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Mrs. Beagle, Austin Age and Occupation: 26, Electrical Engineer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Finance Engagement Date: July 12, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Church Ceremony/Reception at The Waterford House About Me: I am a true, but rare, Austinite---I was born, raised, and continue to live in this great city! Although I am an engineer by day, I feed my inner creative side through crafting, sewing, and obsessing over Martha Stewart. I love coffee, my mister, NPR, and exploring all the nooks and crannies of Austin. I can't wait to share my adventures in DIY and wedding planning with all of you!
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A Post for My Mom

July 9th, 2009 @ 8:22 am by Mrs. Beagle

Momma Beagle is the sweetest, kindest, friendliest, and loveliest person you could know. I only hope that one day I will become half the woman she is. Over the past 5 years or so, she has become one of my best friends. My love for plants, sewing, music, and, of course, crafting, all stem from her love of them and I would like to think that most of who I am today is because of her. I could go on and on about what a wonderful person she is and how much she means to me, but I think this picture just about sums it up:

Momma Beagle, at her 30th Wedding Anniversary Party

Sadly, Momma Beagle has not been able to participate in this last leg of the wedding planning. I mentioned briefly that I would be blogging for a wedding website, but she hasn’t had much time to follow it. She has dealt with illness most of her life. And although she was able to be present for some key wedding decisions in the beginning, health problems have prevented her from playing a more active role these last few months.

I made a point to discuss all the ideas I have in my head for this wedding with her. Sometimes she thinks I’m crazy for trying to accomplish so many details by hand, but I think she likes all the details just the same. It feels like she’s been absent, by no fault of her own, during the planning process, and “getting married” has been a bittersweet experience for me.

For a while, it was questionable as to whether or not my parents would be attending my wedding. A few weeks ago, Mr. Beagle and I started seriously discussing and mapping out an earlier ceremony so that my parents, more specifically my mom, would most certainly be present. This was so important to me and I wish I would have started planning earlier.

My absence here on Weddingbee for the last week and a half or so is due to some unfortunate circumstances. My mom will not be attending my wedding. After six months of a rigorous battle with leukemia for the second time, Momma Beagle passed away on my parents’ 32nd wedding anniversary.

For many reasons, I am heartbroken. She was so determined to overcome yet another health challenge and I don’t know anyone else who could be more hopeful and positive about his or her hardships than she was. I have lost a best friend, a mother, a shoulder to lean on… the list could go on and on. There are positives that have come from this whole experience: she is no longer suffering or in pain and as a family, Papa, Momma, sister Beagle, and I have become a stronger unit.

I am comforted that even though she won’t be physically present, she will be there in spirit and in my heart our wedding day and I am brainstorming ideas of how I will honor and remember her.

I have no question for everyone today, only this request: Tell your mom or your dad, your sibling or your friend, your fiance our your significant other just how much they mean to you. Momma Beagle and I were fortunate enough to share this with each other, and I only hope the same for you.

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151 Responses to “A Post for My Mom”

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Miss Snapdragon (message)  439 posts, Helper bee

We love you, Beagle - what a wondeful tribute to your mom, and I am going to tell my parents I love them today.

 
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Aggie

I’m so sorry for your loss. Momma Beagle would have been proud of this post and you.

 
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markyk
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markyk (message)  174 posts, Blushing bee

Oh, Miss Beagle. I am sorry about your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts.

 
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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Miss Beagle, thank you for this wonderful reminder to cherish the ones we love every day!

 
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krissybee (message)  1,038 posts, Bumble bee

my heart goes out to you miss Beagle & your family. thank you for such a thoughtful post and reminding us to truly appreciate those around us. (((hugs)))

 
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tessabella76 (message)  2,692 posts, Sugar bee

Hugs to you Miss Beagle. I can only imagine how hard it is to lose your mom so close to your wedding. I lost my mom over 5 years ago and I’ve had a few rough moments not having her here while I’m planning. Thanks for sharing your tribute to you mom with us.

