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Mrs. Gloss, Boston/Maine Age and Occupation: 24, Designer/soon-to-be Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Systems Engineer Engagement Date: May 23, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: SS Katahdin/Lakeside Tent About Me: I don't like nickels or the skin that forms on pudding when it's in the fridge for too long. I couldn't live without Pantone markers, fountain soda (3/4 diet, ¼ regular Coke), run-on sentences, or ridiculously oversized sunglasses. I will try to DIY almost anything and am just OCD enough to make most of it work. I am truly excited about having all my family and friends together, becoming Mrs. Gloss, and having amazing photos to prove it!
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The Grand Exit

June 24th, 2009 @ 6:19 pm by Mrs. Gloss

The Grand Exit :  wedding reception Grandex  Maggie: What’s your favorite thing you ever wore?

Dora: Ever?

Maggie: Yeah. In your whole life.

Dora: My going-away suit from my wedding. Black and white checks, very fitted. I felt like Jackie Kennedy in that suit.

I want that feeling.

I want to rush out of the doors wearing the perfect outfit, timeless and chic, to guests cheering our names and tossing rice. My new husband’s arm will be locked with mine as we dash into the getaway car and drive off to our relaxing and exotic honeymoon location.

But then there is the other side… I don’t want to leave the party!!

  1. I’ve been planning this event for over a year now and want to fully enjoy all the hard work and long nights I’ve put in.
  2. Our guests are traveling great distances (some which I don’t get to see that often) and I want to spend as much time with them as possible!
  3. I could absolutely see wanting to leave the reception early if we had never ‘played Twister’ before - because that would totally be worth ditching all our guests. :) But that is not the case.

So anyways, there will be no amazing get-away pictures and we will probably be there until they make us leave (even though we got an amazing room).

Are you planning a fabulous get-away with a classic outfit? or are you going to stay until they kick you out?

Bonus points if you can name the movie! :)

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Miss Piglet (message)  1,045 posts, Bumble bee

In Her Shoes! :) We’ll be the last to leave our partay!

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,308 posts, Bee Keeper

HA! In her shoes is the movie, LOVE IT! And I’m planning on dancing until the sun comes up at our wedding (well, ok, until midnight, which is when the band has to stop due to a town noise ordinance…) but still….

 
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mklove
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mklove (message)  358 posts, Helper bee

I stayed at my party the whole time and wouldn’t have changed a thing! I loved my reception!

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  3,104 posts, Sugar bee

We were the last two to leave, for the reasons that you outlined above! Plus, we wanted to take some cake home. ;)

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I feel the same way–i know I won’t want to leave the party! We’re gonna after-party when the reception is over, so hopefully I will get the best of both worlds! The party always dies when the bride and groom leave anyway!

 
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Nothing But Bonfires

Totally agree! I want to stick around until the very last guest has gone and then recap everything with anyone who’s still there. But at the same time, I always think of my mother’s gorgeous “going away dress” and how it was so special……

Hmm, maybe I’ll just buy a special “going on my honeymoon dress” and wear it on the plane the next day! It’s still technically a going away dress, right? (I’m thinking I won’t be able to get the flight attendatns to shower me with confetti when I leave the plane though. Maybe free pretzels?)

 
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shelliduke
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shelliduke (message)  412 posts, Helper bee

I know - I want a going away suit too! But we are definitely staying as late as everyone else at the reception. Hmm… great idea about wearing the getaway dress onto the plane for the honeymoon!

 
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mdarrah
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mdarrah (message)  1,205 posts, Bumble bee

We had an end time for our party as set by the location. So we exited in our wedding gear, quickly changed (into my mother’s cocktail style wedding dress), and then invited everyone to an after party! I was so thrilled ot be wearing my moms dress, still look uber cute, and to be a little more relaxed for the afterparty…. which we stayed at until 3 am. :) Good times.

 
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kitty25kat25 (message)  318 posts, Helper bee

We did a grand exit out of the ballroom when the official reception ended - with bubbles -
http://www.projectwedding.com/photo/list/kitty25kat25?photo_to_show=948400&thumbs_page=29

but then right afterwards, we went to the after party with everyone else and stayed until the bitter end!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

we’re having a sparkler exit, then we’ll get on a party bus with our guests for the afterparty!

 
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coralray24 (message)  172 posts, Blushing bee

I am torn as well…I really want a sparkler farewell and saying goodnight…but I don’t want to end the night early! However, I have been to weddings where there was no official send off at the end and the older crowd was confused, they wanted to leave but were waiting for the bride and groom to leave. I will have quite a few older family there, so I think we will have a send off and then tell some people to meet us somewhere else for drinks. No official after-party, but still some way to keep the fun going.

 
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butterywaffles
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butterywaffles (message)  35 posts, Newbee

Stay and party! You could always do what my cousin did: She did a grand, dramatic exit, drove around the block, then re-entered and said “Just kidding, guys!”, hahaha. It was pretty cute, I must say.

 
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Miss Argyle (message)  2,516 posts, Sugar bee

I am trying to figure out the same thing. I want to hang out with my friends and family, but would love some adorable get away number. Oh the decisions!!

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  2,272 posts, Buzzing bee

Stay till they kick us out! :)

 
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Perk (message)  216 posts, Helper bee

For the amount of money I paid for my dress, I am staying in my dress.

But, we are doing the grand exit through an aisle of sparklers!

 
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MissBookworm (message)  294 posts, Helper bee

We’ll probably leave like 20 minutes early. I want to stay long enough to enjoy the party and have a cute send off, but Mr. BW and I have never played twister before….soo….umm… yeah :P

 
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legalbee (message)  161 posts, Blushing bee

I love that movie! It was filmed right near where I grew up!

 
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Mrs. Library
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Mrs. Library (message)  40 posts, Newbee

We stayed till the end. Our guest knew the party was winding down because the DJ played a last song and then we did a second line onto the venue’s porch. My husband and I stood outside and thanked our guest for coming as they left.

 
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Keladry
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Keladry (message)  294 posts, Helper bee

I personally would feel weird to be the last one at my own party! Like MissBookworm, I’ll make sure to cut it close, but I really want everyone to send me and my new husband off properly! Sparklers, a new outfit, diving into our getaway car, the works!

 
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notsojenny

our reception ends at 9:30 so we’ll be leaving at the end but i’m changing into a new dress (decided agains the suit/jacket option due to August heat) and we’re heading out to the bars with our friends who are all here visiting us! the party doesn’t Have To end if you don’t wnat it to

 
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Mrs. Gloss, Boston/Maine Age and Occupation: 24, Designer/soon-to-be Architect Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Systems Engineer Engagement Date: May 23, 2008 Wedding Date: August 2009 Venue: SS Katahdin/Lakeside Tent About Me: I don't like nickels or the skin that forms on pudding when it's in the fridge for too long. I couldn't live without Pantone markers, fountain soda (3/4 diet, ¼ regular Coke), run-on sentences, or ridiculously oversized sunglasses. I will try to DIY almost anything and am just OCD enough to make most of it work. I am truly excited about having all my family and friends together, becoming Mrs. Gloss, and having amazing photos to prove it!

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