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Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
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I decided to title my recaps “Love’s Valley of Dreams” because they are lyrics from our song, Moonlight Serenade by Glenn Miller. Thus begins the recaps!

About a month before the wedding (or 6 weeks ago, whatever), my photographer and I got together and did my bridals.

Apparently, this is a Southern thing. I didn’t know that. I learn something new every day. Anyway, we decided to do bridals instead of another engagement session, since Mr. CC and I had one engagement session already and I couldn’t convince Mr. CC that we needed another. I actually wanted to re-take our engagement pictures since I wasn’t very happy with the original session, but Mr. CC was not seeing the point in that. In the end, I’m really glad I got to do bridals. It gave me an opportunity to try everything out together, including finding the easiest way to get into all that nonsense, lace it up, etc., etc.

Kristian and I decided that we would visit Callaway Gardens and do most of the session there. The night before the session, we chatted about the weather, since rain was in the forecast. It had been raining for 7 days straight and was supposed to be clearing up some, but it wasn’t looking good for our particular day. We decided that we would go for it anyway, since the wedding was closing in on us and it was too late to reschedule my hair and makeup appointments. There were some areas inside the Gardens that were actually indoors, so we figured the worst thing that could happen was that we’d be confined to those spaces.

On Friday morning, I got a bright and early start. I was up at about 7, dressed, and out the door with Mini in tow by 8:15. My appointments started at 9 and I needed to get her to school before heading to the salon. She was terribly upset that she didn’t get to go with me, and I had to bribe her to get her to go to school quietly.

When I arrived at the salon, there were some nasty looking thunderclouds above, but no rain yet, so I crossed my fingers, said a quick prayer, grabbed my veil and hairpiece, and ran inside.

I brought my new hair inspiration collage with me and showed my stylist. She seemed to think I had plenty of hair to pull the style off, and got to work curling my hair. Getting my hair done took about 40 minutes and then I scooted over into the makeup artist’s chair. I tried to tell her what I hadn’t liked about my last trial and she got to work. Unfortunately, she over-corrected and I ended up with less makeup on than I wear on a normal day. After dropping more money than I had paid for the first trial (I assume this was because there was a new makeup artist and therefore prices had changed, but I was a bit miffed anyway), I ran like a bat out of you-know-where to my mom’s house to get changed. It was 11:30 and I need to drive 15 minutes to my mom’s, get dressed, and get to Callaway (30 minutes north) to meet Kristian at 12 noon. I was going to be late. Very, very late.

Mom and I hurriedly threw my dress on and ran out the door for Callaway. On the drive up, the rain started. It was just a little rain, but nevertheless, it was raining and I was not happy. I got a call from Kristian letting me know that she was running late too, so at least I was able to relax about that.

When we got to Callaway, we hit a roadblock. There was some sort of National Water Skiing event happening that day, and Kristian’s corporate pass wasn’t going to get us in. We would have to pay full admission, which was $20 each. After mulling it over, we decided $60 was way too much money to spend on admission to the Gardens, especially on a day that was rainy and there was no guarantee the sky would clear up enough for us to make for any good pictures.

So we left. Kristian knew of a good field that was just outside the gates and should have been full of flowers, so we headed over there.

On the way, we found this nice big patch of magnolia trees, and decided to stop there first. Mind you, for each different place we went that the ground was wet, Kristian and my mom would put this giant piece of plastic down to keep my dress from getting wet, so there was a lot of set up and break down for each background change. Once I was settled on the plastic, they tucked it in under my dress so it wouldn’t show.

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I quickly made a fake bouquet out of some silk peonies I bought last summer to use in our centerpieces and a couple of silk hydrangeas from this season’s silk collection (all at Pier 1). It actually turned out quite nicely for a girl with very little bouquet making experience. Even the florist bridesmaid was impressed when I showed it to her.

We took a few pictures in front of the magnolia and then moved along to the field. Honestly, the bulk of the good pictures were taken here. We put up with a lot of dribbly rain, some nasty looking weeds, and some sticker bushes to get these pictures, but they were totally worth it.

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Seeing these shots really made me glad I dyed my crinoline. I was really happy with how well everything came together.

The rain was getting a little heavy, so we packed up and headed towards Uptown Columbus. By the time we got down there, the rain had moved on. Yay!

I had spotted this beat up pink airstream months and months ago, and knew we had to stop to take pictures with it. I’m so glad we did; the pictures turned out great.

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Y’all have seen that one!

On the other side of the airstream was this busted up old phone booth.

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I really wish these would have turned out better. They are still pretty awesome, though. We didn’t really want the street in the background, so it limited our angle possibilities.

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Kristian uses these old suitcases for her baby sessions, but brought them along on my request.

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I wasn’t terribly enthusiastic about climbing onto the railroad, since it’s still active, but it was so worth it!

These are just a handful of the images Kristian took. I’m really glad I had the opportunity to do this. My hair and make-up survived the wind and the rain fairly well.

Now, I just have to decide what to do with them. I put off the decision because I didn’t show the images to Mr. CC until last night and I wanted him to have some say in the decision. I can either purchase the prints I like, or buy a CD with the images on them. I’m leaning towards the CD. I don’t know what I want to do with them right now, but I’m sure I’ll want to print them again later and I would hate to not have that option.