 
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KellyV
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KellyV (message)  1,300 posts, Bumble bee

We love you Beagle ((HUGS)) This is a beautiful post, and reading what you wrote and encouraging us to be proactive in telling our loved ones shows me that you are already the woman your mother was. She would be so proud of you. xoxo

 
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mlkeysock (message)  449 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m happy that you were able to spend such quality time with your mom, and I’m sure she knew how much she was loved by you. She will most definitely be at your wedding in spirit. A very beautiful tribute to your mama.

 
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Kristyn

I can’t imagine what you’re going through, but you are right. She will always be with you, and will be smiling especially bright when you and Mr. Beagle exchange vows. Thank you for sharing your story with us - Bee hugs to you and your family!

 
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Miss Gloss (message)  1,057 posts, Bumble bee

Biggest Hugs - we are all here for you.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

I’m so sorry for your loss! Your mother was a beautiful, strong woman. *hugs*

 
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JoeyEmma

Awful news Miss Beagle, but softened by the thought that your mum is no longer suffering. As somebody who lost her Dad recently, I can understand some of what you must be thingking of about getting married without her. I am so glad my Dad and I discussed getting married (before we got engaged) and knowing that we had his blessing.

 
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StephMay1609 (message)  55 posts, Worker bee

I’m sorry for your loss too… *hugs*

 
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MplsChica

That was a beautiful tribute to your mom - she was very lucky to have such a wonderful daughter and you were lucky to have a best-friend-mom. I bet she is brimming with pride over the grace you’ve shown in dealing with this loss.

 
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ktdid23 (message)  483 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle - I am so sorry for your loss. I will make sure to tell my loved ones how special they are to me today!

 
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Chianti
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Chianti (message)  65 posts, Worker bee

Beagle, I am so sorry for your loss. ((HUGS)) I too know what it’s like to be planning/having a wedding without my mother (she also died from cancer many years ago, but that doesn’t make the hole any smaller). I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but things will get easier with time. And you’re right, she will be there in spirit with you when you marry later this year. And she’ll be very proud of you.

 
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kosstobe (message)  231 posts, Helper bee

So sorry for your loss. I’m sure you will find a beautiful way to honor your mom at your wedding.

 
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amysue (message)  1,499 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle, you brought tears to my eyes. My heart really hurts for you. Thank you for reminding us all of how important it is to share our feelings with one another.

 
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Mrs. Deviled Egg (message)  894 posts, Busy bee

So sorry for your loss. I admire the strength you are showing in this situation and through this post.

 
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MissCamera (message)  671 posts, Busy bee

I’m so glad you were able to let your mother know how much she meant to you. Most people never get to do that or dont think to until its too late and they go on regretting that (I wish I had gotten to see my grandma one last time). Thank you so much for sharing with us.

 
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Mrs. Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

Beagle, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your mom was both beautiful and courageous. Your post brought tears to my eyes. We are definitely keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  765 posts, Busy bee

Aww, Beagle, thinking of you and your family! But I know your mom will be right there with you in spirit on your wedding day. Hugs!

 
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Miss Marshmallow (message)  189 posts, Blushing bee

I am so sorry.

 
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Jessie516 (message)  4,039 posts, Honey bee

I’m so sorry for your loss! Your mother sounds like an amazing woman. My heart goes out to you and your family. In honor of your wonderful mom, I plan to spend the day letting my family and friends know just how much they meant to me. Hugs!

 
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Jenn R

Her beautiful spirit just radiates out of that picture. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 
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cfitz621 (message)  153 posts, Blushing bee

So sorry for your loss Ms. Beagle.

 
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Oh Miss Beagle, I am so sorry for your loss.

 
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smilez (message)  121 posts, Blushing bee

Beagle, I can’t even imagine what you are going through, I am so sorry for your family’s loss. Thank you for reminding us to show our appreciation towards our loved ones. I know your mom will be with you on your wedding day. Hugs!

 
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bridecat (message)  90 posts, Worker bee

Miss Beagle, I really feel for you..thank you for sharing this with everyone. I lost my mother to Ovarian Cancer just a few years ago (when I was 26). It was certainly hard losing her when I feel I was/am so young. I always wish I could have gotten to have more time with her, just when we could start being “adult” friends. When I got married last year, it was so hard not having her there, but at the same time, it felt like a celebration for her as well and it warmed my heart. Anyway, I know your mother will be looking down on you on your day and best of luck with everything…

 
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Miss Mary Jane (message)  1,520 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle: I’m so very sorry.

