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Mrs. Margarita, Boston/Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 26, Healthcare Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Doctor Engagement Date: March 21, 2007 Wedding Date: August, 2008 Blogging Since: June 18, 2008 Venue: Saddlerock Ranch About Me: I grew up in Southern California, moved to Boston for college, New York for grad school, back to Boston and now I travel the northeast every week for work. When I'm not on the go, I love to read, draw, shop, sleep and spend quality time with my fiancé, family and friends. We're long-distance planning for our "big fat brown wedding" in California and are excited to unite our Sri Lankan and Indian cultures and Buddhist and Hindu religions in a unique and modern way.
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So the portraits had been taken and it was time to start. At least for everyone besides me and my bridesmaids. We sat waiting in the house/changing area while everyone got to see the groom’s procession on the elephant. I’m so sad I never even saw the elephant in real life and only through pictures. I heard she was very sweet and well mannered, though.

Here is Tai the sweet 8,800 pound elephant from Have Trunk Will Travel.

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Isn’t she pretty?


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And one of my favorite pictures of Mr. Margarita from the wedding. His eyes are buggin’ out!

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Our ring bearer clearly was not pleased at the idea of getting on this elephant, either.

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Thankfully, they both got over their fears and up they went. Apparently our ring bearer kept saying the entire time, “Daddy look at me!” over and over again.

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Things got a very delayed at this point because they were waiting on the dhol players who never showed up. Our awesome DJ, Parag, saved the day and busted out his portable speaker system to get the party started.

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The groom’s side arrived to the wedding singing and dancing:

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Meanwhile, my family was nervously waiting to greet them. This is an Indian tradition, so they were worried about messing everything up.

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My gorgeous sister in law reacting to Mr. Margarita on the elephant

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My mom greets Mr. Margarita:

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You’ll see a lot of feeding during the wedding.

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Then the garlanding process started. If you’d like to read more about the background/significance of all of this, you can visit my posts (1, 2, 3) on our Buddhist/Hindu ceremony.

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Our dads:

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My oldest brother and Mr. Marg’s grandfather:

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Our grandmothers:

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Our moms:

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Our brothers:

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After all the exchanging of garlands and some mingling, the boys made their way to the mandap/poruwa. Don’t they look so handsome and rugged here?

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Then the Hindu priest, Mr. Margarita, and his parents began the Ganesh puja while I got ready to make my entrance.

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This whole process took about 1.5 hours when it was supposed to last a maximum of 1 hour. I was a ball of nerves waiting because I had absolutely no idea what was going on and I couldn’t see anything from the changing area. My bridesmaids tried to keep me calm while my flower girls were playing and eating all that candy I put in their little suitcases.

Me and my three nieces hanging out:

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*picture taken by a friend

Here’s my baby niece looking all cute and mischievous.

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Next up, I walk up the aisle, and the ceremony (finally!).

All pictures unless otherwise noted by the always fabulous Dina Douglass of Andrena Photography.

Already blogged:

The Mendhi
Wedding Details
Our Fashion Show
Getting Pretty
Portrait Time

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40 Responses to “Our Big Fat Brown Wedding: Here Comes the Groom”

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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,706 posts, Bumble Beekeeper

WOW! Mr Frenchie is still really jealous of Mr Margaritas elephant by the way :)
P.S. I will tell you this on every recap, YOU ARE GORGEOUS!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  5,590 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow, it always amazes me how much is going! I can’t believe everyone can keep track of where they’re supposed to be and what they’re supposed to be doing!

 
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jduck84
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jduck84 (message)  1,529 posts, Bumble bee

So beautiful! Everyone looks incredibly happy and gorgeous. Especially you!

 
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Miss Dew Drop (message)  381 posts, Helper bee

So Mr. DD is really jealous of the elephant too. :) And I love the pic of you with your nieces! They’re just too cute!!

 
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Miss Cloud (message)  802 posts, Busy bee

How can I convince the catholic church we need an elephant!?! I love it all and you were all looking so gorgeous!

 
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His Barista
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His Barista (message)  5,831 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow! The elephant is awesome!!!

 
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crebre80
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crebre80 (message)  10,729 posts, Sugar Beekeeper

BEAUTIFUL!!!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

WOW! look at the celebration! now that’s a wedding! my sister is jealous of the elephant as well. haha.

 
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krissycake
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krissycake (message)  4,160 posts, Honey bee

These photos are beyond gorgeous! So colorful and full of life…feels like I was there =D Thanks so much for sharin!!

 
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Mrs. Toucan
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Mrs. Toucan (message)  1,327 posts, Bumble bee

i want an elephant! Everything is so gorgeous (especially you!).!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

That definitely looks like the way to celebrate. So full of life! All gorgeous!

 
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Mrs. Peep Toe (message)  1,804 posts, Buzzing bee

That elephant is pure AWESOMENESS. I so wish I could have been there- it looks like one amazing party.

 
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oKelsio
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oKelsio (message)  87 posts, Worker bee

I am so jealous of your wedding! I wish my heritage had some wonderful traditions like the groom riding in on an elephant. =) And your nieces are so cute!

 
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Miss Octopus (message)  1,451 posts, Bumble bee

Your wedding is SO stunning!

 
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vintage2010
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vintage2010 (message)  2,322 posts, Buzzing bee

I love the procession of the Groom. They all look so excited and happy for the two of you! Can’t wait to see your entrance :)

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  1,046 posts, Bumble bee

Your pictures are amazing and your wedding is sooo neat!!! It’s been awesome finding out about all the cultural differences in your wedding. I LOOOVE elephants and I think it is so awesome that your hubby got to ride in on one.

 
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PrettyKitty
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PrettyKitty (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

The picture of you and your nieces is beautiful-you are glowing in that picture. Love the elephant awesomeness and the garlands are so incredibly lush. Love them!

 
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Sulli301
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Sulli301 (message)  5,255 posts, Bee Keeper

Amazing!
I love the pictures :)

 
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Has anyone ever told you that your two families, different geographies aside, look astonishingly similar?

 
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thecolorteale
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thecolorteale (message)  685 posts, Busy bee

Wow Mr. Margarita’s family seems to know how to party haha! Everyone looks genuinely thrilled in both families. Amazing. :) :)

 
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Mrs. Margarita, Boston/Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 26, Healthcare Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Doctor Engagement Date: March 21, 2007 Wedding Date: August, 2008 Blogging Since: June 18, 2008 Venue: Saddlerock Ranch About Me: I grew up in Southern California, moved to Boston for college, New York for grad school, back to Boston and now I travel the northeast every week for work. When I'm not on the go, I love to read, draw, shop, sleep and spend quality time with my fiancé, family and friends. We're long-distance planning for our "big fat brown wedding" in California and are excited to unite our Sri Lankan and Indian cultures and Buddhist and Hindu religions in a unique and modern way.

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