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Mrs. Margarita, Boston/Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 26, Healthcare Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Doctor Engagement Date: March 21, 2007 Wedding Date: August, 2008 Blogging Since: June 18, 2008 Venue: Saddlerock Ranch About Me: I grew up in Southern California, moved to Boston for college, New York for grad school, back to Boston and now I travel the northeast every week for work. When I'm not on the go, I love to read, draw, shop, sleep and spend quality time with my fiancé, family and friends. We're long-distance planning for our "big fat brown wedding" in California and are excited to unite our Sri Lankan and Indian cultures and Buddhist and Hindu religions in a unique and modern way.
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So the portraits had been taken and it was time to start. At least for everyone besides me and my bridesmaids. We sat waiting in the house/changing area while everyone got to see the groom’s procession on the elephant. I’m so sad I never even saw the elephant in real life and only through pictures. I heard she was very sweet and well mannered, though.

Here is Tai the sweet 8,800 pound elephant from Have Trunk Will Travel.

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Isn’t she pretty?


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And one of my favorite pictures of Mr. Margarita from the wedding. His eyes are buggin’ out!

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Our ring bearer clearly was not pleased at the idea of getting on this elephant, either.

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Thankfully, they both got over their fears and up they went. Apparently our ring bearer kept saying the entire time, “Daddy look at me!” over and over again.

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Things got a very delayed at this point because they were waiting on the dhol players who never showed up. Our awesome DJ, Parag, saved the day and busted out his portable speaker system to get the party started.

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The groom’s side arrived to the wedding singing and dancing:

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Meanwhile, my family was nervously waiting to greet them. This is an Indian tradition, so they were worried about messing everything up.

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My gorgeous sister in law reacting to Mr. Margarita on the elephant

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My mom greets Mr. Margarita:

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You’ll see a lot of feeding during the wedding.

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Then the garlanding process started. If you’d like to read more about the background/significance of all of this, you can visit my posts (1, 2, 3) on our Buddhist/Hindu ceremony.

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Our dads:

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My oldest brother and Mr. Marg’s grandfather:

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Our grandmothers:

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Our moms:

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Our brothers:

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After all the exchanging of garlands and some mingling, the boys made their way to the mandap/poruwa. Don’t they look so handsome and rugged here?

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Then the Hindu priest, Mr. Margarita, and his parents began the Ganesh puja while I got ready to make my entrance.

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This whole process took about 1.5 hours when it was supposed to last a maximum of 1 hour. I was a ball of nerves waiting because I had absolutely no idea what was going on and I couldn’t see anything from the changing area. My bridesmaids tried to keep me calm while my flower girls were playing and eating all that candy I put in their little suitcases.

Me and my three nieces hanging out:

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*picture taken by a friend

Here’s my baby niece looking all cute and mischievous.

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Next up, I walk up the aisle, and the ceremony (finally!).

All pictures unless otherwise noted by the always fabulous Dina Douglass of Andrena Photography.

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40 Responses to “Our Big Fat Brown Wedding: Here Comes the Groom”

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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

WOW! Mr Frenchie is still really jealous of Mr Margaritas elephant by the way :)
P.S. I will tell you this on every recap, YOU ARE GORGEOUS!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

Wow, it always amazes me how much is going! I can’t believe everyone can keep track of where they’re supposed to be and what they’re supposed to be doing!

 
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jduck84
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jduck84 (message)  351 posts, Helper bee

So beautiful! Everyone looks incredibly happy and gorgeous. Especially you!

 
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Miss Dew Drop (message)  250 posts, Helper bee

So Mr. DD is really jealous of the elephant too. :) And I love the pic of you with your nieces! They’re just too cute!!

 
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Miss Cloud (message)  587 posts, Busy bee

How can I convince the catholic church we need an elephant!?! I love it all and you were all looking so gorgeous!

 
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His Barista
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His Barista (message)  1,844 posts, Buzzing bee

Wow! The elephant is awesome!!!

 
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crebre80
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crebre80 (message)  4,824 posts, Honey bee

BEAUTIFUL!!!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,656 posts, Sugar bee

WOW! look at the celebration! now that’s a wedding! my sister is jealous of the elephant as well. haha.

 
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krissycake
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krissycake (message)  2,091 posts, Buzzing bee

These photos are beyond gorgeous! So colorful and full of life…feels like I was there =D Thanks so much for sharin!!