 
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Mrs. Candy Corn (message)  516 posts, Busy bee

*hugs* I’m so sorry. I am so thankful that I was able to have both parents present and can’t imagine what you are going through. She must have been so proud of you <3

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  1,093 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so sorry! Your post was such a beautiful tribute to your mother, tears are rolling down my face as we speak…I’m sure she’ll be there at your wedding in spirit and will be so happy for you…

 
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Mrs. Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

*big bee hugs* What a beautiful post. I know that she will be looking down and smiling on your wedding day. Now I am going to to go call my family.

 
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Miss Beagle,
My deepest sympathy’s to you and the Beagle family. This is a beautiful tribute to your mother who is always with you. thank you for reminding us all to count our blessings in life.

 
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Emilydll (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

Big hugs to you Miss Beagle. That was an incredible tribute post to your mother. No doubt she’s smiling down on you.

 
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Mrs. Margarita (message)  369 posts, Helper bee

So sorry for you loss. what a beautiful tribute.

 
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lkbphmd (message)  185 posts, Blushing bee

What a touching post about your mother- I’m sitting at my desk with tears in my eyes. My sympathy to you and your family. May you feel her presence not only on your wedding day, but the many years that follow.

 
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I’m so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

 
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acloyd1227 (message)  42 posts, Newbee

You are such a strong woman to post this incredibly personal and intimate blog. You inspire us to cherish the family we have and remember the family we have lost. I have no doubt your mother had a hand in your strength. Thank you for this beautiful post and sharing this moment in your life with us. May God bless you and your family.

 
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purpleHaze79 (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

My heart goes out to you, Miss Beagle!! This hits a chord with me… My father passed away last October and won’t be able to walk me down the aisle. And I feel the same way that you do about your mom. I also take comfort in the fact that he may not be here physically but he is always here in spirit, present in my heart always. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. HUGE HUGS.

 
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Miss Apple Cider (message)  215 posts, Helper bee

With tears streaming down my face at work I am writing to let you know I am thinking of you and your family.

 
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jesstagirl (message)  487 posts, Helper bee

I am so sorry for your loss, Miss Beagle. I’ve spent the past several years raising thousands of dollars for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and it absolutely breaks my heart when someone passes from it. I can only hope that you can find comfort in the situation some way. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

 
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LovestheBear (message)  875 posts, Busy bee

My deepest sympathy to you and your family Miss Beagle. Big hugs out to you. Thank you for such a beautiful reminder. I know Momma Beagle will be with you on your wedding day and beyond.

 
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bree72 (message)  368 posts, Helper bee

Oh, Miss Beagle, I am so very sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine, and my heart really goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts today, and I hope you find some peace in knowing that she really will be with you on your wedding day, and every day. You are so lucky to have had such a wonderful mother!

 
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Mrs. Toucan (message)  984 posts, Busy bee

i am so sorry for your loss.

 
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Mrs. Sushi (message)  970 posts, Busy bee

Oh Miss Beagle, I am sooo sorry for your lose.
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::hugs::

 
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KatieLynn (message)  35 posts, Newbee

I am so sorry for your loss, Miss Beagle. Your mom sounds like an amazing woman!

 
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MrsSl82be (message)  1,472 posts, Bumble bee

Aww Beagle, words can’t begin to express how I feel for you right now. Your mom was a wonderful person and I’m so glad you were fortunate to have the kind of relationship you had with her. ((((BIG HUGS))))

 
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Miss Snowflake (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

(((HUGS)))

 
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Miss Lamb (message)  479 posts, Helper bee

Oh Miss Beagle! What a lovely post to commemorate your relationship. Thoughts, prayers, and hugs to you.

 
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Catalina

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for reminding us to cherish our family and I admire your strength.

 
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Miss Swan (message)  387 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle,
I’m sending you a hug. Thank you for sharing with us. I am thinking of you and your family.

 
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Mrs. Pinot Noir (message)  772 posts, Busy bee

What an amazing mom! She was beautiful!

