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Mrs. Star, New York City Age and Occupation: 22, Actress Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Casting Assistant Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Ceremony: The Kraine Theatre, Reception: Midtown Loft & Terrace About Me: I’m a professional actress who’s always had New York City in her blood and I'm finally getting the chance to make a home in Manhattan with my fiancé, my dog, and my big dreams! I love polka dots, craft projects, Dunkin’ Donuts’ iced coffee, and anything sparkly. I’m having a blast planning our elegant/dramatic/New York City/acting-themed/largely-DIY wedding and am thrilled to be the youngest current Miss Blogger!
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Shoe Stalking

June 26th, 2009 @ 10:54 am by Mrs. Star

You’ve already had the chance to read about the wedding shoes I found and rejected. Now for the happy ending:

A couple of months ago, blonde bridesmaid and I had the great fortune of stumbling upon one of the best reasons to love living in New York: wholesale shoe showrooms. Let me explain.

Blonde bridesmaid was out on Long Island one day, when she (of course, knowing her) made a stop off at the enormous DSW shoe store. Knowing that the hunt for my perfect ivory wedding heels was on, she swung by the dress shoes section and happened to encounter THE PERFECT SHOES. Literally, these shoes look like Stephen Yearick made them himself just to complement my wedding gown. I know I haven’t shown you my gown yet, so keep these shoes in mind for when you get to see the dress — they’re absolutely breathtakingly perfect.

So she finds these perfect shoes, but the biggest size they have left is a 5 1/2 and I wear a 7. Damn. I checked on the website, still only tiny ones there, too. I called all three DSW stores in the city, and nothing. I finally took to scouring the internet for any reference to “Caparros” shoes and couldn’t find the exact pair anywhere, but did find a bare-bones website that vaguely references their warehouse in L.A., their showroom in N.Y., and the fact that Caparros shoes are sold at Lord & Taylor (which is right around the corner from my apartment). After striking out again at Lord & Taylor, blonde bridesmaid and I decided to venture into the unknown of the shoe showroom.

We had to search to find the building up on 57th Street, and then were told that the showroom was on the 10th floor by a security guard who definitely didn’t believe we belonged there. The elevator opened onto a 10th floor filled with offices of well-known brands like DKNY and such, and we contemplated turning back because, indeed, it didn’t look like we belonged there. But we bravely ventured forth into the Caparros showroom! When we rounded the corner, there it was: a BEAUTIFUL room filled with huge windows and shelves and shelves of beautiful shoes. It was like a more spacious and light-filled version of this:

Shoe Stalking :  wedding shoes Showroo

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There were two people inside working, a man in an office and a shoe designer named Mo, who immediately greeted us and seemed puzzled at us being there. As soon as I got through my story, they both beamed and immediately offered to help. The man got to work on the computer trying to find the specific style number and Mo showed us around the showroom and let us look at the newest season’s ivory shoes. She was delighted at how much we loved all the shoes in the room and eager to hear our opinions on each of her designs (keep in mind there were about 200 shoes in there!). Soon after, the man came out and told us that DSW would be getting a new shipment of my shoes on June 1st, so I should stalk their website for about two weeks starting on the 1st and I would be able to get them! What great news! After we spent about half an hour talking to Mo about her designs, they both wished us well and Mo gave me her card in case I wasn’t able to get them in June.

Come June 1st, I scoured the DSW website 3 times a day. By June 7th, I was starting to get discouraged, but by the morning of the 9th, there they were! A few clicks and they were on their way to my apartment! After three months of stalking and lurking, I finally got to see them in person. They’re still available in all sizes on the DSW website, for anyone who’s interested. You can buy them here.

Shoe Stalking :  wedding shoes Img 385

Shoe Stalking :  wedding shoes Img 38501

(Photo credit by me)

Every time I look at these, my heart skips a beat because of how well the beading matches my gown. And they were only $60 with shipping!!

Have you spent way too much time obsessing over one detail to get it perfect?

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16 Responses to “Shoe Stalking”

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Miss Mouse
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Miss Mouse (message)  5,844 posts, Bee Keeper

I’m so glad you found the perfect shoes! What a cool story.

