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To PWC or Not?

July 8th, 2009 @ 12:54 pm by Mrs. Crab Cake

There’s been a lot of talk lately of the PWC (post wedding chop).

I’m torn.

I’ve always had short hair. There’s only one time in my adult life I can remember having hair this long.

Shall we time travel? Let’s…

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This picture is so dated… January 2001—I’m a senior in high school. Check my enormous bangs. They are hiding my caterpillar eyebrows (as I did not understand the concept of waxing yet).

2

Here I am at my high school graduation. It was two days after Senior Prom (and a few weeks after a bad break-up), and I had whacked all my hair off. It was liberating—kinda like new life, new hair. I still had not discovered waxing.

3

That’s me in the middle in 2003, my sophomore year of college. This was a good length. It was long enough for a ponytail, but still low maintenance. I was so stinking skinny.

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In 2005. This is the longest it has ever been. We’re talking lifetime record. It didn’t last long. Shortly after a trip to Mexico (where my hair did not get along with the water, and I thought it was because my hair was too long), I hacked it all off again.

Then, I let it grow back out. Here I am at my college graduation in 2006.

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Shortly (like days) before meeting Mr. CC in the summer of 2007, I chopped it all off again.

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This is too short.

Once I was hooked on reenacting, it was time to grow my hair out a little. Then we got engaged.

7

Must have long hair for wedding… right?

It’s been trimmed and shaped since our engagement in April 2008, but it has not been cut.

Here I am on our 5th day of wedded bliss.

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I was burnt to a crisp, but this is a very good representation of what my hair looks like on a daily basis. Sort of messy, and just hanging there. I’m no good at putting my own hair up, so it’s usually all down or in a ponytail.

Hmm… there seems to be a detail missing. I started wearing glasses back in October.

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I still wear contacts on occasion, but it is rare.

I’ve already made an appointment for later this week to get it cut, but should I leave it long or chop it off?

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27 Responses to “To PWC or Not?”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

I love the length you wore in 2003 — very flattering! :-)

 
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

i’m always down for the chop! i’ve always been the girl who goes from hair down her back to an a line at the chin! it will ALWAYS grow back (at leat you gotta hope haha)… do the pwc!

 
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Champagne Wishes
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Champagne Wishes (message)  486 posts, Helper bee

Maybe just above the shoulders like on 2003… that was a great length on you!

 
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El Capataz
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El Capataz (message)  272 posts, Helper bee

Don’t do it! Keep it for a while and enjoy it. Getting it short is easy, growing it is hard. Enjoy the fruits of your labor ; )

 
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kpenn
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kpenn (message)  128 posts, Blushing bee

I LOOOOOVE the one that you say is too short! I look it looks young, fun and flirty! This could be because I had hair 8″ past my shoulders and then after the wedding cut it short like in that pic (but a bit different because it’s curly - think SJP in sex and the city when her hair was short)
ANYWAY - I say GO FOR IT!!! PWC all the way!!!
As Soon2BeeMrsLewis said - it will ALWAYS grow back!

 
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mklove
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mklove (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

I thought I was going to chop all of mine off, but I didn’t. I only took 3 inches off. I always thought I would go back to short hair, but I am enjoying it…for now.

 
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Miss Labrador (message)  1,325 posts, Bumble bee

I like the way it looks in your wedded bliss photo! I think shoulder length suits you best (my 2 cents, so do what YOU want). And can I just give a little shout out to the proposal pic featuring Savannah!!! ;)

 
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krissybee
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krissybee (message)  1,040 posts, Bumble bee

i also like your “wedded bliss” hair length..very cute!

 
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mary-alice-me
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mary-alice-me (message)  1,870 posts, Buzzing bee

You have great hair! I know you said it was too short, but that short-short cut looks great. I shouldn’t really speak, though, because I can’t live without a ponytail.

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

I think you look great at all the lengths. My favorite though it the super short ‘do, it is really cute :)

 
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MyPurpleWedding
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MyPurpleWedding (message)  217 posts, Helper bee

I love it long! I think it looks so good on you!

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,604 posts, Bumble bee

I really like 2003, college hair :) If you could handle it in college, it could probably hold up to current wedded lifestyle, no?

 
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KellyV
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KellyV (message)  1,300 posts, Bumble bee

my favorite is how it is right now!!! Its gorgeous on you

Um, and the little girl in the college grad photo is too adorable!!!

 
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MrsSl82be
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,472 posts, Bumble bee

I’m totally planning on doing the PWC, I think your hair looks great any length

 
15.
coleyjean
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coleyjean (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

I really like the cut you think is too short… that length is too cute on you! Maybe that short but no bangs? Easy peasy!

 
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EAQ219

Honestly, I LOVE the one you labeled “too short.” Very sassy and chic.

 
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LovestheBear
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LovestheBear (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

I like your hair long, but I love the way that short hair and glasses look together. Short, funky, and cool. But to be honest, you look great with your hair at any length.

 
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MeredithN
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MeredithN (message)  110 posts, Blushing bee

You have beautiful hair…so natural and has great body. I would cut it to how it is easiest for you since it doesn’t seem you like to be hassled by complicated hair. And I agree w @lovesthebear Short hair and glasses is so chic!

 
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katrinab
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katrinab (message)  295 posts, Helper bee

chop it! i love the pic of you the few days before you met mr. cc :)

 
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Mrs. Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

@KellyV: That’s Mini CC at age 2! She was such a pretty baby!

 
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shelliduke
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shelliduke (message)  222 posts, Helper bee

My fave is the one you thought was too short! That is my vote. But you look great right now! I don’t think it looks messy at all. If you are ok dealing with it at that length (I get really annoyed with my hair when it gets past a certain length!) I say you should keep it long.

 
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spraguebride
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spraguebride (message)  352 posts, Helper bee

I honestly love it long…or really short like the reader above
I like long the best…but I am in the same boat. I don’t have hair that works really well when it is long. I don’t know what to do with it and I put it up. But just so you know….in t he pics where you say your hair looks messy…I think it actually looks nice…like it has curl on the end. I would say “leave it” but I also know that I am sick if my hair and wanna shop it again
Hmmm………in a perfect world I would say have long hair…….but I know that I think my hair is always messy and I wear it up ALL THE TIME and am dying to just chop it
Hmmm…….I geuss I am not really any help, am I? hahahaha!!!

 
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btim54
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btim54 (message)  37 posts, Newbee

I like it either way, but I thought it was super cute, the shortest style…the one you didn’t like:) I’m chopping mine off after the wedding…well chopping up to my shoulders, it’s in the middle of my back now so we shall see…..Go short!!

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  476 posts, Helper bee

OMG I love the one that you said was “too short”!!

 
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Mrs. Kitten (message)  705 posts, Busy bee

If you’re looking for a change, I say chop it to that super short ‘do! Not many people can pull that off–but it looks great on you! I would look SO awkward with super short hair :(. My PWC is a shoulder-length ‘do!

 
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KellyV
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KellyV (message)  1,300 posts, Bumble bee

That IS Mini CC!!! Shes BEAUTIFUL! Actually now that I look at it shoe dodes look a LOT like you lol. I didnt want to be presumptuous and say that she was the mini ;) I cant wait to see photos of her at the wedding!

 
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NixLapi
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NixLapi (message)  406 posts, Helper bee

I’ve never understood the PWC… maybe because I’ve almost always had longer hair - but don’t brides want to look like themselves in their wedding photos?

I love your hair all lengths! But have to agree, that short ‘do is super cute! But I also like your honeymoon hair too!

 


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