 
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Mitla (message)  350 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry! I know this is horrible for you. Thank you so much for sharing this loving tribute to your mom.

 
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BucknellBride (message)  85 posts, Worker bee

I am so so sorry for your loss, Miss Beagle. ::hugs::

 
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august15bride (message)  1,378 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle: I am so sorry for your loss, but so amazed by what a beautiful, wonderful mother she was. Thank you for the reminder to tell our loved ones how much they mean to us.

 
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Rachel

Miss Beagle - many hugs and sympathies to you! I feel like I know EXACTLY how you feel - my mother, who was my rock, passed away on Dec. 22, 2008, less than 4 months before my Apr. 18, 2009 wedding, from lung cancer. Her participation also tapered on the wedding activities, and we tried to move the wedding to New Years so she could make it, but we didn’t move fast enough. The following months have been the toughest of my life.
Rest assured that you WILL feel her presence on your big day. And other days, too. You can do this, and you will make it. We’re all here for you.

 
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(lia)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last month after a long illness, too. I’m sure you have the same mix of emotions- dispair and longing, but also relief that she is no longer in pain. I know it will be hard to plan for not only your wedding, but life without her. Still, I think it’s beautiful that you’ll be able to honor her with all your crafty details.

Take your time. Don’t feel like you have to “get on with life”. My mantra this past month has been “The only way out is through”. Feel the pain, mourn your loss, remember happy times and know she’s with you in a new way now. You’re in my prayers.

 
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Miss Star (message)  1,288 posts, Bumble bee

Oh, Miss Beagle, I feel for you. She will be there on your big day, of course, there’s no question in that. And how special that at least she was able to help you with some wedding plans.

What a beautiful picture, too :)

 
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lavenderpug (message)  275 posts, Helper bee

i am so sorry, miss beagle. that is truly heartbreaking. i have every confidence that your mother is immensely proud of you and touched by your love for her.

 
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Tampamom (message)  99 posts, Worker bee

As a mom, I must say your blog entry is just the ultimate gift you can give your mother’s memory.
Sharing what a wonderful person she was, how you miss her and what an influence she had on your life is the best tribute ANY mother would want.
We find our identity through our children~~

I hope that anyone that has not been on the best terms with their mom or has not spoken to her in a few days to give her a call in Mama Beagle’s Memory and that wonderful angel sitting in heaven will smile down upon us all. A living tribute to her!

May your day be filled with the memories of a loving mother, who will smile upon you for the rest of your young life.

Thank you for the beautiful morning read. May y

 
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Mrs. Yorkie (message)  1,015 posts, Bumble bee

What a beautiful post. I admire your strength and grace, Miss Beagle, and will definitely be calling loved ones today. I am praying for you and your family.

 
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jgsg (message)  41 posts, Newbee

I’m so very, very sorry for your loss. My mom’s been gone seven years but I felt her loss very strongly at my wedding. My heart goes out to you, Miss Beagle…

 
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D.Marie
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D.Marie (message)  1,378 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle Im terribly sorry. I had a gut feeling when I started to read the post and saw the beautiful picture of your mother that something was wrong. I will tell my mother that I love her and although we sometimes disagree that I will always love her. And I love everyone that holds my heart close to them and I hold their heart close to me.

 
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finallytowed (message)  28 posts, Newbee

Thank you so much for your inspiring read this morning. Your mother is truly an angel & will be looking down on you on your wedding day with joy and love. I am grateful to hear of your wonderful relationship with her, a lot of ladies don’t have that with their mothers & this is a wonderful example of how to appreciate & not take for granted the gift our mothers are!
My thoughts & prayers are with you as you cope with your loss…so sorry you are dealing with such sadness!

 
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SanDiegoAli
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SanDiegoAli (message)  937 posts, Busy bee

Oh Miss Beagle, I’m so very sorry for your loss. Huge (((hugs))) to you and your family. Even though I didn’t know her and I don’t know you, I can say without a doubt Mama Beagle was proud to call you her daughter.

 
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Miss D'orsay (message)  1,293 posts, Bumble bee

Beagle, I’m so very sorry for you and your family. What a beautiful and moving tribute to your mother, we’re always here for you Beagle!

