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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.
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I’m pretty sure the day after the wedding, I wanted to email each and every one of our vendors and gush about how fabulous they were! True story. However, Mr. S urged me to hold off until after the honeymoon. While we were away, we stayed off of Facebook and made ourselves invisible on Google Chat. I did sneak in a little Weddingbee (shh…), but Mr. S sneaked in a few work emails, so I guess we’re even.

On our first night officially in town, we released the gushing emails onto our vendors - I think Mr. S was just as excited as I was to share lovely words with the individuals who helped make our day so special!

Vendor Review: Marilyn of Honeybee Weddings

Vendor Review: Marilyn of Honeybee Weddings :  wedding wedding planner Honeybe  Source

I shared a little while back about why we chose to hire a day of coordinator (DOC). I wanted to know that the little details were taken care of, and while I thought our DJ was a fabulous and great guy, I didn’t want to have to talk to him or anyone else about the timeline on that day. I was there to celebrate and have fun, darn it!

Marilyn delivered a hundred times over on the weekend of our wedding. She helped ensure our rehearsal the evening before ran smoothly, taught our ushers how to work the aisle runner, and kept us all in line.

On the morning of, it was a relief to have Marilyn show up at the hotel with binder in hand. The monster spreadsheet she’d had me fill out in the weeks leading up to the wedding - covering timelines, bridal party contact info, reception set up details - was organized and at the ready. It was Marilyn who was calling down to the front desk for the extra chairs needed for hair and makeup, running out to pick up lunch for everyone, and getting all of us out the door and over to the church on time.

After the ceremony (which started ON TIME and went perfectly), we went off to take pictures, and Marilyn headed over to the reception site to finish setting up the little details, be present for cake delivery, DJ set up, and to light all of those pesky tea light candles.

We were ahead of schedule with pictures, so we arrived at the reception site earlier than planned and were able to check out the ballroom while our guests were enjoying the cocktail hour. Everything was simply gorgeous! All that I had left for Marilyn to take care of was done perfectly.

Throughout dinner, Marilyn would pop over to our table and give us updates - we were ahead of schedule, so if it was fine by us we’d push back the toasts, or, the catering staff was leaving our cake out longer because it looked so fabulous (yay!!).

As we danced the night away and after some guests had left, Marilyn quietly gathered different decor items off of the tables and packed them away. She had the DJ announce that guests could take the table arrangements (something I hadn’t even considered as an option), which solved the question of what we would do with all of these tall and short vases after the wedding! And, once we’d danced the last dance and were ready to leave, Marilyn had all gifts and decor boxed up, on a trolley, and ready to load into my parents’ car.

In a day that was a mix of excitement and anxiety, I so greatly appreciated having Marilyn there. She was cool, calm and collected. She allowed my family and friends to enjoy the day and not worry about coordinating a thing. Our budget didn’t initially include a DOC, but I think our biggest regret would have been not hiring one.

Thank you, Marilyn!

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12 Responses to “Vendor Review: Marilyn of Honeybee Weddings”

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tea
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

this is exactly why i want a doc. i’m glad marilyn was able to make such a big assist on your wedding day!

 
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MexicanGirl
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MexicanGirl (message)  724 posts, Busy bee

sounds like you had such an amazing experience with your DOC!

 
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KMSull (message)  6,442 posts, Bee Keeper

! I have been debating all over the place about having a DOC since all my mom’s friends are AMAZING and ALL want to help, but this definintely sways me into having one.

 
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IA_Snowflake
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IA_Snowflake (message)  1,913 posts, Buzzing bee

That’s great that yours worked out so well. It would have been so muchmore of a relief if my coordinator had been better.

 
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Miss Elephant
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Miss Elephant (message)  6,177 posts, Bee Keeper

I’m so glad to hear that your DOC was well worth it! We hired one and reading this makes me happy that we did.

 
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RAllise (message)  498 posts, Helper bee

My fiance and I were on the fence about a DOC till about a month ago. As we looked at the project and set up list, we decided it would be well worth the money and peace of mind. I interviewed my DOC today. Loved everything they had to say and already received an emailed quote. It’s a smart move

 
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Miss Scissors (message)  7,343 posts, Bee Keeper

We still have to find a DOC. I’ve found a few around here that were a little too hands-on, and did NOT share my ‘vision.’

 
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Lillindy
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Lillindy (message)  7,974 posts, Bee Keeper

Wow, she does sound amazing!

 
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Miss Giraffe
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Miss Giraffe (message)  4,216 posts, Honey bee

Thanks for the review. I still don’t know if we want a DOC or not, but this definitely gives me something to think about!

 
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alishaneva
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alishaneva (message)  2,152 posts, Buzzing bee

It’s so great to see a nice review. We tend to so often hear only the bad things about a vendor - and it’s great to know someone had a good experience!

 
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KayMeiBee
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KayMeiBee (message)  156 posts, Blushing bee

It’s a year after you wrote this post and I am so thankful you did! I’m on the search for a DOC for my Chicago wedding and it looks like Marilyn is going to get a call from me!

 
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Mrs. Stiletto (message)  918 posts, Busy bee

@KayMeiBee: Awesome! I actually joined the Honey Bee team last year as a DOC, so no matter which one of us is available on your date, you’ll definitely be in good hands :)

 

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Mrs. Stiletto, Chicago Age and Occupation: 26, Non-Profit/Fundraising Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Engineer and Photographer Engagement Date: March 2, 2008 Wedding Date: September 2009 Venue: The 19th Century Club About Me: My fiance and I love living in the city of Chicago with our cats Basil and Linus, and vow to never move to the suburbs if we can possibly avoid it! We’ve poured ourselves into planning a wedding that reflects our personal style - modern and high contrast with a vintage twist. Blogging keeps me creative, baking keeps me happy, and grande nonfat no foam sugar free vanilla lattes keep me sane.

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