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Mrs. Beagle, Austin Age and Occupation: 26, Electrical Engineer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Finance Engagement Date: July 12, 2008 Wedding Date: October 2009 Venue: Church Ceremony/Reception at The Waterford House About Me: I am a true, but rare, Austinite---I was born, raised, and continue to live in this great city! Although I am an engineer by day, I feed my inner creative side through crafting, sewing, and obsessing over Martha Stewart. I love coffee, my mister, NPR, and exploring all the nooks and crannies of Austin. I can't wait to share my adventures in DIY and wedding planning with all of you!
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Old & Borrowed

September 22nd, 2009 @ 3:57 pm by Mrs. Beagle

This past weekend, I traveled to Fredericksburg with my father and sister to visit my Opa and Oma (German for grandfather and grandmother). Although the main purpose of the visit was to celebrate Opa’s birthday, I secretly had other intentions.

Before my mom passed away, we had talked about what kind of jewelry I would wear with my dress. We talked about me wearing the same jewelry she wore on her wedding day. One of the items she wore was a bracelet, which she borrowed from her FMIL, the Oma I visited this weekend. So, as we sat outside Sunday afternoon, I asked Oma if she still had the bracelet that my mom wore a little over thirty-two years ago. She did, and she was happy to let me borrow it for the wedding. She told me it was originally her mother’s bracelet, but she wasn’t sure how her mother came into possession of it. She even had the original box it came in. I love the picture that was shown on the inside of the box top:

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The bracelet is gold, and even though it is a little scratched, I like that it shows its age:

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The second piece of jewelry my mom wore was a locket that belonged to my other Oma, my mom’s mom. My mom inherited it when her mom passed away. Unfortunately, I never asked my Oma or my mom the origins of this necklace, so I’m not sure who gave it to Oma or why she received it. It has her initials engraved on the top:

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My mother and I share a middle name, which was also my Oma’s first name. I think I might put a picture of both of them in this locket to keep them close to my heart.

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I feel so lucky to be able to wear two items that are meaningful pieces to both sides of my family. And now they are even more sentimental to me because my mom wore them first:

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Are you wearing any heirloom items on your wedding day? If not, what other meaningful items will you be carrying with you?

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42 Responses to “Old & Borrowed”

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completelyrandomsally
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completelyrandomsally (message)  156 posts, Blushing bee

Oh, that’s precious! I’ve been trying to figure out a way to honor my mother like that. We never talked about anything like that because she passed away when I was 18. I love this. Thanks for sharing.

 
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MissPenny
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MissPenny (message)  42 posts, Newbee

What a great post Miss Beagle.

For my wedding, I wore a strand of pearls that was my mom’s mom’s. My grandfather gave her a double strand of pearls for their wedding in 1946. She later had those strands seperated and gave one to my aunt and one to my mom. That is the strand I wore. I also wore a 3 strand pearl and diamond clasped bracelet that was my dad’s mom’s.

I was so happy to be able to wear a piece from each of them, as they both passed away many years ago.

 
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This is a lovely idea.

Miss Beagle, I must say I’ve thought about you a lot since your mother’s passing, even though I only know you through WB and don’t usually post. I had a similar situation, with my mother passing 4 months before my wedding. It was devastating. But I was very thankful to have her pearl earrings and bracelet, ruby ring, and a vintage purse - and I carried/wore them all down the aisle, and also had a photo charm of her made for my bouquet. I get several compliments on my accessories when friends/coworkers look through the pictures - I feel very proud to say those items were my mothers.

 
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texasmeredith
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texasmeredith (message)  1,113 posts, Bumble bee

I’m wearing my Mom’s garter from her wedding. Its blue, old, and obviously borrowed. My parents have been happily married for 35 years, so hopefully it will bring a little luck to my marriage. I’m also having my paternal grandmother’s wedding ring turned into a pendant and I’m wearing it for the wedding. I’m not sure what I’m going to borrow from my maternal grandmother, but I’d love to incorporate something of hers too. I love the idea of honoring the generations before me.

 
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WDWBride
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WDWBride (message)  470 posts, Helper bee

I just received a fur stole that was my great grandmothers. We share the same initials which are stitched inside.

Beautiful pieces of jewelry you have! What a nice memory :)

 
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Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  867 posts, Busy bee

That is so sweet! I love this idea. I don’t know what jewelry I’ll wear yet. Maybe it’s time to raid my mother’s jewelry box!

 
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Mrs. Lightning (message)  128 posts, Blushing bee

The bracelet is beautiful. I love the first image of the packaging as well.

I carried a handkerchief belonging to my grandmother which I used during a choking incident and a slightly more romantic emotional moment. My hat didn’t belong to anyone in my family but it was an authentic 1920s hat and completed my something old.

 
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phruphru (message)  180 posts, Blushing bee

Big hugs, Beagle. Your mom’s memory and her love will be so present on your wedding day.

 
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september wedding
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september wedding (message)  113 posts, Blushing bee

Like Rachel, I too had a photo charm made for my weding bouquet. It was a photo of my grandmotherher who passed away two years ago and who raised me since I was a little girl. Many people commented and complimented me on them. I even had one made for each of my bridesmaids bouquets, but instead of a picture I had their initials stamped on the front and a quote put on the back.

 
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HugsKissesLadyBugsBride
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HugsKissesLadyBugsBride (message)  311 posts, Helper bee

This is so sweet!!

 
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LisaBee
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LisaBee (message)  117 posts, Blushing bee

oh goodness this made me tear. you are lucky to have heirlooms, they are lovely!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,328 posts, Bumble bee

Such lovely and meaningful jewelery. And yay to Fredericksburg, love to visit that place.

