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Mrs. Toucan, Boston Age and Occupation: 25, Full-time Research Assistant, Part-time Graduate Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Actuary Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: November 07, 2007 Venue: St. Catherine of Genoa, Jin Asian Cuisine Restaurant About Me: I’m a Gemini to the extreme. On one side, I’m a girly girl. I read countless bridal and fashion magazines, and have an obsession with keeping up with the latest Hollywood gossip. On the other side, I’m a sports fanatic. Despite being a full-time bride-to be, full-time research assistant, and part-time student, I’m also a full-time Red Sox fan from spring training to October, and a full-time Patriots fan from mini-camp to February. I devote almost as much time researching my for fantasy football team as researching for our wedding!
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I Can’t Keep Secrets

September 15th, 2009 @ 2:15 pm by Mrs. Toucan

Sometimes I get so excited about a gift to hubby that I give it to him early. :P

Mr. Toucan once mentioned that he wishes he had some cuff links for his work shirts, as opposed to the little rope knots that he usually uses. I knew of the perfect place to get him some cuff links, and planned to give these babies to him in October for our 8 year dating anniversary:

Nintendo Controller Cufflinks by the Clay Collection


They came in the mail yesterday along with these Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle ones:

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle Cufflinks by The Clay Collection

I quickly hid them before Mr. Toucan came home.

Unfortunately, they only stayed hidden until this morning when I saw the Mister wearing a french cuff shirt. He’s wearing the Nintendo Controller Cufflinks right now. :)

I won’t be buying any more presents for our dating anniversary, even though I now don’t have anything else to give him come October. I think the moral of the story is to not buy gifts so early. ;)

Does anyone else have problems keeping secrets (even presents!) from your partner?

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27 Responses to “I Can’t Keep Secrets”

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Ferris Wheel
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Ferris Wheel (message)  224 posts, Helper bee

I’m the same way. I’ve never made it to the proper date when gift giving…

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,328 posts, Bumble bee

I do this all the time, when it’s the perfect gift, it’s just too exciting! Love the throwback cufflinks.

 
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Mrs. Mary Jane
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Mrs. Mary Jane (message)  1,516 posts, Bumble bee

I’m terrible too. I buy it, then hide it, then he hints that he wishes he had a ____… and boom. I can’t stand not to give it to him.

 
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Mrs. Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Awwww, your behavior reminds me of my mister, who also gets so excited he tries to give gifts early. He also usually is NOT interested in opening gifts for himself (like at Christmas) and much more focused on the gifts he’s giving to other people — it’s so cute!

 
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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,529 posts, Bumble bee

i feel the same, even though my fi’s birthday is at the end of the month and i bought U2 tickets for him back in March for when they are in DC (two days after his bday) and miraculously haven’t spilled the secret yet… but it’s been so hard!

 
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Miss Pretzel (message)  333 posts, Helper bee

i am horrible also! I pick up some robot cuff links when I wandered into a store (on SALE for like $7!) while on my way to meet Mr Knit- I gave them to him as soon as I saw him… I can’t keep gifts a secret!

 
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Querida
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Querida (message)  1,074 posts, Bumble bee

I’ve seen these and I LOVE them. We’re actually going to try to give them to the GMs as a gift! ***PS*** I’m terrible at keeping secrets too!

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  4,008 posts, Honey bee

Those are so cool. I always try to hide presents for my husband, but I always want to tell him!

 
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ColorCoated
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ColorCoated (message)  951 posts, Busy bee

Those are great!

 
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nightfall (message)  17 posts, Newbee

I have some compass cuff links on my desk at work right now and I want to run home and give them to him every time my eyes drift to them. They are intended for our wedding so I have to wait til May!! Gah!!

 
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Miss Stiletto (message)  759 posts, Busy bee

Love! If I’d seen this sooner, totally would have bought the Dharma Initiative ones for Mr. S :)

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,616 posts, Sugar bee

those are cute! i suck at some secrets with the boy. mostly all of them. lol.

 
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IA_Snowflake
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IA_Snowflake (message)  1,608 posts, Bumble bee

I’m the same way, I want to give them to him as soon as I get them. He’s that way too though. For my birthday I got my present about three weeks early.

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  3,290 posts, Sugar bee

Story. of. my. life! I’ve never been able to keep presents hidden… I’ll buy him a gift & tell him instantly what I got him OR I’ll be like “You really like [insert type of gift here] don’t you?”

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  990 posts, Busy bee

Those are so cute!!

 
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis
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Soon2BeeMrsLewis (message)  507 posts, Busy bee

This seems to be my life story… it’s so hard to hold onto gifts!!! But then I end up spending MORE money because I want to give him a little extra something on the day of as well!

 
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alvina
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alvina (message)  298 posts, Helper bee

omg omg omg those two are my favorite. SOOOOOOOO CUTE!!!!!! Old skoo nintento and TMNT!! Yeeeeah!!! :-D

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

I have the HARDEST time not spilling the beans… I made Mr Frenchie cookie yesterday and I was so proud of myself for keeping them a secret until he got home :)

 
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loveardently
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loveardently (message)  83 posts, Worker bee

So so adorable! I’m currently trying not to spill the beans on what I’m getting my hubs for his birthday next month! :)

 
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Mrs. Gummi Bear (message)  175 posts, Blushing bee

so so so cute. love the nes controllers!!

 
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Shannon

Wow … most amazing Esty site ever. Thank you so much for sharing! (My fiance and I are super nerds:))

 
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Lindsay

I am the same way! I cannot hide a gift. Those cuff links are super cute btw!

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

Those cufflinks are awesome! And that’s so cute you gave them to him early. Mr E is the same way with gifts- he just gets too excited to wait :)

 
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beaninca
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beaninca (message)  76 posts, Worker bee

I spilled the beans about the present I am getting him for when we are getting ready.

I had to, he told me he was about to purchase it and I told him NO!! He wanted to know why and I had no choice, sucks!

ps. love those cufflinks, but they’re so expensive, couldn’t justify it. cute tho.

 
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bellenga
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bellenga (message)  4,611 posts, Honey bee

Those are so cute! I gave my guy for Christmas last year some vintage map cufflinks made by an Etsy designer. They were created from old maps and each one had a different city which highlighted our past and future.

 
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pvaulter718
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pvaulter718 (message)  1,593 posts, Bumble bee

I’m pretty good with it, but my Mr is terrible at it! I had mentioned several dozen times how hard of a time I was having finding a bracelet to match the M.Moto pearls I was wearing for our wedding, and he finally felt bad for me and caved and game them to me early…

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

Those are so lovely!! I get so excited when I buy or make things for him - I always have such a hard time hiding presents!!

 


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