 
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Essa (message)  15 posts, Newbee

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs your way!

 
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Mrs. Perfume (message)  1,640 posts, Bumble bee

Oh, Miss Beagle, you are so strong. And it’s obvious how much you and your mom love each other.

 
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ggsb (message)  842 posts, Busy bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so sorry for your loss. From your beautifully written words I can see your mom was beautiful inside and out. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

 
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Annui (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry.

 
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Jenniphyr
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Jenniphyr (message)  1,397 posts, Bumble bee

I am so, so sorry for your loss. *HUGS* She will be there in spirit on your wedding day, though, and I’m sure that will be as proud as a mother can be.

 
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soontobepizzuti (message)  12 posts, Newbee

Miss Beagle, I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how hard it is to lose your mother, and will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

 
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Miss Beagle, my heart goes out to you and your family. I am so truly sorry.

 
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,354 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so so sorry for you loss.

 
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Amber1279 (message)  316 posts, Helper bee

I am so sorry Miss Beagle. My mom as well has health battles, I can’t imagine losing her right before the wedding. Hugs to you!!

 
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AnamCara (message)  326 posts, Helper bee

I am so very sorry for your loss. I am sure your mom wishes she could hold your hand on your wedding day but she will for sure be holding your heart. Hugs from Dublin…

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@bridecat: I think you described how I feel perfectly. We were making that transition from parent/child to friends. I am also 26 and it also feels like I’m too young to lose my mom. Although no one will ever take her place, I am lucky to have a wonderful father, several supportive Aunts, and great FMIL. Thank you for sharing your story.

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

Thank you all for your kind words. This is a rough time for my family and me, but I think the worse part has past and we can start healing now.

 
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Miss Mascara (message)  774 posts, Busy bee

Miss Beagle, you have me in tears at my desk. I am so sorry for your loss and I am amazed at your strength during this very hard time. What a beautiful tribute to your mother. We all love you!

 
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infamia (message)  150 posts, Blushing bee

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts!

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  3,348 posts, Sugar bee

Miss Beagle, thank you for sharing this very personal story with us. I know it must be so hard for you, especially when you hoped so much for her to be there on your wedding day. Thanks for the reminder to appreciate those who we still have in our lives. It’s so important, yet so easy to forget.

 
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fizicsGirl (message)  1,302 posts, Bumble bee

I am so very sorry for your loss.

 
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soon2beebride (message)  59 posts, Worker bee

My condolences goes out to you Miss Beagle. This post struck a nerve with me and I can’t seem to stop crying for you. I’m so sorry for your loss. If there’s anything I or we on weddingbee can do to help you through this please don’t hesistate to ask!

My prayers go to you and your family.

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@Rachel: I’m so sorry you’ve had to experience the loss of your mother also. At this moment, I feel peace with her passing, but I know that there will days ahead where the pain is going to come back. I think our wedding day will be one of those days. Thanks for sharing.

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@(lia): I am so sorry for your loss, lia. I know you can relate when I say that I have shed so many tears over the last few months that right now I have none left. It has been so hard watching her lose a battle to illness- I think it’s the worse thing anyone can ever go through. Thanks for sharing.

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@jesstagirl: You are an angel to all of the people suffering from those diseases. Thanks for your support.

 
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Mrs. Hot Cocoa (message)  1,720 posts, Bumble bee

What a beautiful post and a tribute to an undoubtedly wonderful woman!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

@JoeyEmma: That is wonderful that you were able to get your father’s blessing for your marriage before it was too late- I’m sure you will always cherish that memory.

 
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Mrs. Kitten (message)  705 posts, Busy bee

Miss Beagle, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this with us. Your attitude and wise words are truly inspirational.

 
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Oh, Miss B, I’m so sorry. I don’t know what I would do without my Mom. At my wedding day neither my hubby nor I had any grandparents present - all eight have passed on - but I looked around and was so glad that we each had a set of healthy, happy parents to share it with. I know your Mom will be watching you on your day. You’ll feel her there.

