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Mrs. Lamb, Norfolk Age and Occupation: 25, Homeland Security Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Graduate Student Engagement Date: January 2009 Wedding Date: January 2010 Venue: Trinity Presbyterian Church/Harrison Opera House About Me: I’m a Homeland Security Consultant with a tendency towards pulling office pranks, taking lunch breaks, and drinking Wawa shakes. I’m also an English major with a serious obsession with alliteration and rhymes. While I’m not keeping America safe, I’m training for half marathons and the Escape from Alcatraz swim. Or moving for the third time this year. Or baking. Or wedding crafting. Or crying about wedding planning. All the while, I’m getting myself into Lucille Ball-esque scrapes and making Jim Carey-esque faces. Our big fat Czech/Baptist/Jewish/Italian wedding is a combination of vintage eclectic, DIY, and little spoonful of sugar from our Event Coordinator. It’s going to be a Norfolk flavored wedding with the verve of an only-daughter-blow-out bash!
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Legacy

September 22nd, 2009 @ 5:05 pm by Mrs. Lamb

Me: Hi Mom! It’s 9/09/09! How crazy is that? Did you know this won’t happen for another trillion years? Yeah, I read that on wikipedia. Anyways, know what else is special? It’s your anniversary! Congratulations!

Mother Lamb: Uh, our anniversary was yesterday.

Riiiiiiight. The day before 09/09/09 (note to self, write that down somewhere), my parents celebrated their 30th anniversary. In this day and age, it’s a mighty proud accomplishment, and I couldn’t be happier for them.

The future Mr. Lamb’s parents are also happily married. And all four sets of our grandparents have honored their vows as well. It’s a huge blessing to us to have so many role models in our lives. People who have stuck it out for better for worse. People who have been through sickness and health. People who have seen richer and poorer. Some who have seen their vows through as long as they both lived.

It’s also a big legacy to live up to. On the heels of my parents’ celebration, I want to give them props for teaching me so many things about marriage. The following is just a sampling of my favorites:

  1. Love continues to grow deeper even when you think it can’t get any deeper.
  2. The adventure is in the journey together.
  3. The vows, committed before God, are life changing.
  4. You know it’s love when you can toot in front of them and they laugh.

To my parents, to my future in laws, to our grandparents - thank you. You all are my marriage heroes.

Share with me your marriage heroes! Who’s inspired you?

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bunny (message)  1,743 posts, Bumble bee

As always, you crack me up.

My parents are still happily married, as are Mr. Bunny’s. I hope we’re as in love as they still are 30 years from now!

 
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Miss Dachshund
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Miss Dachshund (message)  689 posts, Busy bee

My grandparents, definitely. Momi and Pope, I call them, have the happiest marriage of anyone I’ve ever met. After 59 years they are still completely in love.

FI’s parents also have a very love-filled successful marriage. When we were first engaged, FFIL wrote me, “If you have even HALF of what FMIL and I have, the two of you will have enough love to last many lifetimes over” I thought it was sweet.

 
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jhguba (message)  242 posts, Helper bee

hahaha. Love number four. My parents are one of the few in our extended family who have actually stayed together. They simply pounded it into our heads that divorce isn’t an option in this family. When I was little and all of my friend’s parents were filing for divorce, I knew I never had to worry about what was going on in my home. I’m very thankful to my parents for their example, and plan to set the same for my children one day!

 
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FlipFlopBride (message)  1,437 posts, Bumble bee

My parents are divorced, but both sets of grandparents stuck it out. My hero is my grandmother, who has been widowed since I was 7. To this day, she still shares memories of her happy marriage that endured through tough times and lots of wisdom from their years together.

 
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ColoradoBride12 (message)  165 posts, Blushing bee

My parents, and his parents are married, and all 4 sets of grandparents. (One grandfather died a couple years ago). We have 5×7s made of all 6 couples’ wedding pictures to honor them at our wedding. I am so exctied abou that part.

My parents really our an inspiration to me on marriage.

 
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future.mrs.v
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future.mrs.v (message)  358 posts, Helper bee

both sets of our parents and all four sets of grandparents are/were never divorced (we have two widowed grandmothers - one on each side), which i think is amazing! i admire all six couples so so much!! i was even blessed enough to know and have a good relationship with my great-grandparents on my paternal grandmother’s side (did that make sense?) - they were married until the day my great-grandpa died at age 92! i like to think that we are both coming from solid foundations. :)

and like coloradobride, we’d like to incorporate pictures of our parents/grandparents (and maybe even great-grandparents!) on their wedding days too. we just haven’t figured out how yet… any suggestions??