 
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bethanyleigh (message)  57 posts, Worker bee

I love both! I’m still hunting my something borrowed and something old… and this post is great inspiration for me to GET TO IT! (We have the same wedding date, I believe, so I should really get on the ball!)

 
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Mrs. Quiche (message)  2,175 posts, Buzzing bee

Miss B, I am so happy that you are able to have these pieces of your mom & grandmothers with you on your wedding day. They will be with you in your heart as well!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

Miss B, I too am so happy for you to have these pieces :) What a wonderful way to have your mother and grandmother with you on your wedding day.

 
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Irishker03
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Irishker03 (message)  536 posts, Busy bee

Miss Beagle - how great that you get to share such a wonderful touch with your mother and keep her close to you throughout your wedding. I’m so happy for you that your Oma still has the bracelet your mom wore!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  588 posts, Busy bee

This is so touching. You will look beautiful in these pieces, Miss Beagle. :)

 
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Miss Star (message)  1,277 posts, Bumble bee

What an amazing way to honor your Mom. I think it’s just so cool that you’re wearing something from her wedding day! I love that pic of her, too — you look so much like her!

 
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Miss_Carmel
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Miss_Carmel (message)  317 posts, Helper bee

I plan to use my fiance’s grandmother’s blue rosary around my bouquet. Love how your incorporating these elements into your day.

 
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Annui
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Annui (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

My grandmother gave me her pearl necklace from the 1920s. I’m incredibly excited to wear it!

 
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jhguba (message)  239 posts, Helper bee

You’re so lucky to be able to wear those heirlooms on your special day. They’re such beautiful pieces too. I have a ring that is passed down through all of the family to people who share the birthright name (I hate the name), but unfortunately I hate the ring. I think it’s downright ugly. Hopefully I can find something of my mom’s to wear. She has great taste!

 
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FlipFlopBride
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FlipFlopBride (message)  1,305 posts, Bumble bee

Beautiful pieces, Miss Beagle, so happy that you are able to carry them with you!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,625 posts, Sugar bee

wow, you are so lucky to be able to have heirlooms like that to wear. they look lovely

 
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Mrs. Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Awww, that’s so sweet! I didn’t have any heirlooms to wear on our wedding day — but I wish I did. You’re lucky to have such special accessories!

 
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ColorCoated
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ColorCoated (message)  951 posts, Busy bee

what a nice idea!

 
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Gretchin405

Those are beautiful! I’m doing something similar…my mom wore one of my grandma’s lockets when she married my dad. I will be working this locket into my bouquet wrap. I’ve also gone through my grandma’s jewelry box (she passed away when I was 12) and found 2 identical pairs of her pearl clip on earrings. I will be using one earring in my bouquet wrap, one in each of my sister’s bouquet wraps and the last one in the wrap on the nosegay I’ll be getting for my mom. That way we are each carrying her with us. I am getting a nosegay for both of our moms, instead of corsages and they will be minature versions of the bouquets they carried in their weddings (ironically enough, they each had the same exact flower combinations…must have been the era!).

 
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RecessionistaBride
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RecessionistaBride (message)  3,392 posts, Sugar bee

I’ll be carrying my FI’s grandmothers rosary in my bouquet. He was very close to her… and he asked me to. I’m not Catholic, but it means so much to him. We’re also naming our first daughter after her…

I love that you’re wearing these pieces… what a beautiful way to honor & remember your mother!!

 
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fiftyfootbride
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fiftyfootbride (message)  3,690 posts, Sugar bee

What beautiful jewelry. I love the bracelet.

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

Those are GORGEOUS! I seriously couldn’t stop staring at the bracelet! That’ so special that you not only get to wear amazingly beautiful vintage jewelry, but that it also has so much meaning behind it as well

 
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Carbon Girl
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Carbon Girl (message)  428 posts, Helper bee

I love that you are wearing the same jewelery as your mom did. What a wonderful way to honor her. That bracelet is gorgeous! WOW!

 
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kmattso2
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kmattso2 (message)  990 posts, Busy bee

That is so awesome that you get to wear the same jewelry that your mom did! What a great way to remember her and your Oma.

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  1,707 posts, Bumble bee

that’s so beautiful. i’m glad you get to wear these 2 pieces of jewelry.

 
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Mrs. Taffy (message)  2,599 posts, Sugar bee

I’m so happy that you will have these pieces with you on your wedding day!

 
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Jessie516
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Jessie516 (message)  4,008 posts, Honey bee

What beautiful jewelery and so special to have such sentimental pieces with you on your wedding day.

 
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Sarah

I have my mom’s wedding pearls, but the groom gave me a necklace the day of the wedding, so…

 
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JBeebe (message)  22 posts, Newbee

I’ll be wearing a gorgeous gold and aquamarine necklace that belonged to my great grandmother (we share the same birthstone, along with my grandma), and I’m going to incorporate some lace from GG on my dress as well as pieces from my mom and grandma’s wedding dresses.
I LOVE these pieces you have! They would be so beautiful (the box included) for detail photos on the day!

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  1,526 posts, Bumble bee

Those are so beautiful - the locket is amazing! Such a nice tribute to your mom and all of your family!!

 
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lcneiny
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lcneiny (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

What a sweet post, I’m so happy for you that you were able to get two things that are so special to you, for your big day :)

 
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cinemaparadiso
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cinemaparadiso (message)  1,403 posts, Bumble bee

I love this idea so much and the bracelet is so awesome! The locket is such a sweet idea :) happy that you have both items to wear!!!

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

that is so amazing an meaningful!

 
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kirsten44 (message)  38 posts, Newbee

Aww, those are really pretty. I’m glad you have something special to help bring a little bit of your mother into your wedding day.

 
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  3,310 posts, Sugar bee

Aww, that’s so sweet. I love the bracelet and the locket, and they are even more beautiful because they have so much meaning behind them.

 


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