 
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Miss Joey (message)  829 posts, Busy bee

**bee hugs** I’m sorry for your loss.

 
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Mrs. DG (message)  4,234 posts, Honey bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so sorry that this happened. I can feel the love that you and your mom share, and I am absolutely sure that she will be with you, pain-free for every aspect of your wedding.

Hugs.

 
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DC Anna (message)  480 posts, Helper bee

My goodness. That just made me tear up. Miss Beagle, I am so so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. I just can’t even imagine.
Your strength is so wonderful though. Your mom must be so proud of you and, like the other posters have said, she’ll definitely be there with you.
So many hugs and prayers.

 
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Miss Burgundy (message)  907 posts, Busy bee

I am so sorry Miss Beagle. But, I know you are going to be just fine, and that momma Beagle WILL be at your wedding in spirit!

 
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MyPurpleWedding
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MyPurpleWedding (message)  217 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m struggling to hold back the tears as I sit at my desk at work. :( *hugs*

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,186 posts, Buzzing bee

I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mom. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now, so I am just going to say a prayer for you and your family.

 
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Mrs. Meatball (message)  613 posts, Busy bee

Girl, your mother is proudly looking down upon you, every single day. Each ray of sunshine, each drop of rain, is your mom’s love reaching out to touch you. You’ll never be without her spirit. I’m so sorry for your loss. *hugs*

 
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sarsk624 (message)  346 posts, Helper bee

I am so sorry. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. This was a beautiful tribute to her. She would be so proud of how you are handling this. Hugs

 
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Mrs. Cupcake
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Mrs. Cupcake (message)  1,169 posts, Bumble bee

So so sorry…. there are really no words to properly express just how much it hurts to see “one of our own” going through such a sad time. You and your family are in my thoughts.

 
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Miss Duckling (message)  1,349 posts, Bumble bee

Beagle, your words are so beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry for your loss, and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 
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Miss French Bulldog
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Miss French Bulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

Miss Beagle I am so so sorry. Your mother sounds likes she was an amazing and brave woman. Your post is a wonderful tribute to her and I know she must be smiling down on you :) Let us know it there is anything we can do. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,604 posts, Bumble bee

Miss Beagle, let it be a comfort to you that she is no longer suffering. We are all thinking of you and your family today and in the coming days.

 
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GretaB
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GretaB (message)  171 posts, Blushing bee

I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. She’ll be with you on your wedding day, I’m sure.

 
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Mrs. Bee
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,261 posts, Sugar bee

much love and bee hugs miss beagle. i’m sure your mom loved you very much as you loved her. we’ll be here to help you in any way you need during this tough time! we love you miss beagle!

 
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msashleymarie
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msashleymarie (message)  374 posts, Helper bee

You are so strong, Miss Beagle! I am so sorry and so glad that you had that amazing relationship with your mother! Hugs!

 
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Mrs. Penguin
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Mrs. Penguin (message)  2,149 posts, Buzzing bee

A wonderful tribute to a wondeful woman. Thank you for the reminder to love our loved ones. Big hugs, Miss B!

 
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Yach (message)  376 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your mom will certainly be with you in spirit - she knew you found happiness.

 
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Mrs. Glitter (message)  880 posts, Busy bee

I’m so sorry, Miss Beagle. Love and hugs to you during this very difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts. xo

 
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laurajane
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laurajane (message)  320 posts, Helper bee

So very, very sorry Miss Beagle. My heart is broken for you for your lost, but it is very clear how much love you had for one another and nothing can take that from you.

Hugs and thoughts with you!

 
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KateMW
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KateMW (message)  2,714 posts, Sugar bee

I am so sorry for you and your family. I know a bit what you’re going through, though I know you don’t really want to hear that. My MIL was diagnosed with leukemia 10 days after our daughter was born and died 9 months later. But every milestone in her life and our life I know she’s there watching over us. {{{}}} You will be in my thoughts over the next couple of months.

 
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spraguebride
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spraguebride (message)  352 posts, Helper bee

I am so sorry for you loss. There are no words ….I know…
I took your advice and just called my mom..while crying after reading this.

 
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SarahPtoWed (message)  13 posts, Newbee

Wow, this makes me cry for you. I am praying for your family.

