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Mrs. Dachshund, Fresno, CA Age and Occupation: 24, Legal Office Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Computer Technician Engagement Date: April 18, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Victorian Gardens of Two Sisters About Me: I’m a 24-year-old Californian bride-to-be who found love in the most unlikely of places - an online video game! I’m a farmer’s daughter living in rural Central California, but will always have a special place in my heart for the city. My future husband is a 27-year-old extraordinarily tall, exceptionally cute, and undoubtedly Canadian boy who was able to sweep me off my feet and take me for his bride. I love color, folksy songs that make me smile, interior design, kettle corn, my one-year-old puppy, Juno, and my fiance, of course! We’re planning a DIY garden wedding with a laundry-list of projects, all while dealing with the bureaucracy that is American Immigration!
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Living in a small town definitely has its perks. So the nearest IKEA or Crate and Barrel might be 200 miles away, but we are getting a Macy’s, and our freeways will never look like this:

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Sure, I have to drive two hours to find a Korean BBQ restaurant, but we have plenty of delicious (and authentic!) taco stands just around the corner!

Anyway, it’s taken me a while to embrace my town after moving from Los Angeles. I spent so much time focusing on what would no longer be available to me that I forgot to notice how much charm small towns have!

Then, as soon as I started planning our wedding, my attitude immediately reverted.

I was so worried I wouldn’t be able to find any talented vendors here in this middle of nowhere town. Granted, we won’t have many vendors because so much of our wedding will be DIY, but at the very least, we would have to outsource our food, photography and cake. The three most important things.

Great.

Actually, I’ve had pretty good luck so far with our photography and food, which I’ll blog about soon, I promise.

The cake, however, has been a different story.

It may be a result of the multitude of cake shows on TV, but I believe the standard for wedding cakes is much higher than it used to be. I was positive that I’d never find a bakery in my area that would live up to my sky-high standards. I knew I wanted something clean and modern, and was terrified we’d be presented with a cake like this on our wedding day:

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So I started my search for a bakery with a gallery of cakes that lived up to my expectations. After a few months of searching, I hadn’t had much luck. By way of website galleries, bridal shows, and walk-ins, I had browsed through cake photos from eight different bakeries. None of them impressed me. Lumpy fondant, messy scrolls and misshapen flowers abounded.

I was starting to consider cupcakes.

Then, I found Creme De La Cake in Fresno. They make cakes like this:

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and this:

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And this:

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I finally have confidence that a local bakery can create a beautiful cake using a collaboration of many inspiration photos. So I started searching! And boy, did find some FANTASTIC cakes!

I love that this cake looks like it’s wrapped in ric-rac and grosgrain ribbon. It’d definitely fit in well with our overall look!

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The flowers on this cake make me so happy!

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I wish this picture was larger so that I could see the detail. I looks so pretty, though. And it’s in our colors!

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These cakes are from the first real wedding I saw after considering our wedding colors. I think it was the little red stitches on the blue cake that sealed the deal for me!

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At this point I really have no idea what our cake is going to look like. We’re going to go for a tasting as soon as Mr. Doxie gets here in October, and I’m looking forward to seeing the designs we come up with together!

If our cake ends up looking anything like our inspiration photos, I’ll be happy!

Did any of you small town brides have a hard time finding vendors that exceeded your expectations?

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26 Responses to “On Being a Small Town Bride: Our Cake”

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Mrs. Bruschetta (message)  5,565 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow, your inspiration cake photos are just beautiful! Creme de la Cake seems like a fantastic place :-)

 
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grace8367 (message)  1,014 posts, Bumble bee

Totally! We live in Chicago but got married in a little town 7 hours away. We wanted to use as many local vendors as possible and had a hard time finding some of them. In the end it was a mixed bag- some were absolutely wonderful and some (like the florist who decided they wanted the weekend off and let us know 2 weeks before the wedding that they were not going to do the arrangements for our ceremony) just plain didn’t get it. We used a small local bakery and our cake was definitely a pale version of the inspiration photos we supplied but it tasted great and was one of the few things that cost less than we planned.

 
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Mrs. Mouse
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Mrs. Mouse (message)  5,821 posts, Bee Keeper

Oh my gosh, that first cake is hideous! Glad you found a baker that makes gorgeous cakes!

 
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thefuturemrsjewell
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thefuturemrsjewell (message)  1,829 posts, Buzzing bee

awesome inspiration pics! I hope that they taste as good as they look when you do your tasting later this month!

