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Miss Parfait, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Senior Online Consultant Engagement Date: February 14, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2010 Venue: Signature Events About Me: I have a soft spot for all things sweet and romantic. Desserts, love songs, sappy movies? Yes, yes, and ohh yes. My fiance and I enjoy singing to our dogs, creating crazy ice cream sundaes, and generally being lovey dovey cuddle bunnies. We also do socially acceptable things like dancing, throwing Frisbees, playing high stakes board games, and taking unreasonably fun road-trips. We're planning a Korean/Serbian wedding with plenty of playful, personal touches!
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A Perfectly Playful Proposal

September 27th, 2009 @ 1:05 pm by Miss Parfait

In my earlier posts, I hinted at the bunny theme in our wedding. I will tease you no more; here’s the scoop!

Mr. Parfait’s last name means bunny in Serbian. Within the family, there have been cottontails worn at weddings, children named after famous bunnies, and numerous rabbit-y nicknames! I love it, and I can’t wait to be his Mrs. Bunny (and Mrs. Parfait)!

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Playing up my future last name at a photobooth.

And now we’re all caught up and ready for the proposal story:


Mr. Parfait and I love playing silly games together. Disney Scene-It is one of our classics, but we also have a special talent of making up games on the spot. Early in our relationship, we made up competitive games with the book I Spy. Yes, the search-and-find children’s book. :) We marveled at the detail and work that went into each photo. Each page was a work of art!

For our engagement, Mr. Parfait secretly created his own I Spy! He, of course, went with a bunny theme. After filling a ping-pong table with bunny toys, he spent a whole evening snapping photos, rearranging bunnies, adjusting lights, and reviewing edits with his sister-in-law and grandmother. Finally, he took it to a printing store to have it blown up on a thick board.

On a chilly February night, he took me out to a romantic dinner. Afterwards, he asked me to wait while he pulled up the car. I watched him walk away… and then walk back with some enormous thing behind his back! He asked me to go on a walk with him. When we reached a fountain, he pulled it out, and I gasped at all the sweet bunny fluffiness.

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He made me find objects, words, and finally, my ring! Then he got down on one knee…

And well, I didn’t keep him waiting! You should hear Mr. Parfait describe how I responded when he asked me to marry him. According to him, there was quite a bit of trembling (it was cold!… And exciting!) and “OH MY GOSH”-ing and tiny gasping noises. Ahem. I remember being much more calm and ladylike as he slid the ring on my finger. ;) Here we are, seconds after the proposal:

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As for the I Spy bunnies? I loved them! I never saw it coming, and like many girls, I love a sweet surprise! It was a hit with our family and friends afterwards, too! Here’s my best bud trying to find all the items:

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Some of our loved ones came over that night to celebrate with a few of my favorite things: fondue, cake, and chocolate!

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My future mother-in-law made these cute signs and hung them all over the house!

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It was the perfect proposal for a hopeless romantic like me.

Did your proposal match your personalities?

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25 Responses to “A Perfectly Playful Proposal”

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bunny (message)  534 posts, Busy bee

Hey hey, I didn’t know we were so connected! Sorry I stole your icon, miss sweet layered goodness. ;) I’m happy to share my moniker with you!

 
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Ruby Slippers
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Ruby Slippers (message)  482 posts, Helper bee

Show us where the ring is in the picture! I can’t find it… :-)

 
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lcneiny
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lcneiny (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

What an adorable way to propose, very personal and you will remember it forever!

 
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CrstnBeach (message)  61 posts, Worker bee

I’m with RubySlippers - I can’t find the ring either! What a cute idea!

 
5.
bunnylovesbear
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bunnylovesbear (message)  396 posts, Helper bee

This is such a sweet story! I love it!!

 
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bunnylovesbear
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bunnylovesbear (message)  396 posts, Helper bee

p.s. I’m a “bunny,” too. :)

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  619 posts, Busy bee

@bunny: Heehee, you make a perfect Mrs. Bunny! I’ve loved your sweet posts.

@Ruby Slippers and @CrstnBeach: I guess I’ll let others have a chance to find it before I point it out. :)

@bunnylovesbear: So many bunnies here! Your icon is really cute, by the way!

 
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Jenniphyr
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Jenniphyr (message)  1,397 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my gosh, that’s so cute! =)

*sighs with envy* I both love and hate hearing about proposal stories…mine wasn’t a surprise at all (I am too good at guessing), so I’m a little jealous. ;)

The bunnies were an awesome idea, though. Love the detail.

 
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Miss Frozen Yogurt (message)  887 posts, Busy bee

such a sweet story. he did so well! I love that his family came over too.

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  1,531 posts, Bumble bee

that is incredible! I’m a bunny in a different way - Loverboy has always been into the chinese zodiac - and my year is the year of the bunny - so he always calls me bunny. I know it’s silly, but it’s us!
Your posts make me happy - I can really connect to you - Loverboy (who is my dragon, btw) and I are always playing games, making up different ways to play games, and making up games of our own.

 
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Annui
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Annui (message)  314 posts, Helper bee

That is adorable.

 
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tea
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tea (message)  2,659 posts, Sugar bee

wow, now that is a totally unique proposal! how sweet!

 
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His Barista
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His Barista (message)  1,844 posts, Buzzing bee

I found the ring immeadiatly, but I didn’t find any words! haha. This is so sweet!

 
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MariaPaz
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MariaPaz (message)  138 posts, Blushing bee

I found the ring, too! (I think…) Anyway, that is such a sweet proposal! I love the connection with the beginning of your relationship, it kind of completes the circle.

 
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FlipFlopBride
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FlipFlopBride (message)  1,305 posts, Bumble bee

Oh my gosh! Really, one of the most creative proposals ever! So great!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  619 posts, Busy bee

@alishaneva: Heehee, made-up games are the best. And I love the story behind your nicknames!

 
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fiftyfootbride
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fiftyfootbride (message)  3,809 posts, Honey bee

That’s such an awesome proposal story. :)

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

I love that he made the ispy game for you! And I’ve been staring at that picture for so long that my eyes hurt! I can’t find the ring! :)

 
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Mrs. Bruschetta (message)  5,553 posts, Bee Keeper

Awww, what a cute and super creative proposal!

 
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ColorCoated
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ColorCoated (message)  951 posts, Busy bee

That is super super super cute!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

What a sweet proposal story! HOW CUTE!

 
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LatteLove
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LatteLove (message)  4,120 posts, Honey bee

The bunny “I Spy” was the cutest thing ever!

 
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Miss Moonbeam (message)  1,335 posts, Bumble bee

Such a creative proposal!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  619 posts, Busy bee

Thanks, girls! I read the comments to Mr. Parfait, and he appreciates all the props!

Oh, and if you haven’t found the ring yet: See the bunny with the red bow and cape on the left side? My ring is tied to a ribbon across her tummy!

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,020 posts, Sugar bee

Awww how cute!! that’s such a creative proposal :)

 


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Miss Parfait Miss Parfait, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Teacher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Senior Online Consultant Engagement Date: February 14, 2009 Wedding Date: April 2010 Venue: Signature Events About Me: I have a soft spot for all things sweet and romantic. Desserts, love songs, sappy movies? Yes, yes, and ohh yes. My fiance and I enjoy singing to our dogs, creating crazy ice cream sundaes, and generally being lovey dovey cuddle bunnies. We also do socially acceptable things like dancing, throwing Frisbees, playing high stakes board games, and taking unreasonably fun road-trips. We're planning a Korean/Serbian wedding with plenty of playful, personal touches!
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