 
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

lol, you know, i barely know my parents’ anniversary so you’re one better than me! but what great inspirations you both have to look up to!

 
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Ms. Mojito (message)  399 posts, Helper bee

Cute post :-) I would have to say that my parents/grandparents are my heroes! My grandparents were married for over 50 years before they passed away. My parents for almost 40. I would also like to incorporate my parents pics into my wedding day. Mrs. V-I have seen people put pics on the place card/gift tables…just a thought.

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,732 posts, Bumble bee

I loved having my grandparent’s visit us for our July wedding, it’s so sweet to watch them taking care of each other now that their age has left them with some limitations. Together they make it through and it’s so touching. Lucky you to have so many great examples.

 
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alvina (message)  807 posts, Busy bee

Awww, I like :)

 
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RecessionistaBride (message)  5,018 posts, Bee Keeper

Aww what a sweet post! Congratulations Mom & Dad Lamb. That is a great accomplishment :)

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Busy Beekeeper

Both of our sets of parents are still married! The day after our wedding will be my parents’ 40th anniversary, and a month later is his parents’ 25th anniversary. :)

Congrats to your parents!

 
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,187 posts, Honey bee

My parents will be at 30 years next year. It’ll be exciting!

 
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LatteLove (message)  5,590 posts, Bee Keeper

both of my grandparents! who are celebrating 51 and 55 year anniversaries in November
I’m blessed to be surrounded by a large family full of healthy marriages–it has been a wonderful inspiration and example!

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,310 posts, Bumble bee

That’s so awesome that so many people in your life are still happily married. You have a great source of marital wisdom surrounding you :)

 
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Miss_Riley (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

My grandparents graciously allowed us to share their anniversary, they will be celebrating 51yrs the day we get married. In a day where divorce is just as common as life long marriages you are truly blessed to have so many great examples in your life.

 
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Well… if it’s a “mighty fine accomplishment,” I get a weird vibe from your use of the phrase “honoring their vows,” even though that might be an accurate way of putting it. It reads a little catty and condescending toward those couples that end up divorcing… and couples who didn’t make those traditional vows at their weddings! ;)

I genuinely don’t mean to nitpick, Miss Lamb, because that probably wasn’t what you intended, and I totally see your point. I’ve also been very lucky to have my grandparents (married 60+ years), my husband’s grandparents (married 50+ years), and my own parents (married 25+ years) to set good examples for me, and I cherish the things I’ve learned from watching their relationships.

But I also have to acknowledge that my parents probably would not have met, let alone dated, if my mom hadn’t been married once before - and I’ve certainly learned a few lessons for my own relationships from those stories, too!

 
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BucknellBride (message)  133 posts, Blushing bee

My great-grandparents were married over 65 years, and even in their 90s, they’d walk around holding hands all lovey dovey like. Definitely my marriage heroes.

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  1,046 posts, Bumble bee

On both sides of my family, and both sides of my fiances family, there are only 3 divorces, so we’ve got some great role models for our marriage!

 
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Adriana26
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Adriana26 (message)  348 posts, Helper bee

My parents are divorced and my husband’s parents never married…so we’re going to make sure out marriage inspires our friends and future children :)

 
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Mrs. Lamb, Norfolk Age and Occupation: 25, Homeland Security Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Graduate Student Engagement Date: January 2009 Wedding Date: January 2010 Venue: Trinity Presbyterian Church/Harrison Opera House About Me: I’m a Homeland Security Consultant with a tendency towards pulling office pranks, taking lunch breaks, and drinking Wawa shakes. I’m also an English major with a serious obsession with alliteration and rhymes. While I’m not keeping America safe, I’m training for half marathons and the Escape from Alcatraz swim. Or moving for the third time this year. Or baking. Or wedding crafting. Or crying about wedding planning. All the while, I’m getting myself into Lucille Ball-esque scrapes and making Jim Carey-esque faces. Our big fat Czech/Baptist/Jewish/Italian wedding is a combination of vintage eclectic, DIY, and little spoonful of sugar from our Event Coordinator. It’s going to be a Norfolk flavored wedding with the verve of an only-daughter-blow-out bash!

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