 
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Mrs. Mary Jane
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Mrs. Mary Jane (message)  1,973 posts, Buzzing bee

Hehe, I chuckled when you referred to Fresno as a small town. ;) But in actuality, Grand Forks does have a Macys already so we’re one-up on you there! ;)

We pretty much had to choose between grocery store cake (Sam’s Club), or getting someone we know to make it. We were really happy with the latter choice - she did a great job!

I love that last pic with the little cake that looks like a package. SO CUTE!!

 
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Miss Giraffe
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,187 posts, Honey bee

Wow! Those cakes are amazing (with the exception of the top one). Good job finding a great place!

 
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Miss Dachshund (message)  689 posts, Busy bee

@Mrs. Mary Jane: Wellll, in all actuality I live in the county between Tulare and Tipton. Tulare’s getting up there in population, but still it offers very little. Fresno is just the nearest recognizable city :)

Sometimes I forget that Fresno businesses are available to me. It’s about 45 minutes north of my house, but only about 15 from our venue!

 
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Miss Dachshund
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Miss Dachshund (message)  689 posts, Busy bee

@Miss Dachshund: Country* boo. Wish we could edit comments!

 
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AbbieOinCO
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AbbieOinCO (message)  184 posts, Blushing bee

I feel your pain on living in a small town… the nearest mall is 3+ hours away (more in the winter) and the nearest IKEA is 6 hours away! Our cake lady was one of the best in town, so I didn’t feel nervous. We had her make a presentation cake and cupcakes as well… the cake looked amazing, but the colors weren’t what I had asked for… and the cupcakes looked like I made them. I was disappointed, but everyone was talking about the taste, not the look.

Love the look of those cakes! The floral one is too cute.

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  7,951 posts, Bumble Beekeeper

Mmmm…those cakes look so good it made me hungry! I have family that lives in Tulare, it is getting bigger than it used to be!

 
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Mrs. French Bulldog
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Mrs. French Bulldog (message)  7,706 posts, Bumble Beekeeper

*SWOOOOOON* I want those first two cakes!

 
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kayakgirl73
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kayakgirl73 (message)  2,478 posts, Buzzing bee

I’m really worried about my small town cake baker and thing ended up more expensive than I thought because there were hidden fees. I knew $2.50 a slice was too good to be true.

 
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pansyshell (message)  1,955 posts, Buzzing bee

The ribbon cake is amazing and would go perfect if you decided to do those ribbon flowers!

 
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tea
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tea (message)  7,278 posts, Busy Beekeeper

i love those last two pictures! i’m so glad to hear you were able to find some fantastic talent in your neck of the woods!

 
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Miss Ramen (message)  354 posts, Helper bee

the vine one w the little red berries/flowers? precious.

the last one with the stitches - omg i’m just DYING, it’s soooo freakin cute. do it!!!!

 
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Miss Parfait (message)  1,755 posts, Buzzing bee

That ribbon-y cake is crazy! I love the mini cakes with their mini stands…too cute!

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Busy Beekeeper

That first cake looks like scary pooped all over it. lol.

The ‘good’ ones you posted are SO fantastic. :) The ribbon one is so gorgeous, and I also love the cherry one.

 
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Annui
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Annui (message)  343 posts, Helper bee

My problem isn’t that the local places do bad work, it’s that they’re all SO SLOW. And most of them don’t seem to have websites.

 
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Miss Poodle
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Miss Poodle (message)  3,386 posts, Sugar bee

I am so glad you found that awesome place! :)

 
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mrspaetz
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mrspaetz (message)  3,805 posts, Honey bee

the one with the cherries is so awesome! nice find :)

 
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Mrs. Dachshund, Fresno, CA Age and Occupation: 24, Legal Office Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Computer Technician Engagement Date: April 18, 2009 Wedding Date: May 2010 Venue: Victorian Gardens of Two Sisters About Me: I’m a 24-year-old Californian bride-to-be who found love in the most unlikely of places - an online video game! I’m a farmer’s daughter living in rural Central California, but will always have a special place in my heart for the city. My future husband is a 27-year-old extraordinarily tall, exceptionally cute, and undoubtedly Canadian boy who was able to sweep me off my feet and take me for his bride. I love color, folksy songs that make me smile, interior design, kettle corn, my one-year-old puppy, Juno, and my fiance, of course! We’re planning a DIY garden wedding with a laundry-list of projects, all while dealing with the bureaucracy that is American Immigration!

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