a little fancy on such an important day :) I think you maybe a fabulous decision and you look quite sassy in that drass :) Perfect!

 
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miss_norris (message)  82 posts, Worker bee

That’s definitely the one!! :) I love the last pic, you’re so fierce!

 
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Melissabegins (message)  843 posts, Busy bee

you could totally rock this dress after the wedding - I see it with a blazer for work stuff, with some sparkly shoes and maybe a wide sparkly sash for a New Year’s Eve party, maybe even with some flats and some funky accesories for a regular weekend. Oh, and also for sassy photo shoots. :)

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  672 posts, Busy bee

Gah! This is awesome! I love that feeling when you put on a sassy feminine dress and it just makes you go “mmm hmmmm, check me out!” I think that sash is supposed to cinch right at your natural waist, so it probably looks very different on various women depending on their waist to hip ratio. Looking forward to a green sash hunting post (or 4? Only kidding!)

 
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
‘nough said!

 
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lara bee
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lara bee (message)  340 posts, Helper bee

I love your final dress choice! Way to go!
And I definitely think a green sash to match your shoes would be best. The Black looks odd with your shoe choice, IMO.

Congrats on finding THE ONE!

 
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iswimibikeirun (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

The dress looks great on you . . . I vote for a green sash (or one with green elements). The black on chops you up. You could even go without a sash.

 
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MexicanGirl
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MexicanGirl (message)  642 posts, Busy bee

i love it! it looks better on you than on the model, i think.

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,594 posts, Bumble bee

I think that dress fits everyone’s list of requirements: You look happy, it gives you a great shape, it shows off your GREAT shoulders, and it shows off your shoes! CHECK!

 
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Golden139
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Golden139 (message)  340 posts, Helper bee

Yay!!! Congrats on finding your wedding dress! You look gorgeous and I love the shoes with it–and the green sash is going to make it even more perfect!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,616 posts, Sugar bee

i love this dress and actually smiled when i saw it on you. i’m so glad you found something you “cut the tag off love” as i call it. hah.

and that last picture is priceless!

 
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Miss Hot Sauce (message)  932 posts, Busy bee

This dress looks amazing on you! I think it looks better on you than the model. ;)

When you posted it before in the array of dresses that was not one that caught my eye, but once I saw it on you, it is definitely the “one”. It looks fabulous on you!

 
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Hayley
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Hayley (message)  214 posts, Helper bee

gorgeous, i love it!!

 
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MissCamera
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MissCamera (message)  671 posts, Busy bee

I love it! I also agree you should change out the sash to one with some sort of green element. Make sure to tie it around the smallest part of you. That always works for me. Your wedding attire is so stylin’. Now are you still planning on doing some sort of birdcage or pillbox hat?

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

@iswimibikeirun: I would probably try it without the sash, but there’s actually a seam under the sash that’s kind of in need of covering ;)

@MissCamera: I’ll probably have a barrette in my hair. I fear headwear, remember? :)

 
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runningbee (message)  218 posts, Helper bee

I think this is the best wedding dress you’ve posted so far. It’s formal, but not too formal, and looks perfect on you. I love the idea of having a green sash to match your shoes. To me, the current black seems to be too dark with your shoes. Really flattering, love it!

 
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Miss Piglet (message)  629 posts, Busy bee

I love it! like, A LOT! Not to mention, I can tell by your pictures that YOU love it, which is what matters most. :)

 
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Vic004
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Vic004 (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

Perfect!! All those other dresses did not do you enough justice. Love the green!!!

 
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heather25
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heather25 (message)  478 posts, Helper bee

The best dress by far! So pretty. Is there anyway that you can match your sash to your shoes or does that not appeal to you?

You could also wear the dress with different shoes and a different sash to your in-law bbq.

 
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Donna

soooo glad you picked this one and didn’t settle for one of the others. you look great.

 
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NC Girl (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

BEAUTIFUL!!! It’s very you. I was happy to help! (Ignore work for a little while because Miss MJ needs us to send her wedding dress ideas? I’m on it!) And that last picture… ART.

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  469 posts, Helper bee

Perfect!!! Love it with the green shoes. Don’t forget to stand up tall and wear your beautiful height.

 
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jaymee

OMG! So much nicer than that brown suit option. And I’d definitely go with the green sash to match your shoes. But with an endless amount of sash colors to choose from and buy - you can get some excellent use out of the dress. Congrats!!

 
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cheerful
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cheerful (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

It’s wonderful! Absolutely perfect! I’ve been following your dress saga and I’m so happy that you’ve found the right dress.

