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Were you physically attracted to your fiance immediately, or did the physical attraction come after you got to know each other more?

Mrs. Mascara - I had a huge crush on Mr. Mascara as a high school freshman, which is weird considering we didn’t really know each other at that point! I remember secretly being jealous when he asked a friend of mine to a dance my freshman year. We didn’t end up dating until a couple years later, but I think the attraction was always there!

Mrs. Snow Pea - Immediately. He had good teeth, eyes, a nice smile and clean fingernails.

Mrs. Mouse - It wasn’t immediate, as in “the first second I saw him”, but I was physically attracted to my husband by the end of the night we first met, when he kissed me. I’m pretty sure it was mutual.

Mrs. Bruschetta - I had a school girl crush on Mr. Bruschetta (hey, come on, I was 17!), and that’s what inspired me to ask him to my senior prom. We started dating a few weeks after the prom — but not before I learned that he thought I was cute, too.

Miss Lamb - I’m fairly certain that there was no physical attraction between us when we first met. He couldn’t remember my first name and I really liked someone else at the time. After two years of friendship, we grew into something more. Now I get shivers just thinking about him and how that man is going to me mine forever!

Mrs. Gloss - Not really on my end (but to be fair it was high school, and he hadn’t quite grown into his nose yet) – although the lack of attraction was not mutual :). We spent a lot of time together at tennis practice and teaching ski lessons in the winter and became good friends first. I fell in love with his personality and our relationship developed from there.

Mrs. Bunny - I wouldn’t say I was attracted to him immediately. We had mutual friends, so we knew each other casually for awhile before I suddenly got a crazy intense crush on him. Like, one second I didn’t have a thing for him, the next second, he was all I could think about! At that point, I was done for!

Mrs. Crab Cake - I don’t think it was immediate. I must have thought he was cute, I did strike up conversation with him in a bar 4 hours from home. I was definitely hooked by the end of our first date, though. Even after the worst Italian food I’ve ever had, and a vulgar comedy show. He was a perfect gentleman and had me hooked!

Mrs. Joey - I would say sort of. I saw him and thought he was really cute but then dismissed it because I heard he had a girlfriend.

Miss Ramen - I always thought Mr. Ramen was really cute, but not in an “I want you now” kind of way. But now… the years have been very very good to him.

Mrs. Peep Toe - Mr. Peep was so shy when we first met that I didn’t even remember meeting him the first three times. I now like to say he’s a slow burn—I can’t imagine not noticing his cute smile and his kind eyes.

Miss Star - I thought he was cute before I really knew him, and he says he thought I was smokin’. We both think we’re getting better looking with age! Or maybe that’s just love talking…

Miss Dachshund - Because Mr. Dachshund and I met on the internet, we were able to get to know each other, and fall in love with each others’ personalities before we saw each other in person. That said, I remember thinking just how attractive he was that night I picked him up at LAX for the first time! He definitely would have caught my attention if he was just a stranger on the street.

Miss Frozen Yogurt - I was definitely attracted to Mr. Fro Yo when I first saw him, and I was embarrassed because I was wearing a plain tee and some jeans, not expecting to meet anyone at this little bar. He did however, need a little help in the style department. He’s much better now, though.

Mrs. Mary Jane - Mr. Mary Jane and I were friends before we became an “item”. I did think he was pretty cute, but that’s about as far as it went because I really was not looking to date (and, he was also a coworker!). Later, when things got a little more intense (”tension,” anyone?), I thought he was very attractive indeed.

Mrs. Cupcake - The first time I saw Mr. Cupcake, he was playing beer pong and wearing a mullet wig (it was Halloween, remember?). I could tell he had a cute face and great eyes despite the goofy costume, and I was already attracted to his personality once we started to talk, but I was pleasantly surprised to find out just how adorable he was when the mullet wig came off later that night. I was definitely instantly attracted to him from that first night.

Mrs. Cherry Blossom - Hmmmm … Imma have to think about that one. Just kidding. Yes I was instantly attracted to him. The funny thing is, my friends knew before I did because before we met on our own, they had actually wanted to introduce me to him (but it failed). LOL

Mrs. French Bulldog - As you know, Mr Frenchie and I met online. I was immediately attracted to this picture on his profile. Yes, there were other pictures of his whole face, but I liked his smile in the this one obviously, because I saved it. Haha.

Miss Cloud - Mr. Cloud and I met through our best man, but about two years before actually meeting him, I saw his picture online (Webshots anyone? You know you stalked your friends’ pictures). My roommate at the time and I saw Mr. Cloud’s picture and immediately started calling him Best Man’s Hot Friend. So yeah, I was attracted from the first time I laid eyes on him. It’s funny though, I think he is even MORE attractive now, because I know him, and the more I know him the better looking he gets. Funny how things work out like that.

Miss Poodle - Immediately physically attracted? That would be a BIG yes! Form the moment I sat next to him after he picked me up while hitchhiking I was attracted. And according to Mr. Poodle, it was mutual. Hehe.

Mrs. Dumpling - Um yeah! He’s hecka fine! Then I realized how goofy and ghetto and cheap he was and I was all over it.

Ms. Champagne - I was IMMEDIATELY attracted to Champ and knew that we would have great chemistry. I actually thought he looked like a player (which was kind of a turn on—sad, I know), but when he opened up to me I realized he was in our relationship for good.

Ms. Swan - When I first met him I really didn’t think of him that way (again, I was pretty clueless/not really looking for anyone) although we were in a beach setting, so we got to see each other without a lot of clothing on. I was pretty impressed by what I saw, but I wouldn’t say I was completely attracted at first. I think he was impressed, too. I definitely have grown to appreciate how attractive he is.

Mrs. Cherry Pie - I was physically attracted to Mr. CP when I first met him. The thing that did me in was his smile! We didn’t start dating for a while, but once we got close as friends, I realized that I also liked his physique and, surprisingly, his smell. Scent is always important to me, and he wins big in that department.

Mrs. Duckling - I met Mr. Ducky when I was a freshman in college and definitely thought he was cute and very attractive. However, we didn’t start dating until 2 years later and I still was very attracted to him, which only grew as we got to know each other.

Mrs. Espresso - I was immediately attracted to Mr. Espresso the first time I saw him. I was being introduced to him and I couldn’t stop staring into his baby blues. Ahhh… love at first sight.

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Were you immediately attracted to your SO when you first met?