 
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Mrs. Toucan
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Mrs. Toucan (message)  984 posts, Busy bee

i want an elephant! Everything is so gorgeous (especially you!).!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,335 posts, Bumble bee

That definitely looks like the way to celebrate. So full of life! All gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

That elephant is pure AWESOMENESS. I so wish I could have been there- it looks like one amazing party.

 
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oKelsio
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oKelsio (message)  40 posts, Newbee

I am so jealous of your wedding! I wish my heritage had some wonderful traditions like the groom riding in on an elephant. =) And your nieces are so cute!

 
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carrie.a.s.b
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carrie.a.s.b (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

Your wedding is SO stunning!

 
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vintage2010 (message)  1,026 posts, Bumble bee

I love the procession of the Groom. They all look so excited and happy for the two of you! Can’t wait to see your entrance :)

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  990 posts, Busy bee

Your pictures are amazing and your wedding is sooo neat!!! It’s been awesome finding out about all the cultural differences in your wedding. I LOOOVE elephants and I think it is so awesome that your hubby got to ride in on one.

 
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PrettyKitty
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PrettyKitty (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

The picture of you and your nieces is beautiful-you are glowing in that picture. Love the elephant awesomeness and the garlands are so incredibly lush. Love them!

 
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Sulli301
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Sulli301 (message)  1,118 posts, Bumble bee

Amazing!
I love the pictures :)

 
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Has anyone ever told you that your two families, different geographies aside, look astonishingly similar?

 
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thecolorteale
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thecolorteale (message)  636 posts, Busy bee

Wow Mr. Margarita’s family seems to know how to party haha! Everyone looks genuinely thrilled in both families. Amazing. :) :)

 
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Mrs. Swan (message)  387 posts, Helper bee

As usual, so interesting, vibrant and full of tradition!

 
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MissEdamame
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MissEdamame (message)  335 posts, Helper bee

How beautiful! You made an absolutely gorgeous bride, and I can’t get over the great pictures of your families. Can’t wait to see more! :-)

 
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lit_geek26
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lit_geek26 (message)  138 posts, Blushing bee

Ahhh that elephant!!! So awesome!! What a gorgeous family you have! It looked like you were all having the best time.

 
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MissAsB
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MissAsB (message)  1,341 posts, Bumble bee

What a beautiful family you both have! Love the elephant!

 
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PeachandPearl
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PeachandPearl (message)  187 posts, Blushing bee

I LOVE the idea of the families dancing and singing their way into the ceremony! How happy and festive!

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my gosh! Your wedding looks like so much fun! Elephants! Bright colors! Dancing and feeding! I need to find me an Indian wedding to go to! And you are so GORGEOUS!

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

Elephants on your wedding!? I say it can get much better than that!

You are glowing! and everything else looks perfect!

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

you have the most badass wedding ever. ever. ever.

i heart the elephant and ringbearer!

 
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Miss Beagle (message)  1,053 posts, Bumble bee

Your wedding looks like it was soooooo much fun! I love how colorful everything is and the elephant is over the top! Can’t wait to see more!

 
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DC Anna (message)  480 posts, Helper bee

What beautiful photos — everyone looks so happy. :)

 
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Mrs. Deviled Egg
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Mrs. Deviled Egg (message)  894 posts, Busy bee

That’s a pretty grand entrance for Mr. Marg! How freakin’ cool is it to have an elephant?!?! And, your nieces are so adorable! Can’t wait to see your entrance!

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  4,039 posts, Honey bee

Wow, what an amazing celebration. It looks like it would be so colorful and fun!

 
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Sage
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Sage (message)  398 posts, Helper bee

The picture of the moms hugging is the BEST!!! That really says it all :)

 
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Miss Star (message)  1,291 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, this looks like such an amazingly good time. And the elephant is TOTALLY bangin’!!

 
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teeleaf22
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teeleaf22 (message)  288 posts, Helper bee

wow.. such beautiful color! you look beautiful! everyone looks soo happy.. looks like such a fun time!

 
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nice photos congrats!

 
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MexicanGirl
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MexicanGirl (message)  644 posts, Busy bee

amazing!!! your wedding looks like so much fun and gorgeous :D

 
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KatieBug3017
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KatieBug3017 (message)  1,434 posts, Bumble bee

Wow, your wedding looks absolutely amazing! This is probably one of the most exciting and fun filled set of pictures I’ve ever seen! And an elephant?!?! Oh my gosh…so awesome…

 
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lcneiny
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lcneiny (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

You look gorgeous!! And I love the picture of the moms, they look like long-time best friends!

 
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doublemint921 (message)  489 posts, Helper bee

This looks like so much fun!!! You look stunning as well :)

 


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