 
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august15bride
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august15bride (message)  1,378 posts, Bumble bee

I love it! The perfect dress. Congrats!!!!!

 
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Miss Ink
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Miss Ink (message)  34 posts, Newbee

I like this dress the most! Looks great on you too

 
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tbrooke
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tbrooke (message)  149 posts, Blushing bee

Love Love LOVE this dress! It looks great :) Great choice Miss Mary Jane :)

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  4,251 posts, Honey bee

Great find, it’s super cute!

 
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backyardwed (message)  62 posts, Worker bee

i (of course) like it best of all. you could even wear one of your sundresses to the reception your mother-in-law is throwing you if you want. good job persevering till you got what you wanted. im glad you didn’t settle.

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,472 posts, Bumble bee

LOVE IT!!!!! This one is def my favorite :)

 
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Heather

I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE IT!!!!! And your hair is sooo cute! And with the green shoes, it’s lovely! You should carry some white and green flowers wrapped with a black ribbon, it would be so classy. It’s perfect.

 
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mariavvisa
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mariavvisa (message)  116 posts, Blushing bee

perfect. It’s stunning in a sassy, fun and couture-esque way.

 
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A

That is absolutely stunning on you–the best and most perfect choice. Go you!

 
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Miss Powder Puff (message)  834 posts, Busy bee

You look fantastic!

 
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lkbphmd (message)  179 posts, Blushing bee

That dress looks wonderful on you….and I think it is by far the best dress of all you tried. Excellent decision!

 
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Anne

Love it! You’re beautiful in it & congratulations! It makes me want to be a two-dress bride!

 
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Luvbug6315
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Luvbug6315 (message)  427 posts, Helper bee

That’s the perfect dress! It looks great! Congrats on finding the “one”

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

That dress looks SO MUCH BETTER ON YOU THAN IT DOES ON THE MODEL! Yes, I am belting that out! You are SMOKIN’ in that dress :)

Love the last pic - did you use a Rad Action? If so, which one?

xo

 
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GwenMarieDC (message)  65 posts, Worker bee

Miss Mary Jane I LURVE IT! It is fantastic and is definitely THE dress! A little birdcage would look so sweet with it I think - and by sweet I mean totally fierce! Congrats!

 
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flbeachbride82 (message)  10 posts, Newbee

OMG!!!!! That dress is THE PERFECT dress! What a fantastic end to your search! It’s a great length for you and romantic for your courthouse wedding.

 
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April.H (message)  137 posts, Blushing bee

I love this dress! Good pick! For green ribbon I was at Michaels this week and they had some pretty wide green ribbon that looks close to the color of your shoes with white chrysanthemum looking flowers on it. It’s very pretty and might go beautifully with that dress.

 
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Cassie

Don’t move the sash down- it will emphasize a wider part and it’s intended to define your waist. It looks great as is.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,598 posts, Sugar bee

Girl, you look AWESOME!!!!!!! Love the dress!!!

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

@Mrs. Quiche: No actions on that one actually. It’s just a hard room to photograph - lots of different light sources. I played with the Levels, Brightness and Contrast to get it to this point.

@Cassie: Currently the sash wraps around my ribcage. I’d like it to go around my waist instead, which is a narrower part of me than my ribcage! :)

 
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Melissa

I love the dress and the shoes! This dress is perfect for you :)

 
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rachelpete
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rachelpete (message)  79 posts, Worker bee

It’s perfect - good job! I can’t wait to see it with the green sash.

 
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Miss Swan (message)  386 posts, Helper bee

Work it out, girl! You look great!

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

I am in LOVE with this dress on you! It is perfect :)
P.S. I just noticed I bought your wedding shoes in black the other day. I love them, they are so comfy.

 
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Miss Marine (message)  141 posts, Blushing bee

YAYAYAYA! This is great! I’m so happy that you finally found something that you love!

 
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Melissa B.

You look gorgeous! And that last photo is beyond awesome.

 
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Miss Cowboy Boot (message)  259 posts, Helper bee

You look fabulous!! Good choice.

 
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Keladry
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Keladry (message)  184 posts, Blushing bee

You did it! You found an awesome dress and you look fabulous in it!

 
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aliangel64 (message)  79 posts, Worker bee

Yes yes yes! That dress looks amazing! Beautiful, bride-y, and perfect for a courthouse ceremony!

 
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boothbride (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

This is, hands down, my favorite dress for you. You are fierce! (Yet feminine!) Love it!

