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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.
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A Day of Good & Evil: Part 2

August 21st, 2009 @ 4:21 pm by Mrs. Stiletto

Remember my lovely Part 1 where Sister Stiletto threw me a fabulous bridal shower? Well, once it was over, we skedaddled out of there, drove into the city to our suite at the Hard Rock Hotel, changed, and then hopped into a cab on our way to a mysterious destination.

Here we are, on our way…

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Cab

When we walked into Circuit Night Club, where they have, err, review shows, I was quite hesitant and definitely had not had enough to drink at the point in the day.

See Exhibit A:

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Ughpict  The ladies tried to get me in the spirit by bedazzling me with a sparkly tiara (which did not illicit a better reaction):

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Tiara

A bachelorette sash did indeed bring out a little excitement:

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Sash1

Although, I needed help in figuring out how to put it on:

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Sash2  And, of course, don’t forget the veil:

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Veil02  Oh, and did I mention I was lucky enough to get my own special straw? That little extra accessory went with me EVERYWHERE that evening:

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Straw

Here we all are waiting for the show to begin. I was still quite apprehensive and not excited about the fact that my seat was right in front of the stage. Fortunately, there were 4 or 5 other bachelorettes there that evening, so the torture was distributed evenly amongst the soon-to-be-wed ladies.

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Table03

I learned a lot that evening, so below are my tips and tricks for navigating through situations like these.

#1 For any of you first timers like me, the gentlemen give you instructions on what to do when they come up to you. Notice him guiding my hands. Why, you ask? Because otherwise I would have crawled under the table to get away. When in doubt, act confused and uncomfortable, but also understand that any feeling of personal space will be completely thrown out the window.

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Man1

#2 Take the term “dollared up” and live it, learn it, love it. In establishments like these, one must be “dollared” or the gentlemen are less gentlemanly and tell you that you need to be dollared up and then walk away in a teeny bit of a huff. Which was fine by me, but my ladies insisted that I be dollared up throughout the evening.

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Dollars

#3 It may look uncomfortable keeping those dollars in place, but don’t worry. When the gentlemen come by, they perform magic tricks.

The dollars are going…

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Disappe

going…

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Disappe01

gone…!

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Disappe02

#4 Surround yourself by all of your best girls and a good time will be had by all.

Here we are by the end of the evening (minus a couple)… in fact, this is the only picture I have of all of my bridesmaids and myself all together!

A Day of Good and Evil: Part 2 :  wedding bachelorette party Endstr  I had so much fun out with all of my ladies! I’d been concerned that I would drink too much and have a rough night, but I did fabulous and ended up being one of the least hung over out of the group! (Of course, I did pass out by about 1:00AM or so, hee.) And, once I got used to all of my added “accessories”, I was rockin’ that veil and tiara like there was no tomorrow.

What new things did you learn at your bachelorette party?

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25 Responses to “A Day of Good & Evil: Part 2”

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Miss Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh Stiletto, I would have been bright. freaking. red. if I had been in your position!

 
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Miss Snapdragon (message)  721 posts, Busy bee

The look on your face is priceless!! I’m glad you had fun!

 
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FutureFisher
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FutureFisher (message)  422 posts, Helper bee

I love your face in the photos where he’s taking the dollars! You look mortified!

I really wanted to do something like this but now I dunno LOL! Maybe after a few strong drinks..

 
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pren79
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pren79 (message)  664 posts, Busy bee

Looks like an awesome partay! Kudos to you for posting those pics! I would not have the guts to do so.

 
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TravelBug
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TravelBug (message)  68 posts, Worker bee

Wow, I had no idea of the um, nature of the club at the Hard Rock Hotel!

For a good friend’s bachelorette party, she and her BMs (myself included) went to Vegas… let’s just say that she avoided all bachelorette accessory items and refused any attention! We were in the very back row of our show. Not going to lie, I was ok with that as I was a little nervous as well… you seemed to do pretty well though in the end!

 
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arobb81 (message)  292 posts, Helper bee

Hahaha, noooo thanks for me, I have already flat out refused any semblance of a bachelorette party. My personal space is not a suggestion- more like a concrete wall.

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  919 posts, Busy bee

@FutureFisher: Honestly, I’m the most self conscious, reserved person out there…and I had a blast by the end!

@TravelBug: We actually weren’t at the Hard Rock - we had a suite there for the evening, but the “show” was up in the Lakeview/Boystown area of Chicago :)

 
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nicrob007
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nicrob007 (message)  119 posts, Blushing bee

You are definitely a braver woman than I am! Glad you had such an awesome time!

 
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Laurlyn
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Laurlyn (message)  64 posts, Worker bee

That is hilarious! I would never be able to have a strange man invade my personal space like that, lol. You are a good sport!!

 
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Lish
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Lish (message)  193 posts, Blushing bee

I’d have never made it through that - you really are a good sport.
I’d have stuck the tiara on my best friend’s head and made her pretend to be me. I’m such a boring chicken though!

 
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mary-alice-me
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mary-alice-me (message)  1,864 posts, Buzzing bee

So funny to get all these photos! I can’t really tell what that one guy is wearing.

 
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Miss Trail Mix (message)  6,484 posts, Bee Keeper

Looks like fun!!! I’m going to a bachelorette party tomorrow night and I got her the exact same veil as you….plus a few other accessories adorned with (ahem) male paraphenalia…look out boston! :)

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  3,105 posts, Sugar bee

Oh, this are hilarious!!!! The first shot of you with the “entertainer” are priceless.

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

lol, your expressions are priceless!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

Oh geez, your veil is hilarious.

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  5,821 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh so exciting! These pictures are hilarious! Love it.

 
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Miss Labrador
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Miss Labrador (message)  1,822 posts, Buzzing bee

AHAHAAHAHAHAAAAAAAA!!!! These are freakin’ HILARIOUS! Now THAT’S a bachelorette party! ;)

Btw, love all the black dresses!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

you’re such a great sport! i learnt… new beauty remedies at my shower :P

we did a ‘beautifying’ sleepover with face masks and pedicures and skin treatments! :D

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  5,480 posts, Bee Keeper

What a crazy party! I’m glad you had fun. Your gals look great in those LBDs!

 
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jaymugirly
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jaymugirly (message)  112 posts, Blushing bee

Those pictures are awesome! I would have the same facial expressions. Well played by your bridesmaids!

 
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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.

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