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Since becoming engaged, I’ve kept my ears open to possible “must have” songs for our wedding. I’m still unsure whether to hire a ceremony musician/reception D.J. or be an iPod couple all the way, but in any case, we’ll want to have a say on a few music selections for the day. We’re doing things a bit non-traditionally, especially when it comes to the ceremony music.

I’ve compiled a list of songs for different parts of the ceremony and reception. There are a few gaps where I’m not sure what song(s) to use, so feel free to suggest something that will flow with the choices we’ve made so far! Without further ado, I present our wedding day “playlist”:

Prelude: Beautiful Day by U2

Processional:

Seating of parents: ?
Minister & groom: ?

Groomsmen & bridesmaids: ?
Flower girls, ring bearer, and Jr. BMs: Over the Rainbow by Israel Kamakawiwo’Ole

Bride (ME!): Kingdom Come by Coldplay

Interlude: ?
(I’m not even sure if we’ll have music in the middle of the ceremony at all.)

Recessional: Clocks (instrumental) by Coldplay

Cocktail Hour: Classical Music

Dinner: Laid back lovey-dovey songs

First Dance: Better Together by Jack Johnson

Cake Cutting: I’m Yours by Jason Mraz & a special song for Mr. Lab’s groom’s cake cutting

Bouquet Toss: Single Ladies by Beyonce (”All the single ladies put your hands up!” Classic.)

Garter Removal: ? (We definitely are thinking Mission Impossible or something along those lines!)

Mother/Son: Mr. Lab hasn’t picked this out yet.

Mother/Daughter (because I don’t have a dad to dance with): Brown Eyed Girl by Van Morrison (We both have brown eyes and picked this song out to dance to together when I was just a kid!)

Reception dancing: On our wedding website we’ve included a page for our guests to suggest songs to play during the reception. We figure that if they help pick them out, they’ll be more likely to get on the dance floor. I’m a BIG dancer, so I want the dance floor packed all night! I think that by allowing song requests, having an open bar, and picking a wedding party that loves to get down, my wish will be fulfilled. We’ll be sure to include some songs everyone knows (YMCA, Baby Got Back, etc.), too. And as the night goes on, we’ll move from the radio/clean versions to the “dirty filthy wanna make me shake my ass” music. ‘Cause that’s how I roll.

Our website’s music suggestion page

Last Dance: Constellations by Jack Johnson

Etc. Music:

In addition to these songs, we’re also asking our entire wedding party to pick out individual songs tailored to their personalities to be introduced to at the wedding reception. For example, my MOH plays poker a couple times a week with her hubby and their friends, so she’s chosen Lady Gaga’s Poker Face! As for Mr. Lab and my entrance song… well, that’s a HUGE surprise that will have to wait until AFTER the wedding to be revealed.

Photo slideshow:

1. Mr. Lab growing up (I Go Back by Kenny Chesney)
2. Me growing up (Brown Eyed Girl by Van Morrison)
3. Our “courtship” (Falling in Love at a Coffee Shop by Landon Pigg)
4. Our engagement from the proposal, all the way up to the wedding (Better Together by Jack Johnson)

How closely involved with the music selections are you when it comes to your wedding? Are you trusting your DJ to get the party started, or do you have a strict list?