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Miss Onion, NYC/Burlington, VT Age and Occupation: 27, PR & Marketing and Jazz Singer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Data Analyst Engagement Date: April 2, 2006 Wedding Date: September 2007 Blogging Since: July 11, 2007 Venue: Restaurant in Burlington About Me: I didn't think I'd be "that girl," but I am having so much fun planning our wedding (mostly by myself). I'm a PR and Marketing Director for a major jazz festival and camp by day, and by night, a romantic jazz singer and bride-to-be! I hope all my research can help other brides in their planning.
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No, no — I’m not pregnant (although I’m thrilled with all the baby bees around here). In November of 2007 (just two months after we got married) I posted about searching for our first home. I was sure I didn’t want to live anywhere but Manhattan, just like I was sure I wanted lace on my wedding dress. Things don’t always work out how you first envisioned them… they usually end up even better! We bought our first apartment in Brooklyn and my wedding dress had no lace in sight!

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We made an offer at the end of last summer and closed in mid-October, 2008, which was a year after we first starting seriously looking. We learned so much in that year about the real estate market in NYC, its huge potential swings (Wall Street went nuts about the time we closed), what we wanted, and the joy of building a home together (even if it’s only 768 square feet)! We have spent the last year “nesting” and saving up to renovate our kitchen (it’s a pre-war building), which we hope to be ready to do about this time next year.

Here’s a quick look inside.

Living room/entry as it was when we found the apartment:

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Painting in progress and railings removed:

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All painted, windows from Vermont Salvage installed and curtains up:

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With a lot of hard work:

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You realize… you’re never “done”. But after seven months, we finally felt ready enough to have a housewarming party.

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It felt like the next big step in our lives and we’re proud to have made an investment in our future and our life now.

Did you own an apartment or house before you got married? Is it something you plan to do together after your wedding? I’m sure this is on a lot of your minds as the real estate market has dipped in the last year and perhaps this made it possible for you to consider buying. I’d love to hear about your search, purchase and renovation/decorating of your new place.

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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

I love the colors and style of your place. Old buildings make me happy, so much more detail. We’re sort of looking, but it’s still pretty difficult out here in LA.

 
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Miss Bear Cub
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Miss Bear Cub (message)  1,566 posts, Bumble bee

your place is so adorable!! :)

 
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lalalandTN
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lalalandTN (message)  131 posts, Blushing bee

Major accomplishment! I love it, just perfect!

 
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bwaychick (message)  124 posts, Blushing bee

Your apartment looks amazing! I am an NYC bee, so it also looks HUGE to me! Congrats.

 
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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,829 posts, Buzzing bee

your place looks great. love the paint job! we’re hoping to buy sometime in the year after we get married.

 
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Miss Cloud (message)  802 posts, Busy bee

so cute, great job at the renovations! we rent now but mr. cloud and I both are already pretty hooked on hgtv and look forward to buying hopefully soon after the wedding!

 
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caitlanc
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caitlanc (message)  2,099 posts, Buzzing bee

Your place looks fantastic! I’m eager to buy a house (and I’ve already fallen in love with one) but we’re not sure that we’ll be staying in one place long enough to justify locking ourselves in so right now I’m just living vicariously!

 
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Kat

So pretty–love the colors and the wall hanging above your sofa!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

i love your decorating style!

 
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jmc
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jmc (message)  882 posts, Busy bee

It looks so great. I am jealous of your grown-up-home! Congratulations!

 
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CT

I love love love the frame with the hooks. I’m looking for something like that for our place. Do you mind sharing where you got it? Congrats!

 
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Irishker03
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Irishker03 (message)  571 posts, Busy bee

oooh. your place looks so great! you totally make me want to buy!

 
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sambasoo79

So fun! Anyone know of any good DIY home improvement blogs similar to Weddingbee? I’d love something like that : )

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  5,480 posts, Bee Keeper

That looks great. I Love the blue/green paint color you used–where is it from?

 
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Miss Mouse (message)  5,821 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow, I love your apartment. You guys did a great job decorating! We bought a house last October, almost a year before our wedding date, right before the market crashed. A week later and who knows if our loan would’ve gone through.

 
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,386 posts, Sugar bee

Congrats!, Your place looks awesome! and I agree you guys did a great job decorating :)

 
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Amy

Congrats! Our townhouse is the reason that my e ring to a little longer the get put on my finger. We were house shopping this year- before getting engaged and found a great townhouse north of Seattle. Our low offer was accepted! Yay! But with closing and my FH moving in, it took until just days ago for us to get engaged. I’ll move in after the wedding! But it kinda feels like we did things backwards.

 
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Miss Shoe
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Miss Shoe (message)  105 posts, Blushing bee

What a fantastic job you did! I love the way those windows look; it’s such an improvement over the railings.
We’ve decided to buy a house in the next year; just as we plan the wedding. It seems to make the most sense, financially, but strategically I’m not so sure it’s such a terrific idea.

 
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Miss Cowboy Boot (message)  434 posts, Helper bee

Congrats!! Brooklyn is a great investment. We just moved from Brooklyn Heights out to dusty New Mexico. We loved it there, though. The Promenade, Joya (great Thai food for cheap, but fun atmosphere), the Brooklyn Museum and the farmer’s market!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  5,590 posts, Bee Keeper

Congratulations Onion! You did a great job decorating! We are renting a house and broke newlyweds so our decorating is sort of staying at a minimum for now..but we’re looking forward to taking the plunge in 2-3 years! I hope we do as great a job of decocrating our place!

 
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Miss Onion, NYC/Burlington, VT Age and Occupation: 27, PR & Marketing and Jazz Singer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Data Analyst Engagement Date: April 2, 2006 Wedding Date: September 2007 Blogging Since: July 11, 2007 Venue: Restaurant in Burlington About Me: I didn't think I'd be "that girl," but I am having so much fun planning our wedding (mostly by myself). I'm a PR and Marketing Director for a major jazz festival and camp by day, and by night, a romantic jazz singer and bride-to-be! I hope all my research can help other brides in their planning.

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