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31 Responses to “Love’s Valley of Dreams: The Bridals”

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KellyV
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KellyV (message)  1,306 posts, Bumble bee

They came out beautifully! And you looked gorgeous! I love the last one on the train tracks. Its a perfect mix of SOMETHING…I cant place it…but its beautiful. And the dyed crinoline is perfect!

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Love the pink crinoline — and I had no idea your mom and photog had tucked a plastic piece under your gown in some of the pics!

 
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Miss Mary Jane
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,520 posts, Bumble bee

Oooo Mrs. Crab cake! You so sexxay! These bridals are great! I love the pink crinoline. Love it.

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  3,365 posts, Sugar bee

I love them! I like how you took something so traditional and really made it unique. I especially like the ones with the airstream trailor and the train tracks!

 
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Miss Gloss
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,057 posts, Bumble bee

Love the pink crinoline with the flowers in the field, but I think the train/suitcase combo is my fav!

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

Mrs. Crab Cake! You look so beautiful!!

 
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Lauren

These are great! One question for folks doing bridal shoots — what do you do about your shoes? Aren’t they then dirty for the wedding?

 
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Curlysue
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Curlysue (message)  625 posts, Busy bee

Oh I love these photos! I had never heard of brial photos before I started looking around here in WB–and I hope I can get some. It gives you a chance to wear the dress a little more too. Plus, my FI is happy to do the photos but I know he isn’t interested in some of the “artistic” ones by himself. I think he’s just camera shy even though he’s one hunky guy! HAHA

 
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Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,642 posts, Bumble bee

I love the ones in the field! So pretty!!!!

 
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Mrs. Kitten (message)  711 posts, Busy bee

The pink crinoline is so adorable! And the field! So many great locations! And you look beautiful!

 
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Mrs. Deviled Egg
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Mrs. Deviled Egg (message)  895 posts, Busy bee

The pics are beautiful and you looked gorgeous!!!

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,620 posts, Bumble bee

A sheet of plastic huh? Hmm.. might have to keep that one in mind! I’m doing a bridal shoot just 2 weeks before the wedding, so I won’t have time to get the dress cleaned if I do mess it up! Thanks for the idea!

 
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jesstagirl
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jesstagirl (message)  498 posts, Helper bee

Gorgeous photos!!! I love how natural you look in all of them. I have to admit, my eyes perked up once I saw Callaway - my FI and I have made it a tradition of going out there for Thanksgiving each year. It’s just gorgeous out there and I secretly wanted to get married there!

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,607 posts, Sugar bee

Your bridals are gorgeous!!!! I love your pink crinoline peeking out- so cute!

 
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Miss Star (message)  1,292 posts, Bumble bee

Love the field pics and the gorgeous pink crinoline!!

 
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bellenga
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bellenga (message)  4,662 posts, Honey bee

I LOVE YOUR PICS!!!! Had to shout it out! Is your dress blush pink (love the crinoline being bright pink too!).

Lovely bouquet too!

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Yay for prettiness! You definitely didn’t need to pay that admissions price - everywhere you shot was just lovely! Nice mix of pretty and my favourite beat-up, broken type background!

 
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honeymyheart
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honeymyheart (message)  763 posts, Busy bee

love your bridals!! the ones in the field of flowers are my fave :)

 
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PlanningMyPurpleWedding

Beautiful pictures!!! And I love your pink crinoline!

 
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Yin
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Yin (message)  329 posts, Helper bee

I had never heard of bridal shoots until Mrs. Ballet Flat’s post on her gorgeous photos. You look fabulous, and I especially love photos with your cute pink crinoline peeking out!

 
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

definately print them. and we have the SAME DRESS!!!! you totally just made me want to die my crinoline!

 
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sunflwra
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sunflwra (message)  153 posts, Blushing bee

I have to ask about your veil!! I’m sure you probably blogged about it previously, but it looks like something that would be great with the color of my dress– where did you get it? Or did you make it yourself, you rockstar- do-it-yourself-er??

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  1,381 posts, Bumble bee

These are so awesome! I love the last one on the train tracks! I so want to do that!

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  1,381 posts, Bumble bee

PS did I mention how beautiful you look!

 
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JeanL1984
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JeanL1984 (message)  341 posts, Helper bee

Those are awesome! You look amazing, and I’m adoring the dyed crinoline.

 
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Mrs. Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

@bellenga: My dress is actually a light gold color.

@sunflwra: my veil was custom made by http://www.honeycombveils.com/ to match my gown. She was great, we went through a lot of color swatches and found the one that matched my dress the best, and she drew up sketches based on my dresses design for me to chose from.

 
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MissAsB
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MissAsB (message)  1,398 posts, Bumble bee

Your bridals are beautiful! You must have looked so amazing on your wedding day. Love your dress!

 
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Jenniphyr
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Jenniphyr (message)  1,397 posts, Bumble bee

Those pics are beautiful! =) I love the one through the fountain.

 
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West Coast Bride (message)  672 posts, Busy bee

Gosh darn it, your photos are making me wish I had dyed MY crinoline! So freakin cute! And I can’t believe how you got down with that veil after potentially not even having one! So pretty!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,132 posts, Honey bee

very fun! love the bouquet and pink crinoline!

 
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xLailax (message)  234 posts, Helper bee

OMG, i LOVE pic #5! It’s so beautiful and light/fun! You look gorgeous, as always.

 


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