 
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melodicsighs1
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melodicsighs1 (message)  804 posts, Busy bee

yay! such a happy ending. i love it, and i’m so glad you’re happy (and finished deciding!)

 
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yello (message)  26 posts, Newbee

loves it!!! good choice!!!

 
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mariahjane20
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mariahjane20 (message)  59 posts, Worker bee

Gorgeous!! LOVE LOVE LOVE it!! Moreover, I’m toally in love with that last photo…AWSOME!

 
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Amber1279
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Amber1279 (message)  316 posts, Helper bee

I love it! it is perfection!

 
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Muffet
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Muffet (message)  106 posts, Blushing bee

Great dress, great style. It fits you and your personality perfectly. BTW - great haircut!

 
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heavnzbrat

OH YES! IT IS WONDERFUL. and i think it’d look great w/ a sash with a lil green in it too (wink!)

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  3,301 posts, Sugar bee

Yay! I’m so glad you chose this dress! It looks great on you, and it goes great with the shoes. I vote for a green sash instead of the black one. :)

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Hooray! That’s definitely the best choice - and it’s the one I had my eye on in the options post, too!

 
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VegasBaby
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VegasBaby (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

it’s awesome! great choice, you look hot!

 
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Ms. Meg (message)  10 posts, Newbee

That is gorgeous! Wow! My absolute fav out of all the dresses, suits, etc. you’ve blogged about! CONGRATULATIONS!

 
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KateMW
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KateMW (message)  2,714 posts, Sugar bee

This is by far my favorite dress! Perfect! I would change that sash to green, because the shoes look a little out of place when the sash is black, IMO.

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  912 posts, Busy bee

Gah-gah-gorrrrgeous. Love it. Looks better on you than the model and that last photo? Cutest ever.

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  1,372 posts, Bumble bee

OMG Miss Mary Jane I LOVE IT!!! Its the most beautiful dress I have seen on you…this looks so great on you! I LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!! Congrats on finding such a fabulous dress!!! How cute are you in that last picture!!! ROCK IT MJ!!

 
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MissMemsie
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MissMemsie (message)  25 posts, Newbee

OMG! I love love LOVE that dress! Bravo!!! Absolutely stunning!!! Your green shoes are super cute! Too bad they aren’t Mary Janes!

 
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ramosianchica
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ramosianchica (message)  61 posts, Worker bee

I loves it too! Good job! And I love the last pic! =)

 
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Jenniphyr
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Jenniphyr (message)  1,397 posts, Bumble bee

I love that dress on you! I definately vote for incorporating green elements into the new sash! I would go for a sold green to match the shoes, or a green and black damask pattern. =)

 
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Annui (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

Love the final picture.

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

You say po-tay-to, I say po-tah-to :) That room may be hard to photograph in, but i say (with those results??) it’s EASY!

;)

 
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LoriLori (message)  234 posts, Helper bee

Good thinkgs come to those who wait… and persevere! I LOVE it! I like it as is but after seeing the shoes I agree w/ your decision to go with a green sash. Nice!

 
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Mrs. Corn (message)  1,010 posts, Bumble bee

Sweet Mary Mother of God…Awesome! Awesome! Awesome!!! You look amazing!!

Congrats on the find!!

 
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jadeite

Okay, that last photo? Awesome. Funky, sassy, and shows off your dress+shoes+tattoo!

Yes, I noticed!

Way to go MJ, great end to the dress search.

 
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BeachyBride2010 (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

PHHHHHEEEEEEWWWW I was so worried you were going with the “sensible-serviceable brown” suit.. this is so much more fun, and whoever said sassy… SUPER cute! You Rock!

 
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cara

Love it!! *love* that you love it! Can’t wait to see how you work the sash situation too :) YAY!!

 
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[...] Finding A Courthouse Wedding Dress Part 7 (The End. I’m Out of Money) by Miss Mary Jane [...]

 
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I love that last shot!!!

The dress looks WAY better on you than it does on the model! superb!

 
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[...] It took me four changes of heart to find the right dress. [...]

 


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Mrs. Mary Jane Mrs. Mary Jane, Grand Forks, ND Age and Occupation: 26, Instructional Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Lead Programmer Engagement Date: February 28, 2009 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: City Hall About Me: I'm a career woman on the surface and a homemaker at heart. I love fast cars and high heels, and my favorite food is cake. Mr. Mary Jane and I are both full-time employees and students, and we just bought our first house. We love to curl up on the couch with buttery popcorn, Sour Patch Kids, and the latest Netflix arrival -- whenever we can get a break from everyday life.
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