 
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Miss Hot Dog (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

I’m a little less than a year out, but I’m doing the whole wedding myself- no planner! So I’ve been obsessing over EVERY detail! Right now, it’s the invitations and Save-The-Dates. I’ve literally changed my design 5 or 6 times! I’m such a perfectionist! I’m sure it will only get worse as the wedding gets closer… I LOVE your shoes! AMAZING!

 
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iswimibikeirun
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iswimibikeirun (message)  1,355 posts, Bumble bee

Those shoes ARE beautiful!

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  2,272 posts, Buzzing bee

That is easily the best shoe story I’ve ever heard! congrats on finding “the one”!

 
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MyPurpleWedding
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MyPurpleWedding (message)  237 posts, Helper bee

Whoa, those shoes are freakin’ beautiful!!

 
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tessabella76
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tessabella76 (message)  3,122 posts, Sugar bee

Oohhh I looked at those a week or so ago at DSW! I ended up with a different pair of Capparos and they are the most comfortable pair of heels I have. I keep trying them on and walking around the house in them! Most of the Capparos I tried on were pretty comfortable.

 
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AmberWaves
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AmberWaves (message)  326 posts, Helper bee

What a great story. You are one determined lady!

 
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ms.lady
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ms.lady (message)  9 posts, Newbee

congratulations, miss star! i bought my caparros at dsw also and i. loved. them! mine were the version with the ankle strap and the beading was slightly different. i immediately loved the tiny, delicate sequins and they were a perfect color match. i did take some time to wear them around my house before the big day to break them in and they were comfortable all day long. have fun wearing them!

 
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ggsb
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ggsb (message)  1,245 posts, Bumble bee

I couldn’t agree more with the ladies above who commented on how comfy caparros are. I have 3 pairs (from 3 different bridesmaid ensembles) and all 3 are really comfy. I wear them out to events and for high heels they are really easy to wear….and YOURS are BEAUTIFUL and I can’t wait to see your dress!!

 
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futurejet
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futurejet (message)  108 posts, Blushing bee

ooo I can’t wait to see the dress now! I had a similar experience with my bridesmaids dresses. they were sold out in the sizes we needed, but I was determined and checked online every day, many times a day. And this morning they were available! A little luck and perseverance definitely pays off.

 
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Miss Spaniel (message)  6,792 posts, Bee Keeper

Those are darling! They even match the dress I’m thinking of getting, but I’m forcing myself to hold back in case I change my mind about my dress again!

 
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Mrs. Hot Cocoa (message)  2,077 posts, Buzzing bee

I love them. But I am mad at you for introducing me to the DSW website. I didn’t know they had an online shop . . . now I do. Bad for my wallet.

 
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bree72 (message)  2,086 posts, Buzzing bee

I was so worried for you when I read your post, Miss Star, as I was just a bridesmaid and had to wear a pair of similar Capparos. They were horribly uncomfortable; blisters and bleeding uncomfortable…all of the bridesmaids agreed, but it looks like from the comments that not all of them are that uncomfortable. I’m hoping yours are in the “comfortable” group!!!

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

Oooo they are so sparkley and pretty!

 
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Miss Star
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Miss Star (message)  2,057 posts, Buzzing bee

@Futurejet: I’m so glad I’m not the only bride who’s incredibly determined and willing to put in extra time and effort to get the details just right!

@Mrs. Hot Cocoa: Sorry, mine too ;)

 
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Mrs. Star, New York City Age and Occupation: 22, Actress Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Casting Assistant Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Ceremony: The Kraine Theatre, Reception: Midtown Loft & Terrace About Me: I’m a professional actress who’s always had New York City in her blood and I'm finally getting the chance to make a home in Manhattan with my fiancé, my dog, and my big dreams! I love polka dots, craft projects, Dunkin’ Donuts’ iced coffee, and anything sparkly. I’m having a blast planning our elegant/dramatic/New York City/acting-themed/largely-DIY wedding and am thrilled to be the youngest current Miss Blogger!

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