 
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tbrooke
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tbrooke (message)  149 posts, Blushing bee

Miss Beagle… I am so sorry for your loss. *hugs* I lost my youngest sister almost two years ago… and losing someone that close, losing someone that has struggled with something for so long (my sister had a lifelong condition that ultimately led to her passing)… it’s terribly difficult. I can tell you though that no matter how much I wish my sister was still here, I know she’s watching down on me and will be there in spirit with me each and every day, including my wedding day. And, I know your mom will be there for you as well. <3 You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts.

 
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UrbanLeo
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UrbanLeo (message)  100 posts, Blushing bee

Miss Beagle,
Mama Beagle obviously raised you in her image, as your strength and kindness–even in the face of this very sad time–are shining through your words. I’m thinking of you today. Thank you for reminding us that love is really what brought all of us here.

 
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Mrs. Cookie (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

What a beautiful tribute to your mother. I am so sorry for you loss, Miss Beagle! Cancer takes those we love far too soon. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

 
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caryna (message)  25 posts, Newbee

Hugs to you and your family! I’m praying for you all!

 
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mklove
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mklove (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

I am so sorry for your loss. I am calling my parents right now! What a great tribute to your mom!

 
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kpenn

Miss Beagle - I am so sorry for your loss.
I dont know if you have all of your wedding jewelry picked out, but maybe you could wear your mother’s engagement or wedding ring the day of?

 
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Muffet
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Muffet (message)  106 posts, Blushing bee

I’m very sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. What a beautiful tribute you have posted here. Thinking of you during this difficult time.

 
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Miss Cola (message)  594 posts, Busy bee

I can’t imagine what you must be going through right now, but thank you very much for the touching post. **So many HUGS**

 
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Abbie

You certainly have my sympathy. Your post made me cry!

 
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sro

Love and hugs to you and your family. This is a beautiful post, thank you for sharing it.

 
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MissBookworm
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MissBookworm (message)  271 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle, your relationship with your mother is what every girl hopes for. I’m terribly sorry for your loss and hope you both may find peace through this rough time.

 
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cottoncandy (message)  62 posts, Worker bee

Our deepest sympathies go out to you Miss Beagle. Hugs and lots of prayers will go up for you and your family. I cannot imagine what the past few weeks have been like for you.

We’ve definitely missed you - your absence was felt. I hope that you’ll lean on the bees (even those of us who aren’t official) should you need anything. I’m local to austin, so just shout out if you need anything.

 
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BananaPants

I have a huge lump in my throat and my eyes are welling up in tears from your wonderful tribute to your mom. She will be with you at your wedding, and during all of life’s big moments. :) My mom lost her mom at the age of 15, and still to this day, she talks to her and updates her on things from time to time.

Sending lots of love to you and your family.

 
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FlipFlopBride
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FlipFlopBride (message)  1,305 posts, Bumble bee

Hugs for you Miss Beagle, and what a beautiful tribute to your mother. I’m sorry for your loss, we are all thinking about you.

 
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salex19
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salex19 (message)  162 posts, Blushing bee

I honored my mother’s memory (she died my senior year of college) by putting a picture of her on her wedding day in a locket attached to my bouquet. It was very special to have it that day.

 
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carrie.a.s.b
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carrie.a.s.b (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle, I’m so sorry about the loss of your mom. Your post really reflects how much your family loves each other.

 
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MeredithN
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MeredithN (message)  110 posts, Blushing bee

My heart goes out to you, Miss Beagle. Thank you so much for sharing; your mother is a beautiful, elegant woman–I know she is so proud of you and will be smiling brightly on your wedding day.

 
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Meggs604 (message)  114 posts, Blushing bee

I’m so sorry Miss Beagle. I can’t imagine what you and your family must be going through. Your mom was a beautiful, strong woman. I’ll be thinking about you.

 
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Nautilus
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Nautilus (message)  13 posts, Newbee

I am so sorry for your loss.

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

thank you for sharing. we are thinking of you and your family!

 
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JeanL1984
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JeanL1984 (message)  340 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle - just sending lots of *hugs* and good thoughts your way.

 
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LoriLori
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LoriLori (message)  237 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. ((((Miss Beagle & family))))

 
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beaninca
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beaninca (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

my deepest sympathies to you, and your family, my goodness you are so strong to write this but also know it is okay to not be strong too. ((hugs))

 
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Miss Labrador (message)  1,325 posts, Bumble bee

We love you Beagle. I’m so glad the short time you had with your mother was spent knowing you both love each other. I will I could eloquently say something that will ease your pain (having lost a parent myself), but all I can say is that time will bring healing. Hold on to those great memories you have of her. And I know your ways of honoring her at the wedding will be truly special.

 
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adias.angel
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adias.angel (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

I understand what your going through, I lost my dad three years ago to cancer. I know the best things I can for you is this -> *hug*

 
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ms boardwalk (message)  349 posts, Helper bee

=( I’m sorry for you loss but I’m glad she got to meet Mr. Beagle and know you will be taken care of.

 
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MarryingtheNavy
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MarryingtheNavy (message)  228 posts, Helper bee

Miss Beagle, I am truly sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like a remarkable woman, and she will certainly be missed. It’s comforting to hear that you have many wonderful family and friends supporting you right now. Hugs :)

 
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WorstTwinEver15
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WorstTwinEver15 (message)  760 posts, Busy bee

I’m very sorry about your loss and feel your mom will definitely be there in spirit. Keep your head up!

 
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Miss E from NYC
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Miss E from NYC (message)  69 posts, Worker bee

I’m sorry for your loss..sending many hugs your way!

 
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Sharon

May you feel her with you along every step and know of her still-present love! I’m so sorry for your loss.

 
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Watercooler » Weddingbee » The Wedding Blog

[...] A Post For My Mom by Miss Beagle [...]

 
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Sulli301
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Sulli301 (message)  1,111 posts, Bumble bee

That was a very beautiful tribute to your mother. She will be with you in spirit on your very special day.
My good wishes are with you :)

 
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Mrs. Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

Oh, honey, somehow I missed this, and my heart aches for you. It was a very sweet and honorable post, and I’m proud of you.

Your mom will be with you every moment of your wedding day and the rest of your life, because she’ll be in your head and your heart, and never will you have to deal with the less-perfect parts of her in real life. Small consolation, I know, but it’s something.

 
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poodle
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poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

I am so very sorry about your lost, this is an awesome tribute. She sound like an amazing woman, I’m sure she’ll be there with you.

Tons of hugs to you, your doing an incredible job! :)

 
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teeleaf22
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teeleaf22 (message)  288 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 
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carablossom (message)  36 posts, Newbee

And I just wanted to save this one for last: I’m so sorry, hon. Your post is a beautiful tribute to her, and I think it’s beautiful of you to charge all of us with sharing your/our love with our loved ones. Warm thoughts & Best wishes!

 
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Mandy

I was very touched by your tribute to your Mom. I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom 1 month after I got engaged. In the time she spent in the hospital, I had considered having the wedding at the hospital just so she could have been there. Unfortunately, there was less time than I expected. After her death, I didn’t feel like planning a wedding especially without her help.

I think one of the most difficult things I’ve done in my life was going to pick out a wedding dress alone. The sales person told me I needed to bring my Mom back to help me decide. I cried the whole way home and did not purchase a dress because I was hurt that she wasn’t there.

I know what you’re going through and it’s not easy. My wedding day was not a joyous day. It was tough not having her there, not having her to help me get ready, decorate, or see me reach a milestone. The pictures all show a happy-face even though I fought back tears all day long.

Just know that I’m sure your Mom is as proud of you as my Mom was proud of me. You’ll make it thought it.

 
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eileen marie
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eileen marie (message)  374 posts, Helper bee

I am so very sorry, Miss Beagle. (I was on my honeymoon when this posted.) What a difficult time this must be for you. My mother died the month before I became engaged (my father passed away when I was 15), and my best friend’s son died 2 days after the wedding, so she was unable to attend. Time heals all wounds (I would know), but stay strong-the first year or so is the toughest. I admire your courage in pushing through this heart-wrenching experience. I wish you the best on your big day and am so sorry your mother can’t share it with you.

 


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